May 17, 2023·1 reply
Love Life UtopiaWe all got our own lives and live in different cities. We link to kick it and work on our shared hobby. It can be any way you want it to be. My sisters fly to different states just to see their friends and they do the same back. It’s just real life, not all your friends have to be near you for you to see them and keep up with them and not feel lonely.
I got group chats with different friends and we all live separately and plan meetups and keep in touch. That’s how life works lol
It doesn’t have to be as wasteful, time consuming, and expensive as it is
May 17, 2023·1 reply
babylon shermIt reads like I’m trying to jab the site but I’m just speaking personally
I get a lot of enjoyment from posting here but it doesn’t effectively substitute IRL kinship, so I’m left wanting
This post should absolutely not substitute irl connection are you kidding me
Niggas on this site are r.etarded
May 17, 2023Lystradesus voice THIS nigga said he picked up a HOBBY just to get B****ES!!!
That be so cringe that ppl do that smh lol
- May 17, 2023PainPapi
- May 17, 2023americana
It doesn’t have to be as wasteful, time consuming, and expensive as it is
Life requires time, effort, and money. If you can’t sacrifice or come to terms with that then you’re not going to get the most out of it
and it’s never a waste cause the memories last a lifetime - May 17, 2023math fifty
This post should absolutely not substitute irl connection are you kidding me
Niggas on this site are r.etarded
Idk what you’re getting at, I don’t think there’s anything particularly crazy/stupid about saying “having friends on a forum isn’t the same thing as having friends in real life”. If anything, we’re in agreement
May 17, 2023CaunThis country rather have more highways than trains that connect more people
Which makes no f***ing sense.
I just realized there’s not a Amtrak from Memphis to Nashville or thru the rest of Tennessee and I’m dumbfounded
- May 17, 2023americana
People who made up their mind and decided “people suck I’d rather live alone everyone hates me” deserve all the consequences that such an immature decision would place upon them
Immature? Maybe, Depending..
May 17, 2023·1 reply
WisdomHe gets it
going out don't gotta mean partying tho lol
- May 17, 2023
GhomaIt’s the chicken or egg situation, I’m sure most of them adopt that mentality due to being treated poorly by others.
Exactly, I have a brain 🧠 that works and remembers indicators of events, people and places.
Me being a loner is my choice, but me being an out cast isn’t.
- May 17, 2023math fifty
that interaction has literally never happened to me and doesnt happen to a lot of people lmao
Internet niggas be saying whatever to fit a narrative
It has few times for me, still doesn’t erase my rumination on loneliness and feeling completely worthless.
- May 17, 2023
Ppl really are a lot more apt for conversations at bars tbh
- May 17, 2023
I think alot of these replies demonstrate the problem in op tbh lol
May 17, 2023·1 replyThis can be solved if you make cities less car dependent and don’t partition jobs and housing and recreational stuff from each other
May 17, 2023Dedication 666If they all in the same friend group it makes it easier
that's the thing lol i'm a very fragmented friend group person
i have like @ least 5 diff friend groups i'm within & it fees impossible engaging w/ them sumtimes cuz i legit forget 2 talk 2 ppl
May 17, 2023CloudyDreamsAkon was ahead of his time
!https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=6EEW-9NDM5k&pp=ygULQWtvbiBsb25lbHk%3Dbig chune
May 17, 2023kyzer ktaonly thing im taking from this is that im dying sooner than everybody else
might as well smoke some s*** with it if it makes you die earlier anyways
- May 17, 2023StanBandz
We as people need each other. I sometimes regret how I was in my early adolescence because I wasn’t super social. Had plenty of opportunities to do so, but just didn’t take advantage of it. Became depressed due to it
I don’t wallow in it or anything, but not “fucking with anybody” should not be idolized. I still don’t consider myself the type to walk up to someone and spark a convo unless I WANT to or absolutely NEED to, but when people talk to me, I’m always engaged. Just something I do to help build that connection at least.
I gotta do better at approaching people I actually wanna talk to tho lol. Trying to figure myself out so the confidence will naturally grow tho
this real asf
May 17, 2023
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- May 17, 2023·1 replySegaDreamFlash
going out don't gotta mean partying tho lol
I meant like he gets how I feel cus I was exactly the same
2011-2019 I was going out to clubs bars parties 3x a week
S*** is draining I very much so value alone time now (especially since I live with my girl)
ghosting ®️May 17, 2023NotoriousDonDraperThis can be solved if you make cities less car dependent and don’t partition jobs and housing and recreational stuff from each other
on god
May 17, 2023why
May 17, 2023How you just gon make a thread about me
May 17, 2023StanBandzWe as people need each other. I sometimes regret how I was in my early adolescence because I wasn’t super social. Had plenty of opportunities to do so, but just didn’t take advantage of it. Became depressed due to it
I don’t wallow in it or anything, but not “fucking with anybody” should not be idolized. I still don’t consider myself the type to walk up to someone and spark a convo unless I WANT to or absolutely NEED to, but when people talk to me, I’m always engaged. Just something I do to help build that connection at least.
I gotta do better at approaching people I actually wanna talk to tho lol. Trying to figure myself out so the confidence will naturally grow tho
when you wanna approach someone start with a ice breaker music sports etc
- May 17, 2023
its easier to have friends in hs late 20s but if you drift a part in your 30s dont have friends or a gf etc it will be very hard to make friends maybe