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  • Oct 12, 2021
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    y’all be calling any niggas light skin bro y’all need to go outside

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    Dedication 666

    They sayin his skin color is lightskin. To prove only lightskins get big roles.

    That's not the point I was trying to make.

    Y'all took the Tyrese thing and ran with it, granted I was exaggerating to prove a point. My main point is that:

    In Hollywood 90% of the time dark skin = bad. Lightskin = good. If you want a love interest, they gotta almost always be lightskin. You want some s***appeal, light skinned.

    I didn't sit down and consider that yes, lightskin niggas get s*** on for being perceived as feminine and therefore aren't getting lead cast a lot. I agree with that because if I think back, it's always been that way with a few examples.

  • Oct 12, 2021
    rustcohlestan

    y’all be calling any niggas light skin bro y’all need to go outside

    Depends on where u grew up

    Literally everybody around me was kevin garnett type black when I was little so people who looked like will smith were lightskin to me

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    allmygirlsdoyoga

    If colourism affects anyone, it’s only darker skinned men because it’s essentially used to criminalize them and make them perceived as more threatening than they really are.

    However, darker skinned men aren’t the primary group that I see complaining about colourism

    This is how it is irl. Dark skin men are seen as threatening which in the real world translates to “he’s scary” but in a fantastical medium like film translates to “he’s sexy and dangerous”. Hence darker skin men are more desirable as leads in film. Both come from a harmful place

    But the thread got outta whack and some perceived this fact to be a “well dark skin men DO get benefits” claim

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    HaroldsChicken

    lol but actually though

    Dead serious. We really got a argument about MBJ in here, lol.

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    This may not have been a helpful discussion

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    Fka Groovy

    That's not the point I was trying to make.

    Y'all took the Tyrese thing and ran with it, granted I was exaggerating to prove a point. My main point is that:

    In Hollywood 90% of the time dark skin = bad. Lightskin = good. If you want a love interest, they gotta almost always be lightskin. You want some s***appeal, light skinned.

    I didn't sit down and consider that yes, lightskin niggas get s*** on for being perceived as feminine and therefore aren't getting lead cast a lot. I agree with that because if I think back, it's always been that way with a few examples.

    s***appeal for WOMEN
    not men

  • Oct 12, 2021
    red eagle

    No we can't, this is unhelpful

    African americans in the 60's-90's understood that richer blacks were advantaged compared to the rest of the pop and that they upheld some toxic views but they put that aside in their community and only cared about their struggles as blacks

    Some groups nowadays just feel like their pet issue is bigger than the collective cause and actively divide all of us

    In the 60s and 70s they def went against colorism and other by- products of white supremacy

    They never said let's put this on the back burner and wait for racism to be solved then we shall attack it's nasty offshoots

    Why tf did they start wearing afros : cuz they were black and proud
    U can't be proud to be black and look at a subsection of black people as lesser than or not care that they face a harsher reality (statistically proven) in school, court and other aspects of life

    We just have more words to express these different issues nowadays but it's not splitting apart the cause, au contraire

    The fact u think that's divisive behavior says more about u then those who want to fight white supremacy fr

    Ps: whilst typing this I realized ur nikedon? Smh

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    BRAVE

    This may not have been a helpful discussion

    It's never a helpful discussion

    Same thing when we talk about black men vs black women, black LGBT vs black straights, etc.

    All stupid conversations that should never be had

  • Oct 12, 2021

    So then why not try and make it helpful by not arguing about how dark you gotta be to be light skin or how colorism doesn't exist within the black community

  • Oct 12, 2021

    I partly agree, while colorism exists in movies (especially in foreign ones, i.e Africa) their are still movies out the roles are reserved where a dark skinned black man is portrayed in a better light.

