Im not jumping into a relationship for a while ngl, need to heal. Still have love for her, but dawg shouldn't feel down bad when I’m with my shawty. You should want to look sexy for your man lmao. If I’m getting fat, cool. But cmon, how does it look if only one person is active in the relationship ?
"But cmon, how does it look if only one person is active in the relationship ?"
......looks very common/typical actually.
your girl literally caught you cheating & you wonder why she’s mean to you
Shut the f*** up, wasnt nobody cheating Actually read the thread instead of the title dumbass
"But cmon, how does it look if only one person is active in the relationship ?"
......looks very common/typical actually.
@op you're not in the wrong imo
However you've end up putting the argument to her about her weight, you would be the a******
I think it would be way worse for you to being in unhappy relationship and pretend everything is all cool.
There is literally an apartment gym down the hall no excuses dawg. If she took what I said serious, she would go. Start small, increase intensity over time.
But nah, I think I went about it the right way. She said she would do better. I wasnt 100% upfront, just said s*** like “At the gym, wishing you were here with me” s*** like that. This whole ideology where you guys think I plastered her with this whole gym stuff is just wrong lol
Down the hall 😭 Aw man. I just feel like a month is a short amount of time to base a make or break decision on but if everything else is adding up and you don’t feel like she’s worth an investment, protect your happiness
Barely half a year in and you’re constantly policing her weight and you wonder why she barely likes you
this
If you were married it would be a different story, but continuing/faking a relationship when you're not into it is only gonna be worse for you both
And this is how I was feeling. I genuinely was gonna give her the benefit of the doubt by seeing if she’d workout on her own without me saying s*** lol
staying in a relationship where you are actively unattracted to your partner is literally the most emasculating thing a man could do
if you disagree you need to stop rotting your brain on twitter relationship adv threads and hop into the real world
If my girl got fat id fall in love for a second time
king s***
Weight gain in relationships is some of the most normal s*** in any relationship.
OP better not be a fat f*** himself posting bout his girl's weight either.
Nah I’m pretty fit actually. Anytime I finished from the gym, she’d go like “look at your arms” and it just pissed me off, cuz why you not there too after I asked you to come?
Like it's very common to see a fit girl with a fat and lazy "dad bod" type dude. It's also very common to see a "gym rat" dude with a thick/chubby girl.
It's really not as crazy as it sounds
Working at a gym, the only time I've seen couples together at the gym is if they are both skinny af or fat af and they going to the gym to be one another's workout buddy. It's nice to see that though.
staying in a relationship where you are actively unattracted to your partner is literally the most emasculating thing a man could do
if you disagree you need to stop rotting your brain on twitter relationship adv threads and hop into the real world
weird post imo
All i make is weird posts, and whats weird about thinking my girl is very hot and she’d also be very hot if she was fat
Nah I’m pretty fit actually. Anytime I finished from the gym, she’d go like “look at your arms” and it just pissed me off, cuz why you not there too after I asked you to come?
Could be that you probably have a s*** attitude and are not good at motivating her at all.
Its not even just losing weight. If she was at least constantly in the gym, I wouldnt say s***. I know losing weight isnt gonna happen overnight lol. I was picking up the pounds in the early stages of our relationship, but I told myself imma get right.
you a sick mf man lmfao
Barely half a year in and you’re constantly policing her weight and you wonder why she barely likes you
i need my girl wanting to constantly improve herself
you a sick mf man lmfao
Yall just name call with no reasoning behind it cant take you serious at all
you a sick mf man lmfao
Alexa play sicko mode
Yall just name call with no reasoning behind it cant take you serious at all
Seems weird to me that you're more offended at her getting big than saying hurtful things and ignoring you
It’s a mixture of the two. Regardless, I’ve expressed it to her already
i need my girl wanting to constantly improve herself
Do you actually like her for who she is or do you like how f***able she is to you at any given moment? Considering you’re on here telling complete strangers her body disgusts you I’m gonna assume it’s not the first one