When it comes to dating? I don’t mess with that drive me somewhere cause you not riding with me unless you got gas money.

Let’s just talk about initial dating for now. I don’t mind paying for the first two meals but if I’m not fw like that I’m not gonna keep coming out of my pockets. That s*** really a red flag when ever I hear someone say men should be expected to pay for nails/food/hair when we literally are not obligated to do that s***.

The s*** cray but we stacking paper over here

Your not

who said that

Wait. Yall payin on every date????

Even when we go in separate cars i pay for her gas

Because

men should be expected to pay for nails/hair

Now I aint finna say all THAT, but if we going out to eat or an event, I personally feel like paying isn't a big deal.

You should

I aint paying past food unless we forreal dating

Your goal should be to have someone who argues about you paying

You still always offer first and do it though

My first dates with my current girl I paid for everything

Now she offers nonstop to cover stuff and I do the same

Only if said partners are actually together.

i can pay alot of the time, but i cannot pay for literally everything everytime we hang out if we are just hanging as friends tbh.

hope you not payin for hair and nails

*unless you married

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Find better. I mean that sincerely.

I've never had someone I'm dating tell me that I need to pay for her. I do it most of the time because s***, why not, but for the times I haven't, they've never minded paying, even for the both of us.

Nails and hair is completely out of the equation. Paying for that should not even cross your mind unless you've been dating for a serious period of time.

Stop f***ing with brokies

if they tell you that you have to pay run 🤣🤣

Also this

If you prioritize a girl with looks and no money you shouldn’t complain she wants you to pay

because in most peoples mind man = breadwinner

Paying for hair and nails seems too much, even if we’re married.

I understand if I make more than her, then I would sometimes pay for her hair and nails so she doesn’t have to make a dent in her wallet and all that, and even then seems excessive (unless I’m rich).

I don’t expect her to pay for my haircuts and similar stuff.

If we get drinks or something sure i'll pay because its not hurting my pockets

Otherwise

You need to upgrade the people you’re dating because that is not the normal expectation

Paying for someone’s nails

Paying for nails and hair might be the most deranged s*** ive seen

if ur married then that's different especially if she takin care of the lil niggas

me and my girl split everything, even when we go out to eat. unless it’s a specified “date night” then i’ll pay

nothing wrong with that at all. if y’all share a life together and both are doing the same s*** (meaning you both work and you both take care of house chores), no reason recreational s***/bills shouldn’t be split

once your together for 5 years + it’s unrealistic to expect one person to pay for every meal lol

now when you first start dating i get that