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  • Nov 28, 2020
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    allmygirlsdoyoga

    I personally don’t agree with abortion. And s***cannot occur without a women’s consent, therefore the onus is on the woman to ensure that she doesn’t get pregnant. Obviously, niggas also share the responsibility of not impregnating her or stepping up to the plate if they do impregnate her, but women shouldn’t be having unprotected s***with niggas who aren’t s***. Women are capable of making good decisions.

    Sexual irresponsibility and “fucking bad b****es” is what’s fed to black kids growing up through media and reality (unless they have positive guidance which usually comes from responsible MOTHERS AND FATHERS) the conversation is about black fatherhood and abandonment.

    If niggas don’t want the negative stigma, then stop creating, applauding and promoting the action. If it’s your d***, put a condom on it or get her ass on a pill before going raw

    The cycle continues if the source of the problem isn’t eradicated.

  • Nov 28, 2020
    Mike Deans Cousin

    With the lowering birth rates, rising tension between black men and women + the rise of interracial couples

    I believe black men & women will eventually breed eachother out. It’s already happening majorly in the UK. Black children will still exist of course, but mainly in impoverished situations.

    It’s happening in my family actually, I’m seeing it first hand and it’s the wildest s*** I’ve ever seen

    It’s sad

  • Nov 28, 2020
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    allmygirlsdoyoga

    Yes it would actually. Kids are finances and cost money. The average black person would have far more money if we didn’t have kids

    Things would be easier no doubt but even without kids those things still play a large role as to why things are the way they are and would ease the financial burden as to when we decide to have kids.

  • Nov 28, 2020
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    Mike Deans Cousin

    Sexual irresponsibility and “fucking bad b****es” is what’s fed to black kids growing up through media and reality (unless they have positive guidance which usually comes from responsible MOTHERS AND FATHERS) the conversation is about black fatherhood and abandonment.

    If niggas don’t want the negative stigma, then stop creating, applauding and promoting the action. If it’s your d***, put a condom on it or get her ass on a pill before going raw

    The cycle continues if the source of the problem isn’t eradicated.

    But why don’t women share any of the negative stigma? Why is it completely placed on black men? Why can’t women make better choices with regards to choosing sexual partners? Again, the onus is truly on the woman because s***cannot occur without her consent.

  • Nov 28, 2020
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    How many pregnant teen Asians have y’all met, or American communities with Asian women who are single moms in massive numbers? Or young Asian men with multiple baby mamas and no ties to their kids?

    Or Indian.. those cultures don’t promote sexual irresponsibility like ours do.

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    Mike Deans Cousin

    Sexual irresponsibility and “fucking bad b****es” is what’s fed to black kids growing up through media and reality (unless they have positive guidance which usually comes from responsible MOTHERS AND FATHERS) the conversation is about black fatherhood and abandonment.

    If niggas don’t want the negative stigma, then stop creating, applauding and promoting the action. If it’s your d***, put a condom on it or get her ass on a pill before going raw

    The cycle continues if the source of the problem isn’t eradicated.

    Black men aren't the only source of the problem tho women like Summer who knowingly get with men like London are equally to blame.

    She was warned and still went heavy into this direction and is reaping the consequences of her choices and now blaming an entire community of men for it.

    She f***ed an abusive deadbeat and is now blaming black men for this after multiple women warned her. Also "get her ass on the pill" isn't up to men to do the same way it isn't up women to make men put on condoms.

    It's women's bodies and choices if we accept that then they also need to accept responsibility in scenarios where they have unprotected consensual sex.

    No grown woman should have to tell a man to wrap it up and no grown man should need to check if a woman is on the pill.

    Its irresponsible on both parts to put it on the other gender imo

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    Nov 28, 2020
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    Mike Deans Cousin

    How many pregnant teen Asians have y’all met, or American communities with Asian women who are single moms in massive numbers? Or young Asian men with multiple baby mamas and no ties to their kids?

    Or Indian.. those cultures don’t promote sexual irresponsibility like ours do.

