Mar 22, 2023·3 repliesNo because I hate when mfs talk to me
If u arent a sexy beautiful queen and i dont know u do not ever speak to me
Mar 22, 2023·1 replymr get doughNo because I hate when mfs talk to me
If u arent a sexy beautiful queen and i dont know u do not ever speak to me
- Mar 22, 2023·1 replyFKA Tadow
Yuck
Mar 22, 2023
- Mar 22, 2023mr get dough
Yuck
Tripping
Mar 22, 2023i read this as whenever youre grabbing d***s
- Mar 22, 2023
NoirI've got to be in the top ~1% most extroverted people on the planet but I'm pretty sure baristas do not want to strike up idle chatter with customers. You should be kind and respectful when the opportunity arises though.
they do wtf lol
Mar 22, 2023·3 repliesNow I just need OP to come harass me
- Mar 22, 2023
CrimsonArkI always open with “So, have you considered unionizing your workplace?”
Mar 22, 2023·1 replyYou guys are way too dramatic about this lol
It's just a little conversation at the point of sale, people over the age of roughly 35-40 can do it without blinking
Yeah, if he's holding up the line during rush hour or spending 30 minutes explaining the plot of all the post-Endgame Marvel movies, it's too much, but it's actually a perfectly normal thing to have a little moment of human connection with the person handing you your Starbucks
I used to work as a cashier in various capacities and I can say while every customer doing this would kill me, it's not too onerous to shoot the s*** for a minute with the odd good-natured fellow or madam
Mar 22, 2023
La Flama BlancaCrazy that in 2023 asking a stranger how their day is is considered a crazy idea
Social media has destroyed us
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Mar 22, 2023·1 replyChristLikenah I'm cool. just give me my drink and let me go on with my day
Ngl, if I'm getting drinks and I try to start a convo with the bartender my date might leave. Fucc I look like.
- Mar 22, 2023La Flama Blanca
Some people might clown OP for this but he’s 100% right. Too many people walk around with their head down and their airpods in, miserable with no social skills.
Basic human interaction will make you happier. You don’t need to start asking people their life story, just literally say hello how are you.
Worst case, you get a “good” and you move on with your day. Best case, you may make a new friend or a career connection
exactly this, dont anyone tell you differently
- Mar 22, 2023
plantsi just go off them
sometimes it's clear someone open to a little chat, maybe they even start it, sometimes it's obvious they just wanna do they job in which case imma just keep it minimal but respectful
yall sum nerds itt fr
Are we surprised people on a niche message board have questionable social skills?
- Mar 22, 2023
The bartenders 9/10 don't even want to take my order
- CKL TML 🌺Mar 22, 2023·2 repliesjakob
Now I just need OP to come harass me
‘harass’
Yall weird
- Mar 22, 2023·1 replyCKL TML
hiding behind your phone with airpods on instead of socializing is a waste of life, trust me
it always feels good in the moment but later you regret it, i can talk from experience. when i was working as a cashier as a summer job, the tourists from germany and netherlands were my favorite cause they were friendly.
I remember one german redhead lady that was really charming and had this amazing friendly energy, her talking to me made my day better in just few minutes i swear
- Mar 22, 2023plants
i just go off them
sometimes it's clear someone open to a little chat, maybe they even start it, sometimes it's obvious they just wanna do they job in which case imma just keep it minimal but respectful
yall sum nerds itt fr
I'm the same with barbers, sometimes I chat, sometimes I don't, if they're open to it they'll let me know one way or another.
- CKL TML 🌺Mar 22, 2023·1 replynotomorrow
it always feels good in the moment but later you regret it, i can talk from experience. when i was working as a cashier as a summer job, the tourists from germany and netherlands were my favorite cause they were friendly.
I remember one german redhead lady that was really charming and had this amazing friendly energy, her talking to me made my day better in just few minutes i swear
Bro 100%. The days Im around people and go out of my way to talk to people im so energized eventhough I deal with social anxiety a lot. The days im just hiding I feel terrible even if its my personality and comfort zone
Also redheads
Mar 22, 2023
6iscoyou do this? @The_man2
No
- Mar 22, 2023
GlentotheOP as someone who’s worked in retail and had to cover tills I can categorically tell you to STFU. Most people just want to get through their work days not strike up a banal conversation with some randomer. If you are going to strike up some sort of casual relationship with a regular it needs to happen organically
Categorically stfu is hilarious
- Mar 22, 2023·1 replyCKL TML
Bro 100%. The days Im around people and go out of my way to talk to people im so energized eventhough I deal with social anxiety a lot. The days im just hiding I feel terrible even if its my personality and comfort zone
Also redheads
as an introvert who didnt want to "be bothered" in college (fuck me i have so many regrets coming from this mindset), corona and soooo many months of isolation made me want and need to talk, i want to practice and be able to effortlessly socialize with anyone, thats one of my goals
Mar 22, 2023It’s definitely preferable to being the a****** that treats a Starbucks worker like a human version of the app they use to order
- CKL TML 🌺Mar 22, 2023notomorrow
as an introvert who didnt want to "be bothered" in college (fuck me i have so many regrets coming from this mindset), corona and soooo many months of isolation made me want and need to talk, i want to practice and be able to effortlessly socialize with anyone, thats one of my goals
Yeah fam Im the exact same lol. Theres still time though
