Shammy

3y

When I see couples doing lovey dovey stuff it just makes me cringe so hard. I feel like I'm not built for real love tbh

Also number 6 is a big part of it I think. Like once u get past that it's way easier to cultivate good relationships

ALPHABEAR

3y

Threads like this make me wanna change my f***ing name bruh

All these p**** ass red pill “woke” (closet loser) mfs royally f***ed up the term Alpha like crazy.

S*** was our HS sports mascots team name + a play on words with Kanye’s “grad-bear”...

wusgood

3y

Good stuff OP. I have been making moves lately like these

GoodFella

3y

All good fam we here know you’re not like that

ALPHABEAR

3y

Thank u slime I appreciate it

And for it’s worth - all points in OP are factual & 100% positive to do. But if that s*** doesn’t work out...

“Just keep moving forward until all ya enemies are dead”- Eren

MrKiD

3y

@op

I agree with everything, but with #6, I feel like someone (whether male or female) is going to sexualize each other in our minds one way or the other. I mean unless you don't care about s***that much, then it won't matter that much to you.

Also it all comes down to self control too, if you don't know how to do that, then you're going to fail in a lot of relationships. I'm learning this myself too, because I want to improve my mind and respect the girls around me.

GoodFella

3y

Well, it’s ok to have sexual attraction. It becomes a problem when your motives become only that, though. Because you’re basically just treating girls as objects in a way. Already strategically thinking about how you can swindle into her pants. Rather than getting to know a person, you only care about sex. You sacrifice yourself, to turn into a fake you to get p****.

As a young guy this is normal. But as you get older, the intentions become internalized. It’s something you have to unlearn.

You will realize a new life and enlightenment when you control these desires correctly. A newfound joy will surround yourself. Everything becomes easier, and also, everything comes back to you. Because you, are ultimately yourself, and now the sexual desires you hunted for come to you naturally.

MrKiD

3y

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💯% Agree, I feel like a lot of relationships fail due to the fact that many of us don't want to build a relationship with someone. Like they're in it for their own selfish pleasures like s***instead of being in it for companionship and learning about each other's strengths and weaknesses. If we get past that sexual mindset, and just learn to try to build a understanding between each other, then we can grow and mature mentally.

GoodFella

3y

Love to hear it

MR MUCUS

3y

Love this thread, great job OP

wusgood

3y

I’m really close to becoming a better, happier version of myself. I’ve made strides and seeing results but i can do better

GoodFella

3y

First, abandon the terms alpha beta simp and all terminology of that nature

#2 unfollow and unsubscribe to all alpha male channels/pages you subscribe to

#3 Be mature. Learn yourself. Clean up after yourself. Learn new things. Avoid the distractions that we see every day.

#4 Induldge yourself with wholesomeness. There is too much evil in the media that makes us think that everyone acts the exact same way.

#5 Give love without receiving. Give kindness without expecting anything back.

#6 Stop sexualizing every woman. Of course you can appreciate looks, but you have to get out of the mindset of looking at attractive women for only sex.

#7 Do only what you love to do. In your free time, don’t spend it in limbo. You need to attract that positive energy to you in every way possible.

#8 Kill your ego. This is the most important step of all. This can happen two ways, the way in which someone else does it to you, and the way you can kill this yourself. You should look at everything in a neutral sense. You are not better than anyone else, yet also, no one else is better than you.

#9 Take a leap of faith. This is the last step. You are now a new man. Start interacting with others that you normally wouldn’t. Get comfortable with taking a risk in the unknown.

These things may seem random, but they will 100% help you make real, sustainable relationships that are not just surface level. And also. It will make you a better person

exclave oasis

3y

"You are not better than anyone else, yet also, no one else is better than you."

I like this line a lot, you preaching man
Gospel

sosAMG

3y

I learned to apply all this and now I know who ima marry bro it’s an overwhelming feeling

GoodFella

3y

Love it man