Well the first move will always be eye contact, which usually is mutual.. then next step gets tricky.

Because ehy would a woman, be with a guy, who doesn't show that he desires her, which can get her turned on, and allow moves to happen?

It's like people complaining why food don't make the first move. They don't, but if you hungry, finna make a bee line to eat

Good looking people are generally hard on themselves looks wise. They tend to rate how they look rather harshly. You look attractive enough and your confidence is good enough to girls for them to approach you, you’re probably just not aware of it.

uhm idk what the first page on but its definitely expected of men to initiate contact

think it comes from the idea that men are supposed to be dominant hunter and women play the submissive prey role, as primitive as that sounds

i am a cutie and aint nobody ever approached me for s*** aint no way halfa yall aint capping like s***

This is kinda off topic but you’ll know if you’re attractive, like top tier attractive if you can manage to treat a girl like s*** and she’s completely blind to what you say or do to her because you look so good .

Similarly, it you’re not top tier PMF attractive an easy way to test if a girl likes you or not (only works if she’s easy going and passive by nature and not emotionally damaged and confrontational/reactive) is to f*** with her and see how she responds the FIRST DAYS y’all hang out before boundaries are established.

Just do something petty but not over the top a******* s***, like cut her off and open the door for yourself when y’all go to target. Or if she needs you to pass her something like her debit card or wallet just lightly toss it at her and act like you don’t gaf and she how she responds. If she just smiles and eats it up, SHE REALLY LIKES YOU BAD, and you likely gonna be smashing very soon.

Women “approach” men by making themselves available to you.

Here’s how a woman may have a “approached” you and simply haven’t noticed it.

She actually puts effort in talking to you
She initiated conversations with you
She isn’t bothered being around you, and will make an effort to be near you
She will find you funny when you’re not tryna be funny.
She will definitely make small gestures to get into your personal space, touching you, hugging you.

The last three examples suggests very strongly she likes you BIGLY

It seems like she has no life and she can hang out with you any day of the week any second. Somehow she isn’t working 12 hour shifts anymore 🤔

She hits YOU up to link, and you don’t initiate anything.

Y’all agreed to hang out till 9, but y’all both are aware is 12:30 and just can’t seem to get away from each other

To sum it up, women “approach you” by extending their presence to you and if they don’t like you, my guy you will definitely be ghosted or all of a sudden “she doesn’t have time for s***”.

eh i dont see those things as approaching. thread is about making the first move, all those things arent happening if there was not no first approach beforehand, which is rarely ever conducted by the female

Where I work this is usually done with a chic simply butting in the conversation you’re having with someone else and they’ll either vouch for your opinion or just laugh at what you say.

If you’re out in public
You’ll notice a chic that you keep catching her looking at you.

Or she seems eager and excited about to talk to you about stupid mundane s*** (cashier lady may do this, she was stale af to everyone in line then when it’s your turn she’s full of life)

Ik you’re thinking about a conventional definition where women just walking up to dudes spitting game, but that’s rare unless you’re unusually attractive.

All I’m saying a women’s first move (not a conventional definition) is her choosing to make herself available to you.

Yeah no s*** nigga

Seeking is dominant

Being seeked is feminine

That’s what it comes down to

I’ve had girls come up to me though. They bold now

wanna add a side note

"if you know how to attract then you know that this doesn't have to be true for you"

nahmean