    Those communities may not suffer from those issues but they suffer from other issues related to their inter personal relationships community wide so making it seem like they're a standard is really just understating them.

    "Look at the ASIANS!!!" Which ones? The Japanese who are facing the cultural backlash of a society that put too much focus on marriage and community.

    Asian is a broad term and they aren't a monolith and broad statements like yours negatively impact their communities as much as stereotyping your own.

  • Prbz

    Things would be easier no doubt but even without kids those things still play a large role as to why things are the way they are and would ease the financial burden as to when we decide to have kids.

    From my perspective, the smartest decision is just not to have them at all. Other races will always have systemic advantage over Black people because they’re more likely to inherit generation wealth. So why decrease our opportunity at obtaining wealth by having children, which are a massive financial burden?

  • Nov 28, 2020
    Mike Deans Cousin

    How many pregnant teen Asians have y’all met, or American communities with Asian women who are single moms in massive numbers? Or young Asian men with multiple baby mamas and no ties to their kids?

    Or Indian.. those cultures don’t promote sexual irresponsibility like ours do.

    Every race has negative connotations towards single mothers and dead beat dads. It's almost like there's something else at play

  • Nov 28, 2020
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    Mike Deans Cousin

    How many pregnant teen Asians have y’all met, or American communities with Asian women who are single moms in massive numbers? Or young Asian men with multiple baby mamas and no ties to their kids?

    Or Indian.. those cultures don’t promote sexual irresponsibility like ours do.

    Exactly! But that’s not only on niggas! A lot of that is on the women too.

  • Nov 28, 2020
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    FREE

    Those communities may not suffer from those issues but they suffer from other issues related to their inter personal relationships community wide so making it seem like they're a standard is really just understating them.

    "Look at the ASIANS!!!" Which ones? The Japanese who are facing the cultural backlash of a society that put too much focus on marriage and community.

    Asian is a broad term and they aren't a monolith and broad statements like yours negatively impact their communities as much as stereotyping your own.

    Ironically Indians are also Asians

  • Nov 28, 2020

    You know abortion was a solution

  • Nov 28, 2020
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    allmygirlsdoyoga

    I personally don’t see it. And even if so, asian women date white men at a higher rather than Black men that date white women. Yet you never hear Asian men complaining .

    They do, you just don’t hear it.

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    Nov 28, 2020
    Prbz

    Ironically Indians are also Asians

    Yeah I didnt wanna point it out but buddy off base

  • Nov 28, 2020
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    soccerfanj

    They do, you just don’t hear it.

    Well they clearly don’t complain about as much as Black women do then

  • Nov 28, 2020
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    allmygirlsdoyoga

    Well they clearly don’t complain about as much as Black women do then

    I mean...it is a pretty fair complaint to make. Most women in other cultures don't get to make that complaint cause they don't allow them to do so

  • Nov 28, 2020
    allmygirlsdoyoga

    Well they clearly don’t complain about as much as Black women do then

    We have more of a direct history regarding race and relationship dynamics in this country to be fair

  • Nov 28, 2020
    Smacked Voodoo

    I mean...it is a pretty fair complaint to make. Most women in other cultures don't get to make that complaint cause they don't allow them to do so

  • Nov 28, 2020
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    allmygirlsdoyoga

    Well they clearly don’t complain about as much as Black women do then

    You don’t hear it because other culture keep things in house.

    Modern day Black culture we let everyone know everything going on.

  • Nov 28, 2020
    Smacked Voodoo

    I know y'all not about to take offense by this woman who don't even shower...

    well 22 pages too long when the thread ended here

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    Nov 29, 2020
    allmygirlsdoyoga

    Well they clearly don’t complain about as much as Black women do then

    If we're talking native east Asians it's cause they aren't allowed too really but Asian people of all kinds who are usually first generation or further away from their culture do speak on it.

    slate.com/human-interest/2019/08/asian-men-racism-dating-bias-man-up.html

    jhunewsletter.com/article/2018/11/when-asians-say-theyre-not-into-asian-men

    They do discuss it

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