You should never move in out of necessity

You should wait two years bruh. Why do you need to move in? Save on rent

I can tell you off rip that while my father is completely cool with it, my mother is strongly opposed at least for long-term.

u should marry first

Expressed no desire to have biological kids though is open to adoption or foster parenting down the line. She came off a divorce few years ago, and didn’t feel like having kids with her abusive ex.

hormones are a crazy thing breh women will flip on a dime later in life when their bio clock starts ticking and the option of having kids starts disappearing

not saying your girl is like that BUT it happens more than you'd think at that age

Wouldn’t having kids in your mid-30’s and later considered geriatric pregnancy?

Tell me more 😦

Think this changes the dynamic a bit. Most would've assumed you and your girl were in your 20s

At the age of 34, you'd hope she has a good head on her shoulders and has the kind of knowledge and wisdom being a homeowner that you wouldn't expect from someone in their mid-20s

Moving in with your partner changes the relationship dynamic significantly so be careful and respectful of her space. That's something many people fail to consider -- it's not your space, you're still a guest even though you're in a relationship with her

Good luck fam

good for you. just having one parent on board is big, considering it’s your pops too, you’re fine mother will come around

as long as she pays the bills, puts food on the table and you cook and clean

I would die of a stress induced seizure

we basically already live together, my only issue is he doesn't want pink hello kitty kitchenware

I'd never let a man move into my place though, I'm sure op is a cool guy but after a year? sounds like a recipe for disaster

oh she tryna have kids soon

Thought 1-2 years is the standard timeline when couples move in together right?

Again, she expressed no desire to have kids biologically unless she’s going to pull a 180

Some people date for a long time and never move in together, some people date for a short time and move in together.

If you're 25+, there's no real timeline on these things. I'm a firm believer that if it feels good, then you should. If she's cool and you see it going well, I say go for it. If you have some hang ups, it may not be the right time or right at all. In either case, you're the only one who can make that decision.

Edit: just seen the OP's age gap. My answer is still the same but be cautious lol

if y'all ever get into it or she randomly decides she don't want u around anymore, ur name is not on the lease, ur outta there. my dad told me the same thing about moving in with anyone, be careful.

just saw that i get she not tryna waste time tbh this changes dynamic alot on her side i imagine alot of her friends/perrs are wifed off/kids etc. adn she probably wants to take the relationship to the next level just make sure you have money saved n a quick exit plan should things go south nt just moving back in parents that will help u dont want your freedom then stripped if u break up have u ever lived by yourself before?

Word my fam told me the same thing but I didn’t listen and paid for it

THIS would only do it it if i was up up n if it goes left i can move back to my parents the day we break up or she says for like a month then move into a brand new place got the deposit ready just take 1 month to look for a place if u brke that crash n burn will be like this

no way, but I used to think the same. that's not enough time to learn someones true living habits. once you live together as a couple I think two years is time to talk about marriage personally.

If you see a future with her you might as well