to play the devils advocate tho,
ngrown men shouldnt be WILLINGLY listening to city girls n stuff like that
It's not all insecurity sometimes it's legit stuff that straight men dislike.
People on twitter will be like "Why can't straight men be like this" and it'll be something extremely flamboyant or weird.
You have to remind women they dont F*** men who enjoy flamboyant s*** for the most part
It's so frustrating man, I was tryna hit a bath house with the homies, just relax enjoy the spa type s***, and niggas on some we gonna be naked in the same water s***
Like we can f*** hoes together but we can't be naked in a tub together? S*** is f***ed up out here
this girl judged me for eating oatmeal with fruit in it
My girl dumped me for this reason
Y’all conflate different issues.
Women on average have more women fans
Same thing with men they have more male fans.
Also Cardi b doesn’t market to men as much as women and it’s a specific subset of women
Same thing with male artist like future. He doesn’t market to women as much as men and it’s a subset of men.
So a man not wanting to listen to wap is not an insecurity as much as the song wasn’t made for him or marketers towards him.
And men still f*** with the song
"13 going on 30" is better in every way than all those manly superhero movies
13 going on 30 is for women super hero movies are for children
Before my 20s I built up a strong self-confidence and enjoyed things based purely on my own enjoyment. I still have that but women have made me more insecure about liking things they find unattractive or unmanly.
this girl judged me for eating oatmeal with fruit in it
I hope whoever the f***s telling you all this bullshit is not in your life anymore