Thanks for writing this man, i’m gonna work on being nicer to myself
Well worth it, man. Hmu if you’re ever in need of someone to talk to!
Re: showing yourself kindness — It never ends and I mean this in a joyful way. I feel like one can never hit a wall going inward. In a way it reminds me of a quote from a famous cyclist who said "it doesn't get easier, you just go faster".
I sure as s*** ain't a spiritual guru or anything, but I been working on myself for years n years u kno, and being kind to myself has been one of the hardest habits to form. U prolly say s*** to yourself u would never say to anyone else lol, I know I did and still do l.
Anyway, all that rambling to say at the top of my weekly habit/task tracker I have a section for miscellaneous tasks that week and one of them is to show myself kindness lol
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So you’re saying that voice never leaves? That sucks, i’ve been struggling with that for a year now, my mind just won’t stop f***ing with me and it gets annoying, it’s weird because i remember not having a problem with this kinda stuff 2-3 years ago. I was just living life and thought i was the coolest mf on earth, kinda wish i could go back to those days tbh
So you’re saying that voice never leaves? That sucks, i’ve been struggling with that for a year now, my mind just won’t stop f***ing with me and it gets annoying, it’s weird because i remember not having a problem with this kinda stuff 2-3 years ago. I was just living life and thought i was the coolest mf on earth, kinda wish i could go back to those days tbh
Not that it never leaves, you just realize there's more depth to it all. And who knows, maybe in a couple years I'll be like "huh, it did leave"
Anyway I'd really sit and think bout why a few years ago you were free from these worries. Maybe you find that you can go back.
as a tall black man i basically never run into this problem and we all know why.
Sadly true. Niggas be crossing major streets with their DOGS when I’m like 300 feet down the sidewalk.
Yeah that’s the thing i don’t think i am, like i think i’m pretty manly but i also think being nice is good idk how to balance it
Like someone itt already said, move out the way for old people, pregnant women, children etc
Everyone else can move for you though
So might be i look too nice or not threatening enough?
I promise no one is thinking about you like that. We’re all just tryna get somewhere, we don’t care about strangers we come across
No such thing as a stupid question
But you should probably just move to the side from this point forward. You have way bigger demons to conquer just based off this small thing making you write a full ass paragraph.
Like someone itt already said, move out the way for old people, pregnant women, children etc
Everyone else can move for you though
Bet
I promise no one is thinking about you like that. We’re all just tryna get somewhere, we don’t care about strangers we come across
Yeah but move then
No such thing as a stupid question
But you should probably just move to the side from this point forward. You have way bigger demons to conquer just based off this small thing making you write a full ass paragraph.
Idk man, i think this is the reason or def contributing to why i feel like s*** all the time
Update: just bumped into a dude slightly younger than me today, dude just didn’t move. He didn’t even get mad, dude just said my bad, looked kinda p**** ngl. It honestly just made me feel bad for him. Tough s***
I move to the side a bit but never get off the sidewalk unless it's some geezer. They always move too cuz what are they gonna do, walk into me? That'd be funny if anything
I move to the side a bit but never get off the sidewalk unless it's some geezer. They always move too cuz what are they gonna do, walk into me? That'd be funny if anything
This the energy we need in this thread