Is she on the lease now?
I don’t think so… ButI do know he wants me to sign a year long lease tomorrow but my family saying don’t do it.
I’m supposed to be moving into a condo with a roommate for college (UVA). However, my roommate decided at the last minute to let me know that his girlfriend would be staying with us too.
My move in date is tomorrow and I’m honestly lost as to how to proceed. My mom thinks I should find a different place to stay, but classes start Tuesday. I currently live a hour away from my classes so commuting back and forth will drain my gas my energy, and money.
What should I do? Live with a couple, commute an hour everyday from home, or find somewhere else? I have been searching for other places to stay but it’s hard finding somewhere with the semester beginning next week. Idk what to do
live with them until you find another place, stay at home and find another place, or confront him about it because he knew what the deal was and didn;t respect you enough to say something you agreed upon a while ago. if shes not even on the lease then...
BUT he might also just back out and give you an ultimatum if you object
speak with him about why he waited and didn't consult you and see what he says. Cause what you don't want is another person who can f*** s*** up but leave you responsible because they aren't on the lease. especially in college you kinda don't have time for s*** like that.
dude is gonna be hearin them bang every single night. Thats one reason I don't want any roommates, ever.
Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.
I don’t think so… ButI do know he wants me to sign a year long lease tomorrow but my family saying don’t do it.
speaking from experience ...listen to your family on this.
Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.
That's the saddest string of words I've seen on here.
That's the saddest string of words I've seen on here.
nah ngl top 10 saddest s***s ive ever read on this site
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Wahoowah fam! Crazy randomly clicking this thread...and also being a UVa alum...and also experiencing a similar situation haha.
What year? Regardless don't let them throw you off your game. Keep pushing do you.
Or be up front about how you feel with your roommate and see if things can shake out differently. Hit me on DMs if you ever need anything fam.
What’s up!! Amazing to have another Hoo in the thread. I’m coming in as a third year into the college of arts and sciences.
I know I need to stay focused on what’s important but there’s so many unpredictable variables.
And thank you! I’ll follow you rn
Honestly s***tiness of communication aside the extra person splitting rent sounds solid
Here’s what you do. First week, everyone does shrooms. Minimum an eighth. You all share your feelings and discuss why this frustrated you and they’ll open up on why they did it too. You’ll grow closer and break down the walls that are confining you all in self-consciousness. Each of you will become a better person for it
And maybe you’ll all f*** idk
if you cool w her, she can put you down with her friend(s)
was gonna say this is a potential "plus"-- is she also a student?
don't think that's worth the inevitable tension tho. one of the worst feeling's in the world is having anxiety/awkwardness in your living space. Especially when you're paying rent for it.
Home should always be your comfort zone/safe space. May start off manageable but trust the tension will start building up when you factor in bad habits/schedule conflicts/noise/fridge stuff/dishes/partying etc etc. Someone said it earlier but def nip this in the bud ASAP vs letting it rock
was gonna say this is a potential "plus"-- is she also a student?
don't think that's worth the inevitable tension tho. one of the worst feeling's in the world is having anxiety/awkwardness in your living space. Especially when you're paying rent for it.
Home should always be your comfort zone/safe space. May start off manageable but trust the tension will start building up when you factor in bad habits/schedule conflicts/noise/fridge stuff/dishes/partying etc etc. Someone said it earlier but def nip this in the bud ASAP vs letting it rock
In all seriousness this
was gonna say this is a potential "plus"-- is she also a student?
don't think that's worth the inevitable tension tho. one of the worst feeling's in the world is having anxiety/awkwardness in your living space. Especially when you're paying rent for it.
Home should always be your comfort zone/safe space. May start off manageable but trust the tension will start building up when you factor in bad habits/schedule conflicts/noise/fridge stuff/dishes/partying etc etc. Someone said it earlier but def nip this in the bud ASAP vs letting it rock
nah thats facts
Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.
Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.
i can hear my neighbor above me bang his gf at 2-3am sometimes. Its honestly annoying because it wakes me up at night,
live with them until you find another place, stay at home and find another place, or confront him about it because he knew what the deal was and didn;t respect you enough to say something you agreed upon a while ago. if shes not even on the lease then...
BUT he might also just back out and give you an ultimatum if you object
speak with him about why he waited and didn't consult you and see what he says. Cause what you don't want is another person who can f*** s*** up but leave you responsible because they aren't on the lease. especially in college you kinda don't have time for s*** like that.
He was also very adamant on me meeting his girlfriend to make sure we “got along.” The whole situation has me weirded out. I think I’m just going to text him and tell him I can’t stay there.
lmao ya roommate s***ted on u with that news that aint cool at all
if she aint dramatically decrease the amt of money you're payin each month then thas gotta be fixed asap. u prolly can't get her to not live there tho since ur roommate clearly a hoe who sprung this on u last minute
in the meantime u look for another place n see if she'll suck ur d*** or smthn
He was also very adamant on me meeting his girlfriend to make sure we “got along.” The whole situation has me weirded out. I think I’m just going to text him and tell him I can’t stay there.
is the hour commute from the condo or from ur parents'?