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  • OP
    Aug 18, 2022
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    k dog 99

    Is she on the lease now?

    I don’t think so… ButI do know he wants me to sign a year long lease tomorrow but my family saying don’t do it.

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    Threesome or just move out

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    Oak

    I’m supposed to be moving into a condo with a roommate for college (UVA). However, my roommate decided at the last minute to let me know that his girlfriend would be staying with us too.

    My move in date is tomorrow and I’m honestly lost as to how to proceed. My mom thinks I should find a different place to stay, but classes start Tuesday. I currently live a hour away from my classes so commuting back and forth will drain my gas my energy, and money.

    What should I do? Live with a couple, commute an hour everyday from home, or find somewhere else? I have been searching for other places to stay but it’s hard finding somewhere with the semester beginning next week. Idk what to do

    live with them until you find another place, stay at home and find another place, or confront him about it because he knew what the deal was and didn;t respect you enough to say something you agreed upon a while ago. if shes not even on the lease then...

    BUT he might also just back out and give you an ultimatum if you object

    speak with him about why he waited and didn't consult you and see what he says. Cause what you don't want is another person who can f*** s*** up but leave you responsible because they aren't on the lease. especially in college you kinda don't have time for s*** like that.

  • OR, you could piss on their door to mark your territory

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    Oak

    No! The shower is shared

    oof idk then

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    youngtubesteak2

    dude is gonna be hearin them bang every single night. Thats one reason I don't want any roommates, ever.

    Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.

  • Aug 18, 2022
    Oak

    I don’t think so… ButI do know he wants me to sign a year long lease tomorrow but my family saying don’t do it.

    speaking from experience ...listen to your family on this.

  • Aug 18, 2022
    Kdav

    oof idk then

  • CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN

    Threesome or just move out

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    if you cool w her, she can put you down with her friend(s)

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    Firelord

    Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.

    That's the saddest string of words I've seen on here.

  • CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN

    That's the saddest string of words I've seen on here.

    nah ngl top 10 saddest s***s ive ever read on this site

    🎻🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵

  • OP
    Aug 18, 2022
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    hoodbya1r

    Wahoowah fam! Crazy randomly clicking this thread...and also being a UVa alum...and also experiencing a similar situation haha.

    What year? Regardless don't let them throw you off your game. Keep pushing do you.

    Or be up front about how you feel with your roommate and see if things can shake out differently. Hit me on DMs if you ever need anything fam.

    What’s up!! Amazing to have another Hoo in the thread. I’m coming in as a third year into the college of arts and sciences.

    I know I need to stay focused on what’s important but there’s so many unpredictable variables.

    And thank you! I’ll follow you rn

  • Aug 18, 2022

    Honestly s***tiness of communication aside the extra person splitting rent sounds solid

    Here’s what you do. First week, everyone does shrooms. Minimum an eighth. You all share your feelings and discuss why this frustrated you and they’ll open up on why they did it too. You’ll grow closer and break down the walls that are confining you all in self-consciousness. Each of you will become a better person for it

    And maybe you’ll all f*** idk

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    fakerickhoodie

    if you cool w her, she can put you down with her friend(s)

    was gonna say this is a potential "plus"-- is she also a student?

    don't think that's worth the inevitable tension tho. one of the worst feeling's in the world is having anxiety/awkwardness in your living space. Especially when you're paying rent for it.

    Home should always be your comfort zone/safe space. May start off manageable but trust the tension will start building up when you factor in bad habits/schedule conflicts/noise/fridge stuff/dishes/partying etc etc. Someone said it earlier but def nip this in the bud ASAP vs letting it rock

  • Aug 18, 2022
    hoodbya1r

    was gonna say this is a potential "plus"-- is she also a student?

    don't think that's worth the inevitable tension tho. one of the worst feeling's in the world is having anxiety/awkwardness in your living space. Especially when you're paying rent for it.

    Home should always be your comfort zone/safe space. May start off manageable but trust the tension will start building up when you factor in bad habits/schedule conflicts/noise/fridge stuff/dishes/partying etc etc. Someone said it earlier but def nip this in the bud ASAP vs letting it rock

    In all seriousness this

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    Sheesh, talk about checkmate

  • Aug 18, 2022
    hoodbya1r

    was gonna say this is a potential "plus"-- is she also a student?

    don't think that's worth the inevitable tension tho. one of the worst feeling's in the world is having anxiety/awkwardness in your living space. Especially when you're paying rent for it.

    Home should always be your comfort zone/safe space. May start off manageable but trust the tension will start building up when you factor in bad habits/schedule conflicts/noise/fridge stuff/dishes/partying etc etc. Someone said it earlier but def nip this in the bud ASAP vs letting it rock

    nah thats facts

  • Aug 18, 2022
    Firelord

    Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.

  • Firelord

    Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.

    i can hear my neighbor above me bang his gf at 2-3am sometimes. Its honestly annoying because it wakes me up at night,

  • OP
    Aug 18, 2022
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    Phlegm

    live with them until you find another place, stay at home and find another place, or confront him about it because he knew what the deal was and didn;t respect you enough to say something you agreed upon a while ago. if shes not even on the lease then...

    BUT he might also just back out and give you an ultimatum if you object

    speak with him about why he waited and didn't consult you and see what he says. Cause what you don't want is another person who can f*** s*** up but leave you responsible because they aren't on the lease. especially in college you kinda don't have time for s*** like that.

    He was also very adamant on me meeting his girlfriend to make sure we “got along.” The whole situation has me weirded out. I think I’m just going to text him and tell him I can’t stay there.

  • Aug 18, 2022

    lmao ya roommate s***ted on u with that news that aint cool at all

    if she aint dramatically decrease the amt of money you're payin each month then thas gotta be fixed asap. u prolly can't get her to not live there tho since ur roommate clearly a hoe who sprung this on u last minute

    in the meantime u look for another place n see if she'll suck ur d*** or smthn

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    Oak

    He was also very adamant on me meeting his girlfriend to make sure we “got along.” The whole situation has me weirded out. I think I’m just going to text him and tell him I can’t stay there.

    is the hour commute from the condo or from ur parents'?

  • Aug 18, 2022
    Oak

    He was also very adamant on me meeting his girlfriend to make sure we “got along.” The whole situation has me weirded out. I think I’m just going to text him and tell him I can’t stay there.

    sounds sketch and if he cared he shoulda done that sooner

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