Yes

Just crack jokes, compliment something that's not creepy and see how her energy is idk how it's so hard to tell when someone is attracted to you

ah. i see. my repost from the original og thread.

people bashing op are chronically online twitter herbs, its perfectly okay to ask out a service worker as long as you are respectful and dont breach their physical boundaries, my current girlfriend, i met while i was travelling bali, she was the hotel maid in a lesser known provincial costal city and i noticed that she would constantly look over at me while servicing my room and seemed to be giggling behind her mask to me in a shy and playful manner. without a second thought i drew up a gameplan on how i would ask her out the next morning timing her schedule with me getting out of my morning shower. keeping in mind that she was a service worker and that she is ordered to be nice to the guests i approached lightly and then asked her out for dinner to the hotel diner upstairs. she said yes and thats all there was too it. dont let these insecure weirdos talk you out of geniune human contact/relationships. what you layed out in op is perfectly fine and normal so dont be afraid to shoot your shot and clear your name because your reputation is everything.

wasnt your wife your yoga instructor? you might fool everyone else on this site but not me. i know a narcissist and manipulator when i see one.

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bruh what the f***

sounds like something I'd do

This

Crying

Get that yakubian devil

Depends on what shooting your shot looks like

It’s hard to decipher if there’s actual flirting going on or if they’re just being friendly because it’s their job, so I’d avoid it. But if that’s the only place you’ll ever see the person, straight up letting ur intentions be known and asking for their number to talk when they’re off doesn’t hurt anyone

All depends on if you’re someone who can take possible rejection and won’t do something petty like not tip them for rejecting ur advances

Don’t listen to too many ppl when it comes to s*** like this bro

If you’re their type they gon welcome it. Plenty of women/men dream of their type walking into their workplace and swooping em off their feet lmao

Just don’t be weird and don’t hold their courtesy or time hostage

no, absolutely not, never ever ever

service jobs are an absolute nightmare and even for people who like that type of work they quickly move on to other s*** on the strength of their affability. you cant for sure bet on who's doing it because they like seeing people and who's in it because there are no other options

im out of any service workers hair ASAP if I can help it because I know for a fact ten minutes later after me theres gonna be some moron in the spot asking them about their relationship status and if they dont got enough energy to deal with those type of rethards then idk what they might do probs something harmful

Only if you got the sauce which is like 1% of men.

You saying @plants parents gave birth to a master manipulator?

bro i am scouring relationship sxn rn looking for a fckn book of a comment I posted that describes in detail how my wife and I came to love each other

its the most heartwarming s*** and this bro tryna paint me like a villian i aint lettin that slide

I mean did you actually shoot your shot at her place of occupation

self righteous bozo

thats the thing, i didn't initiate/take the shot, she came on to me

theres wayyyy more to it than just that, and we knew each other for years before the beat switched. if i cant find the comment I'll just have to retell the story to get these clowns off my back

@plants don't let him get to u bro

B****

And he’s acting all high and mighty.