Dec 28, 2021·2 repliesbloomThere’s racism / insecurity involved for some people but to shame people for having a preference, across the board, is weird, f***ed up, and intellectually dishonest
I prefer black/brown women bc in most cases i’m more aligned w them culturally plus we tend to share similar principles
some people here/ on twitter/ in college have a tendency to try to be socially perfect when in reality it just isn't possible or realistic
- Dec 28, 2021·1 replyTwist Your Cap
some people here/ on twitter/ in college have a tendency to try to be socially perfect when in reality it just isn't possible or realistic
They need to get over that programming. That s*** isn’t getting you nowhere in life.
- Dec 28, 2021bloom
They need to get over that programming. That s*** isn’t getting you nowhere in life.
most people grow out of it I feel like once the realize their own preferences
for most I feel like it's a phase on the path to understanding yourself
- Dec 28, 2021
op ah goofy how you ah man crying about dating apps
Dec 28, 2021·2 repliesbloomThere is. Cultural similarities and visual preferences. Y’all are f***ing weird
What about the situations where someone outside of your race understands your culture more than someone else in your own race
- Dec 28, 2021·1 replyYoungFashioned
What about the situations where someone outside of your race understands your culture more than someone else in your own race
reading a book about someone's culture compared to someone living it are significantly different lol
it depends on the people though
- Dec 28, 2021Twist Your Cap
reading a book about someone's culture compared to someone living it are significantly different lol
it depends on the people though
yeah, im not talking about someone reading a book lol.
- Dec 28, 2021
accurate, the social awareness stuff has always been a thing, just a bit more of a magnifying glass on it due to the internet
the key is to respect everyone equally
Dec 28, 2021
BIGGWAVEwho?
U have em in all races
I been told by white women that liked me to act or this or that, or they'd tell me to calm it cause am just that dudeIve seen it done by other races to towards white ppl tbh
Even i do it as sorr defensive mechanism
But then again my pov is from Belgium.- Dec 28, 2021
ragedsycokillerMan if you put this much effort into stocks or crypto you will be a millionaire lol
I do and I am
- Dec 28, 2021
That's more eth than I own
I need to follow your portfolio then lol - Dec 28, 2021YoungFashioned
What about the situations where someone outside of your race understands your culture more than someone else in your own race
What do you mean?
If it’s a match is a match. I don’t straight dismiss girls based on my preference but I know myself very well. More often than not my radar has correctly filtered people out for me, and the girls outside of my preference get filtered the quickest.
- Dec 28, 2021
jordan at wizardsgreat. becky won’t suck ops d*** now we gotta do the million man march 😒
Basically
- Dec 28, 2021
ColtWilliamsMusicNena, a Black Floridian, noted:
“A couple of months ago I liked this White guy on Bumble… He tells me, ‘I love Black women.’ I could tell he’s the type that dates Black women, but… He was like, ‘I don’t like when Black people say “Black Lives Matter”; all lives matter.’ We had a discussion about it, and I didn’t like it. Then after than I was just like, yeah, that don’t make any sense to me. Then I just stepped back.”
As Nena pointed out, a willingness to date Black women often does not mean an embrace for racial justice. One can “love” Black women without seeing the struggle Black women experience on a daily basis. Alicia is also acutely aware of this difference. When sharing her experience conversing with a White men she met on a dating app, she said:
“Well, I had a conversation with him and was just like, but I’m a Black woman. If you date me, there’s certain stuff you’re gonna have to know. He was like, ‘I don’t care. I am gonna be there for your, blah, blah, blah.’ I just wasn’t convinced. You know? I just feel like when you see a red flag… I said, ‘What if we had kids together? … Do you realize because you’re White, that doesn’t mean your kids are not gonna face what I go through?'”
https://www.ucpress.edu/blog/54733/dating-while-black-online-but-invisible/
Is interracial dating really about love? Vol. 10000000
- Dec 28, 2021
ROLFYou clearly didn’t read the links OP provided none of this is about “minorities wanting white people to f*** them”
It’s cool. They don’t want to read. Let em get they ish off
- Dec 28, 2021ColtWilliamsMusic
It's like y'all didn't read the OP...or couldn't read the OP. I'm not sure which to explain why y'all comprehension for the thread topic is so low
For the slow ones in the back!!
Dec 28, 2021
KAYTRANADADating apps made for white dudes only
If you have even a hint of an ethnic background good luck lol
no cap, dating apps are bogus for poc
we’re just feeding an algorithm for ads
Nuja 🫶🏾Dec 28, 2021ColtWilliamsMusicIt's like y'all didn't read the OP...or couldn't read the OP. I'm not sure which to explain why y'all comprehension for the thread topic is so low
Very apparent a lot of relies itt are reactionary and didn’t read op or the articles
- Nuja 🫶🏾Dec 28, 2021KAYTRANADA
Dating apps made for white dudes only
If you have even a hint of an ethnic background good luck lol
I’m actually mad surprised Asian men are on the low side of the dating spectrum since they are just below white people on the social
- Nuja 🫶🏾Dec 28, 2021
ZaywopI don’t feel like explaining the movie “Friday” to a white woman
Respectfully
In my dating history only 2 of my white exes have seen Friday. I actually made it a deal breaker on this alone for talking to white women because I noticed a common theme with the ones who haven’t seen it lmaooo
Dec 28, 2021
UndecidedIf you think dating apps are the only way to meet people during Covid, you sir are the moron.
I'm listening
Dec 29, 2021·1 replyPeople flaming op have exposed their white privilege. Being a non white male on any of these dating apps is like playing a video game on hard mode. White boys have it easy