  • Oct 12, 2021
    BRAVE

    Listen man I don’t look at him like a light skin brotha either but I’m just talking about the perception. Most people are just gonna say he is

    It's very relative
    Compared to the whites and darker brothers, he was lightskin yeah
    Even on his show he was closer to uncle Phil than aunt Viv (dark skinned aunt Viv lol )

  • Oct 12, 2021
    JaeRell

    That...and I think many people had a problem with the roles dark-skinned people in the show actually had. Either they were characters you hated or a pointless throwaway character with little use.

    they completely botched the casting
    it could have been great but it felt like they didn’t consider the context(?) or like racial dynamics for the characters they racebent
    which led to some uncomfortable scenes/issues

  • Oct 12, 2021
    JaeRell

    Dead serious. We really got a argument about MBJ in here, lol.

    Lol you just have to accept that some don’t want to be educated or informed enough to discuss

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    Fka Groovy

    Every movie that's made for black people I watch, if there's a dark skin nigga that's the lead. He has to have a light skin gf. All the black women have to be light skin. Dark skin woman is a nagging b****. S*** was rampant in the 90s and early 2000s: see Martin.

    And if you a light skin dude, you're the good guy or the guy the woman dreams about. Dark skin nigga is just a nefarious evil doer: see Diary of a Mad Black Woman.

    Only time dark skin people get some decent treatment is some s*** about being straight from Africa, you can't just be a normal dark skin dude. Dark skins have Tyrese. That's it.

    In America at least, s*** bothers me

    "Dark skins have Tyrese. That's it."
    Lie

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    red eagle

    It's never a helpful discussion

    Same thing when we talk about black men vs black women, black LGBT vs black straights, etc.

    All stupid conversations that should never be had

    Ehh colorism is a topic to be had but this thread never had a chance cause OP based it off a personal idea that wasn’t factual

    So it sent the thread in a tizzy

  • Oct 12, 2021
    neu

    "Dark skins have Tyrese. That's it."
    Lie

    And if we call him out on that lie then we just picking exceptions to the rule or “ they old “

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    BRAVE

    Ehh colorism is a topic to be had but this thread never had a chance cause OP based it off a personal idea that wasn’t factual

    So it sent the thread in a tizzy

    “ tyrese only person dark skin niggas have “

    Made me think op light skin

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    HaroldsChicken

    Many of us aren't saying colorism exist in no forms. It exist but a widespread enough issue to turn against each other to the degree we do? No.

    Colorists turned against black people first

    They either gotta educate themselves or accept to not be accepted by those who don't hate themselves or our other darker brothers/sisters out there

    I think that's maybe what y'all don't get..... Being colorist shouldn't be normal anywhere met alone black spaces

    For a black person to be colorist u have to go through some grand brainwashing-why wouldn't they want to get rid of that mindset? Why should we accept it?

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    RRRBBB

    This too

    Why do white people get to go to space and s*** and we get the same coming of age in the hood story

    Cuz black people don't be going to space lol

  • Oct 12, 2021
    DonutHole

    Colorists turned against black people first

    They either gotta educate themselves or accept to not be accepted by those who don't hate themselves or our other darker brothers/sisters out there

    I think that's maybe what y'all don't get..... Being colorist shouldn't be normal anywhere met alone black spaces

    For a black person to be colorist u have to go through some grand brainwashing-why wouldn't they want to get rid of that mindset? Why should we accept it?

    I’m attracted to all women and don’t view anyone as lesser based on being light . I’m darkskin and as your screenshot showed I’ve heard “ we can’t even see him in the photo “ by friends of all races

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    HaroldsChicken

    So you are saying as a dark skin man we have greater fears than if we are casted in white showran tv shows

    well by golly someone gets it

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    HaroldsChicken

    “ tyrese only person dark skin niggas have “

    Made me think op light skin

    I'm dark as hell and half Nigerian, that's why colorism and intra racial hate bothers me. I got a lot of s*** growing up about my background, hair, lips etc.

    It's all casually thrown around and ignored.

  • Oct 12, 2021
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    This is especially an issue among black women. Any black woman perceived as attractive has to be light skin. Almost always.

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