In my opinion, it takes two to make a child. If early in the pregnancy a man asks you to have an abortion, and you refuse, you're acknowledging he wanted nothing to do with the kid early and still choosing to go through with it. That's not on him.

I say this because in the same vain, if a woman is the one in the relationship that decides she isn't ready and gets an abortion there is nothing seen as wrong there. Would y'all agree?

so you’re telling me it’s fine for you to abandon an entire child that needs nurturing by both parents? you decided to nut in someone and get her pregnant it takes two to tango.

do you know how many kids suffered because people think this exact same thing?

if the abortion was fully accessible to her, like financially, legally and health-wise then I think that makes sense

because sometimes theres factors she cant control i.e. the bullshit they have over in texas or medical reasons

its still an a****** thing to do though because of how it impacts the kid

the child can only has 1 father !!!!

My mom literally was gone my entire life with a whole new family, kids make it just fine.

We would have way less pregnancies if this was actually the case

wear a condom ffs

Absolutely an a****** thing, but not morally irreprehensible. As a man you can do little but express you don't want to have the kid. After that it's on her, and if she wants the kid great but at that point you're saying I'm willing and okay to do this alone. But that's not how it often plays out.

What condom do they sell with 100% success rate?

Way less pregnancies, way more kids growing up in happier homes with parents that both agreed they were ready for the huge responsibility they're about to take on.

I agree.

I agree

Sorry boy

Your momma was a trifling HOE

I aint paying you SHYT

sock

Wrong or not if you know you have a kid and you willingly don't take care of em you a b**** period

So I'm obligated to take care of something I didn't want because someone else wanted it? But if she aborted a child you wanted she's not a piece of s***? You see the flawed logic there?

Niggas talk all this s*** with no kids

"I survived the stabbing so shut the f*** up about yours, it ain't that bad"

So you went and nutted in a b**** knowing full well what consequences would occur from it, and want to absolve yourself of the responsibility regarding it by placing another responsibility upon that b**** that you know she would deny from the first place, considering you’re aware of her willingness to keep the child

That’s scummy. Wear a condom

Personally I don’t fw the deadbeat s*** but it really just is what it is

Not really, statistics prove otherwise

You making the b**** sound like a bystander

The decision to nut inside a woman is not the same as the decision to have a child

If you get a woman pregnant, and you do want to keep the baby, but she does not want it.. then she 100% gets to have an abortion. And if she does want to keep it, she 100% gets to keep it

If she has 100% of the authority, she should have 100% of the responsibility as well