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  • Sep 18, 2021
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    This scenario is really f***ed up, by the way. YOU get her pregnant, she decides she doesn't want to kill the kid inside HER body, so you think it's fair that you bounce because you made it clear AFTERWARDS that you don't want the kid? Why don't you just say "it's my way or the highway"? Because this is just the wordy way of being a child in an adult situation.

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    MM6 Moka

    You making the b**** sound like a bystander

    You’re coming into this knowing the woman could want to keep the baby, which she is fully within the rights to. You took the risk associated w nutting in her, so you face the consequences whether you wanted them or not, just as she is with pregnancy

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    TIIMMY BURNER

    My mom literally was gone my entire life with a whole new family, kids make it just fine.

    You are the exception. Just read this: gillespieshields.com/40-facts-two-parent-families

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    so basically what I’m saying is it’s immoral to abandon the family and it’s terrible for the development of most children.

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    JT is Electric

    so basically what I’m saying is it’s immoral to abandon the family and it’s terrible for the development of most children.

    But it’s morally right because I don’t wanna care for my child! I just wanted to do the thing that makes the kid for my own enjoyment! That means I don’t have a responsibility!

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    americana

    You’re coming into this knowing the woman could want to keep the baby, which she is fully within the rights to. You took the risk associated w nutting in her, so you face the consequences whether you wanted them or not, just as she is with pregnancy

    She can keep the baby, but everybody grown in this situation, so if she has equal rights to walk away I don’t see anything wrong with a nigga wanting that too

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    Jason

    "I survived the stabbing so shut the f*** up about yours, it ain't that bad"

    Not what I said at all. I acknowledged stabbings happen, and that I was one myself, as well as many others and that not every stabbing results in death, many don't. To say kids NEED both parents I don't agree with. Plenty of kids have grown up more traumatized from a 2 parent than I did missing one. Lot of factors go into it.

  • Sep 18, 2021
    americana

    But it’s morally right because I don’t wanna care for my child! I just wanted to do the thing that makes the kid for my own enjoyment! That means I don’t have a responsibility!

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    americana

    So you went and nutted in a b**** knowing full well what consequences would occur from it, and want to absolve yourself of the responsibility regarding it by placing another responsibility upon that b**** that you know she would deny from the first place, considering you’re aware of her willingness to keep the child

    That’s scummy. Wear a condom

    AGAIN, if you can point me to some 100% effective condoms link dat

  • Sep 18, 2021
    TIIMMY BURNER

    Not what I said at all. I acknowledged stabbings happen, and that I was one myself, as well as many others and that not every stabbing results in death, many don't. To say kids NEED both parents I don't agree with. Plenty of kids have grown up more traumatized from a 2 parent than I did missing one. Lot of factors go into it.

    Lil niggas prolly better off with no dad than one who they know don’t like em anyway

  • Sep 18, 2021
    TIIMMY BURNER

    Not what I said at all. I acknowledged stabbings happen, and that I was one myself, as well as many others and that not every stabbing results in death, many don't. To say kids NEED both parents I don't agree with. Plenty of kids have grown up more traumatized from a 2 parent than I did missing one. Lot of factors go into it.

    But Bruh its more common if you’re coming from a one parent household

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    MM6 Moka

    She can keep the baby, but everybody grown in this situation, so if she has equal rights to walk away I don’t see anything wrong with a nigga wanting that too

    lol bro
    You can get a woman pregnant and y’all be fully expecting to have a family together and be in a relationship and everything be cool.. then 5 months into the pregnancy y’all start having arguments and she decides that you can not be there when the child is born, and that she’s going to move away somewhere so that you will never get to see your kid

    Legally she can do all of that with no consequence. And she can do all that and still force money out of your pockets through child support

    The entire system in terms of men’s rights on this is f***ed up

  • Sep 18, 2021
    CGodJr

    Not really, statistics prove otherwise

    What does stats say? Cause I know plenty of people with 2 parents still hate their home life or come out with f***ed up development.

    I believe stats would probably back up growing up with 2 healthy parents in a healthy home creates a more well rounded child. But simply acting like having 2 parents is the sole purpose of the curve I don't agree with. How many kids are traumatized from having two parents that are toxic to one another?

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    KalamariFromParty

    lol bro
    You can get a woman pregnant and y’all be fully expecting to have a family together and be in a relationship and everything be cool.. then 5 months into the pregnancy y’all start having arguments and she decides that you can not be there when the child is born, and that she’s going to move away somewhere so that you will never get to see your kid

    Legally she can do all of that with no consequence. And she can do all that and still force money out of your pockets through child support

    The entire system in terms of men’s rights on this is f***ed up

    Don’t bring me into that men’s rights s*** man

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    JT is Electric

    so you’re telling me it’s fine for you to abandon an entire child that needs nurturing by both parents? you decided to nut in someone and get her pregnant it takes two to tango.

    You sound like pro-life so your not really adding to this discussion. This a pro-choice debate/discussion.

    If women have the right to abort, then men should have the right to abandon within a certain timeframe just like abortion.

    Doesn’t make it morally right, but this isn’t about morality, this is about rights afforded to you by the law and freedom.

  • Sep 18, 2021
    KalamariFromParty

    The decision to nut inside a woman is not the same as the decision to have a child

    If you get a woman pregnant, and you do want to keep the baby, but she does not want it.. then she 100% gets to have an abortion. And if she does want to keep it, she 100% gets to keep it

    If she has 100% of the authority, she should have 100% of the responsibility as well

    Literally what I'm saying. They keep saying that nut in a b**** s*** like every pregnancy comes from making a conscious effort to shoot the club up.

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    TIIMMY BURNER

    AGAIN, if you can point me to some 100% effective condoms link dat

    I read somewhere that condoms technically are 100% effective, they just have to say 99% legally so they don’t get sued bc they are only 100% effective if used in the correct way. And they can’t control if people actually use them correctly

  • Sep 18, 2021
    ARCADE GOON

    I agree

    Sorry boy

    Your momma was a trifling HOE

    I aint paying you SHYT

    Future be wildin

  • Sep 18, 2021
    Jason

    This scenario is really f***ed up, by the way. YOU get her pregnant, she decides she doesn't want to kill the kid inside HER body, so you think it's fair that you bounce because you made it clear AFTERWARDS that you don't want the kid? Why don't you just say "it's my way or the highway"? Because this is just the wordy way of being a child in an adult situation.

    So she can abort if she wants to and absolve herself from parent but the man just has no choice even though you just said he played as much a part of making it as she did. How does that logic make sense? Genuinely trying to understand.

  • Sep 18, 2021
    DZE

    Wrong or not if you know you have a kid and you willingly don't take care of em you a b**** period

    My man is in the Joker makeup driving his 6 kids to soccer practice in a Suburban as we speak

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    KalamariFromParty

    I read somewhere that condoms technically are 100% effective, they just have to say 99% legally so they don’t get sued bc they are only 100% effective if used in the correct way. And they can’t control if people actually use them correctly

    With that logic pulling out is also 100% effective if you do it right. But that's not realistic. I've had condoms break on me, get small tears, ect ect.

  • Sep 18, 2021

    2 wrongs don’t make a right. Don’t be out here lusting and f***ing if you can’t handle the potential consequences

  • Sep 18, 2021
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    aka “i should be allowed to have my cake and eat it too”

    there are consequences to every action and acting like “well she wont change her mind so im gonna leave” is 100% childish behavior.

    extremely oversimplified views of sex, birth, and child rearing

  • CKL TML 🌺
    Sep 18, 2021

    If you have a kid youre responsible for it period

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