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  • Wisdom

    I meant like he gets how I feel cus I was exactly the same

    2011-2019 I was going out to clubs bars parties 3x a week

    S*** is draining I very much so value alone time now (especially since I live with my girl)

    totally get that lol at least you was out there tho and got a girl as well

  • May 17, 2023
    afterimage

    you’ve never had ppl just randomly try and chat out of proximity or something

    like while sitting in class or waiting in line

    it’s not that rare

    I’m not saying never but it’s not very common. As someone else said, most people are definitely on some minding their own business these days

  • May 17, 2023
    Oblivion X

    To the whole "no stranger just comes up to me to chat" convo, body language also plays a role in that. If you look and project that you don't want to be bothered, people are just naturally not gonna bothered you lol

    It goes both ways, where I’m from damn near everyone is closed off or listening to music or with their own people on their own s*** lol it’s rare that I see someone that seems open to be approached outside of like a bar/club setting

  • May 17, 2023
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    Oblivion X

    To the whole "no stranger just comes up to me to chat" convo, body language also plays a role in that. If you look and project that you don't want to be bothered, people are just naturally not gonna bothered you lol

    people online think being tall & having strong features is the move but in reality ppl are just scared of you im really goofy on the inside

  • May 17, 2023
    Noir

    This article about lonely men has sparked conversation

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    Faith

    Bro every time I think i’m something or i’m feeling a type a way I come on here and niggas remind me that i’m perfectly fine

    not even tryna be funny but it explains why a lot of posts on this site be hostile for no reason, niggas be needing an outlet lmaooo

  • I'd rather smoke 15 cigs a day than connect w these lames

  • May 17, 2023
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    Been lonely since like 2018

  • krishna bound

    Lmao

  • SegaDreamFlash

    Niggas need a balance fr, I f*** with my hobbies that I do solo, but I also be outside.

    I've noticed how nagging people for going to social events and clubs in general has been on the rise lately and that's insane to me lol

    Feels like everybody tryna be a fake introvert

    Lol I don't think they faking it, but there's really need for balance

  • May 17, 2023
    SegaDreamFlash

    not even tryna be funny but it explains why a lot of posts on this site be hostile for no reason, niggas be needing an outlet lmaooo

    I don’t even engage with them anymore. I just know something miserable is afoot

  • May 17, 2023
    hemaglox

    Been lonely since like 2018

    real

  • May 17, 2023
    celinee

    niggas need hobbies that involve interacting w other ppl irl

    but ik some people just don't have the time for jt

    Name 2 hobbies

  • May 17, 2023
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    Being lonely feels like a right of passage into adulthood.
    Friends don’t hit the same when you get older, I think this is true for most people
    I really think you just gotta find a significant other and ghost on the world together, I don’t see another way

  • May 17, 2023
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    twnty

    Being lonely feels like a right of passage into adulthood.
    Friends don’t hit the same when you get older, I think this is true for most people
    I really think you just gotta find a significant other and ghost on the world together, I don’t see another way

    get better friends

  • May 17, 2023
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    why is this thread 12 pgs

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    Faith

    get better friends

    Way easier said than done

  • May 17, 2023
    twnty

    Way easier said than done

    you right

  • May 17, 2023
    2words

    I don’t think most lonely guys have women asking them friendly questions out of no where lol but there is a point here to try and be friendly

    Unless they find them attractive, this how I met my last gf.

  • May 17, 2023

    most of the world has a cell phone

    no point in maintaining relationships when you can go on ig and vicariously connect with people without speaking

  • May 17, 2023
    afterimage

    we’re not talking about flirting

    We’re just talking about people wanting to have a convo lol

    Yeah this makes sense lol.

  • May 17, 2023

    Damn, good thing I'm tryna quit smoking

  • May 17, 2023
    lewinskysdress

    why is this thread 12 pgs

    it's a health epidemic

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    twnty

    Being lonely feels like a right of passage into adulthood.
    Friends don’t hit the same when you get older, I think this is true for most people
    I really think you just gotta find a significant other and ghost on the world together, I don’t see another way

    speak for yourself weirdo

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