Jan 14, 2020·1 reply
Scratchin MambaDamn..
Idk bro i made a lot of friends just @ the library sparking convos with people who are looking for books or whatever or going out for drinks after an exam
Also i made friends playing pickup
Or even just talking to ppl at a lecture during the break or smth when ppl go get some coffee
In my experience people are rly open to making new friends at college so try to not be too hesitant if you want to talk to somebody
If ppl keep talking about abt school maybe introduce a different topic yourself if they wont
Sparking convos at the library seems like a good idea, but like I said, it seems like they might just wanna study and I just don't want to be a nuisance. What do you talk to them about if that's your first interaction with them?
What's pickup? Trying to meet girls? That's also something I feel uncertain about, like some girls might just want to be at college to learn and s*** without being pursued, don't want to make them feel uncomfortable
College lowkey the best time to meet people but it also sucks if you don't have the social skills. Always dread those first few weeks of the semester, campus is hella full and I just feel uncomfortable walking around so many people
- Jan 14, 2020·1 replyBlueChew Sean
Sparking convos at the library seems like a good idea, but like I said, it seems like they might just wanna study and I just don't want to be a nuisance. What do you talk to them about if that's your first interaction with them?
What's pickup? Trying to meet girls? That's also something I feel uncertain about, like some girls might just want to be at college to learn and s*** without being pursued, don't want to make them feel uncomfortable
College lowkey the best time to meet people but it also sucks if you don't have the social skills. Always dread those first few weeks of the semester, campus is hella full and I just feel uncomfortable walking around so many people
Tbh i usually just talk abt something school related or something going on @ campus then see where the convo goes
Nah I mean pick up basketball lmao, but meeting girls will be a lot easier if you have more active social life tbh
It's true that making friends at college is more difficult if you haven't developed great social skills, but it's also the best opportunity to work on them
that's what i did 🤷🏾♂️ 
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- Jan 14, 2020Scratchin Mamba
Tbh i usually just talk abt something school related or something going on @ campus then see where the convo goes
Nah I mean pick up basketball lmao, but meeting girls will be a lot easier if you have more active social life tbh
It's true that making friends at college is more difficult if you haven't developed great social skills, but it's also the best opportunity to work on them
that's what i did 🤷🏾♂️Sorry, not American and basketball isn't big here so I didn't think of basketball
Meeting girls is difficult if you don't have friends but I'm not really focusing too much on them rn, feel like the time will comeWhat you say about developing social skills is true. I'm reading books for tips on socializing and taking microdose shrooms/ashwagandha to combat social anxiety, can't wait to put them into practice when classes start in a few weeks
Thanks for the advice 
Jan 14, 2020
rayrayYo we talked earlier itt. How you been? Did you ever join or go to those car meet clubs? Also with instrumentals and stuff I met some dope peeps when I go to the music store to buy vinyls. Anime and video games I’ve made met all through online and I’ve met most my internet friends IRL. Not to sure on guns tho lmao. I have alotta country redneck guys that I’m cool with from my hometown that put me on to s*** like that
No, because the car clubs aren't solid, just a weak Facebook group.
Didn't go to the meetup because I thought it was at midnight instead of midday
Ima wait
Jan 14, 2020Probably not the best person to ask, but there’s this guy in my class who makes hella friends by hanging in the lunch area/library. Basically see someone that’s in your class and they might be with other people who you can also talk to.
Done it a few times when I’ve needed to chill there for a few hours. Not the easiest thing to do but can honestly be really rewarding
- Jan 14, 2020·editedDAVIDP
Those aren't real friends.. those are party guys
Real friends.. how many of them?