Do the opposite of that

its gonna take a while, just use the advice itt and trust it will happen

eh it's good advice but i wanna make the best advice for myself

what kind of friend are you looking for

you want some spongebob - patrick relationship?

yes b

grindr got what you need

Nobody wants more people to fw on a constant basis. They want specific groups they resort to when they can no longer take the torture of their solitary lives. Work buddies, bar buddies, movie buddies, gaming buddies, etc. Cultivate groups in each of these areas. They don’t even have to be anything to you other than people you tolerate, but you’ll enjoy hanging out with them in this limited and organized fashion.

im cool on those type of friends :|

If you're in college it should be really easy tbh

Don't ask me

Find them in places that you like to go to. You'll most likely find like-minded people there.

Bro

How? I only see these people in classes, I really don't know what to talk about except academics and it seems like nobody wants to be bothered. Starting my 5th year in a few weeks and I haven't made any friends

• take classes (yoga, fitness stuff)

• play games (dnd and bowling/dart leagues and stuff)

• socialize... go out in public, just talk

Coworkers my main go to

Cars, guns, anime, food, video games, instrumentals and stuff

Honestly in college you have a lot of acquaintances and s*** from class/parties/etc but unless you go he extra step you aren’t really going to like be friends with a lot of them. Honestly a lot of my friends I met when I lived in the dorms.

Otherwise idk just being friendly and genuine are the two things people gravitate toward. If you are reserved or insecure, people will know and probably aren’t going to like pursue that because idk first impressions are pretty lasting to most people. Just don’t try so hard to make friends or be cool, s*** hella easy to tell

Smiling, sharing common interests and holding convo

Since you’re in college just make small talk in class with a random dude

“What you doing this weekend “ could go a long way but that’s after a week or so of building up an acquaintance

For me at school most of my male homies were mutuals that I would see at random parties, get a Snapchat and if you’re cool at a party they’ll invite you to stuff

Damn..

Idk bro i made a lot of friends just @ the library sparking convos with people who are looking for books or whatever or going out for drinks after an exam

Also i made friends playing pickup

Or even just talking to ppl at a lecture during the break or smth when ppl go get some coffee

In my experience people are rly open to making new friends at college so try to not be too hesitant if you want to talk to somebody

If ppl keep talking about abt school maybe introduce a different topic yourself if they wont

Lowkey flex thread, OP trying to show off to us virgins that he get girls 🙄

Lucky mf

in the same boat OP, keeping an eye on thread for advice

i'm the type of dude to take a whole other street if i see someone i 'know' walkin down the sidewalk

be friends with me

Yo we talked earlier itt. How you been? Did you ever join or go to those car meet clubs? Also with instrumentals and stuff I met some dope peeps when I go to the music store to buy vinyls. Anime and video games I’ve made met all through online and I’ve met most my internet friends IRL. Not to sure on guns tho lmao. I have alotta country redneck guys that I’m cool with from my hometown that put me on to s*** like that