Yeah because im not OP I'm not dealing with any emotions

I'm just sharing how I see it

yeah like that's good and the least selfish way to look at it I guess

the kid is fine and has a home/someone to take care of them

but I don't think it's fair to completely dismiss how op feels because of that

Yeah the disappointment is there I get that

But it wasn't his responsibility in the first place and now that the parents have stepped up,

it would be best to be happy that the kid is being taken care of

Edit: I don't wanna be presumptuous but it seems like you're probably a young guy and I'm too old to be having these arguments lmao

Just try to be more sensitive to what people are going through. Life is complicated as f*** and it isn't always as simple as 'Well just be happy because this is for the best.' OP made this thread because he's clearly feeling lost and in need of a little uplifting. Lets be fam and try to do that for him ❤

you have to try to relate to emotions that other people have too though lol

Ok so then yea your right like u said in the first place I'm a piece of sh*t

confusing ass thread wlr out now

Your right im just having difficulty to relate to this particular situation

I get that sometimes too but if that happens too much it will make you look rude or mean

that upsets people

Thank u for bring it to my attention I will keep it to mind

Lmao edited because I didn't wanna be a d*** anymore. I just really felt for OP and it pissed me off how a lot of people itt didn't seem to understand how sensitive a subject this is.

U mentioned in your edit that OP is lost

In the moment with all the emotions that they are going thru they Wouldn't even consider what I had just mentioned

So yes it may seem insensitive RN but I think a different perspective would help them look at it in a different light

Bro you don't know anything about what the f*** you're rambling on about. The mother couldn't even stomach holding the baby, we stepped up to the plate when it couldn't offer nothing but s***ting and crying. There's more to being a parent than having the same DNA. How long do you raise someone else's child before you can also call it your own? My dad been raising my step moms child since she was a little kid and now she's grown, there wasn't some miracle age he claimed her. You clearly a little ass boy.

How do I know that? She's with literal strangers. She don't know any of the people there. The bm's mom used to do crack, the bm was heavy on xans, the bd is in jail for slapping the bm. The bm literally put her hands over the baby mouth when she was first born for crying so much. So no I don't rest my head at night knowing my baby is doing the best with people she don't know from paint and that don't know the first thing about anything she likes or her sleep schedule, ect.

You a big goofy.

Tell her suck a d***, if she burns out she might give her up again

My girl taking her up on it today, she gave me a whole list of reasons I know she just misses the baby

@op a real ass dude. Man salute to you, keep doing what you doing man. More blessings to you.

Do something about it then. That child is yours, you are the only one giving it love.

Haven’t gone through the thread but fight to stay in that baby’s life bro. Happened to my uncle, kid same age as me we would chill as toddlers and all that, and the baby moms came back changed the boys name so he never found him again ,this pre internet. Unfortunately he passed away from drunk driving last year and THATS how he found him. Crazy part is me and him would chill and go to parties and s*** not knowing my uncle being ate away at not knowing where he is. Kinda got off point but if you love that child then fight to be around. You deserve it, any rational person would say the same

might Need to get child protective services and the courts involved ASAP