Ive been slowly peeling back the layers of what I actually want out of a relationship, and how my actions need to be a reflection of that.
We genuinely attract people based on the energy we put out. Meaning by being authentically who you want to be you will innately be with who you want to be with.
Great realization
A lot of guys blame women for the things that they do. But we are also to blame, we feed into it.
Usually these “gurus” only deal with people that will only use them in the end. They set themselves up. They had the wrong intentions up front and it bites them in the ass.
Y'all are actually subscribed to alpha male pages & s***
They’ve become extremely popular recently
First, abandon the terms alpha beta simp and all terminology of that nature
#2 unfollow and unsubscribe to all alpha male channels/pages you subscribe to
#3 Be mature. Learn yourself. Clean up after yourself. Learn new things. Avoid the distractions that we see every day.
#4 Induldge yourself with wholesomeness. There is too much evil in the media that makes us think that everyone acts the exact same way.
#5 Give love without receiving. Give kindness without expecting anything back.
#6 Stop sexualizing every woman. Of course you can appreciate looks, but you have to get out of the mindset of looking at attractive women for only sex.
#7 Do only what you love to do. In your free time, don’t spend it in limbo. You need to attract that positive energy to you in every way possible.
#8 Kill your ego. This is the most important step of all. This can happen two ways, the way in which someone else does it to you, and the way you can kill this yourself. You should look at everything in a neutral sense. You are not better than anyone else, yet also, no one else is better than you.
#9 Take a leap of faith. This is the last step. You are now a new man. Start interacting with others that you normally wouldn’t. Get comfortable with taking a risk in the unknown.
These things may seem random, but they will 100% help you make real, sustainable relationships that are not just surface level. And also. It will make you a better person
Working on #6 and #8 the most. #4, I feel like used to be me, but I’m getting back to my roots. Almost lost a good girl cuz of #6, but luckily she communicated it with me. Gotta do better fr, but it’s something I’m definitely going to improve on
One of the most important & informative threads I’ve seen. GoodFella is a fitting username
One of the most important & informative threads I’ve seen. GoodFella is a fitting username
was expecting some bullshit but op actually did a great job
What about the heart broken who are afraid to go beyond a one night stand?
Hey,
One night stands aren’t for everyone
Some guys, like girls, get attached to people they f***. It’s normal! Some guys just like relationships and not sleeping around
That’s normal, know yourself, be honest with who you come in contact with.
But don’t be afraid, one day you’ll be an older you looking back. Have no regrets. Fight...fight...fight!