So there’s a girl at my job that I’ve been talking to more & more, but I’m having a hard time reading the situation… first off she has a “man”, she regularly gets hugs from multiple men at the job, she has explosive fights with her ex etc. The worst offense of all she will tell me about all these situations and I’ll laugh with her about it.

Obviously I’m not trying to have anything serious but I’m just infatuated with this girl despite all my logical judgment

What I’m having trouble reading is if she is interested in me as a friend or a possible situationship. The fact she regularly tells me about these other men makes me believe it’s a friend thing but then she will go out of her way to sit next to me, constantly touches me, gave me her number and even made a remark to her friend “xxxxxxx just now asked me for my number”(referring to me) as if she’s been waiting for me to do it sooner.

Idk all in all I’m just perplexed and want to take the shot, ask her out and see what happens

But the fact she got a man, is at my job and I’d have to see her all the time after the possibility of being rejected makes me want to fall back

What should I do KTT?

Reread your first paragraph and really think dawg

Haters will tell you not to but I’ve seen it been done before

I mean I don’t want anything serious I’m not that crazy

But the idea of just f***ing and seeing her at work got me intrigued

This job isn’t a very “serious job” either I’ll add

Like I definitely don’t want to lose it but it’s not a corporate 9-5 job or anything

Didn’t read answers no

Save yourself an obvious headache and don’t get too close, don’t be that guy

Oh still didn’t read but follow your heart

just be friends with her, man

maybe make a move after one of you gets a different job

Yes absolutely. Sounds like an amazing idea OP

forget about it. the less desires you have, the better.

We're all going to die in the next 72 hours. Do whatever you want.

If you don’t want to have something serious then it is not worth it

It’s mostly a no after reading the whole thing. Either you don’t know how to go for it or she doesn’t really want you like that

It lowkey doesn’t sound like she wants to f*** you either tho. That or you’re just not good at sealing the deal, can’t be anything else

From personal experience and from what you’ve said gonna keep it a buck just leave it alone unless you ain’t got it like that then shoot your shot but it’s most likely gonna bite you in the ass lol

"Obviously I’m not trying to have anything serious but I’m just infatuated with this girl despite all my logical judgment"

Sounds like you've already made up your mind despite knowing what you should do instead, so...

Do it. U gonna catch feels after and make a thread of how she dealing with another guy that's not you

Enjoy the moment vro there's other jobs out there

If you even have to ask the answer is yes

Yeah she wants you

Try to pursue but in the most nonchalant way

I’ve received signals to suggest both im genuinely confused

stopped reading after "she has explosive fights with her ex"

good luck @op