The gender wars that be happening on twitter and social media are so lame and tired tbh.
And to op's question, they feel like it's a personal attack on their livelihood, and this reaction is only heightened from wide sweeping generalizations. People just need to realize that they're not referring to everyone and understand why they're saying what they're saying.
On a somewhat related note tho, those generalizations in some instances can be harmful, (eg. black men and black women). Imo all the negative depictions of both reinforced negative stereotypes and notions to non-black people. Which leads to non black people commenting on relations based off false preconceptions. Probably similar in other races as well.
The sarah spain thing earlier this year a good example of this
OK so first off, most of this isn't true and isn't significant, like ok women get doors held for them or s*** like that but how is that actually a privilege? Women still get paid less than men in most country now that's f***ed up.
And secondly, the last part of what you said is what I'm talking about, men are trapped in this traditional role of being a strong anchor for women, when in reality it's way more complicated and nuanced than this and men don't have to be this way
Gender wage gap doesn’t exist in the US
“Men don’t have to be this way” well that’s such a misleading/false way to put it. Society puts it on men to do x, y, z. Women get away with things that men cannot. I honestly didn’t even fully read your post
On a somewhat related note tho, those generalizations in some instances can be harmful, (eg. black men and black women). Imo all the negative depictions of both reinforced negative stereotypes and notions to non-black people. Which leads to non black people commenting on relations based off false preconceptions. Probably similar in other races as well.
The sarah spain thing earlier this year a good example of this
Yeah definitely, generalization can be used to some extent but people have to be careful with them, I tried to make my thread as non agressive as possible but some of the replies were still offended so I guess I could've been even more careful
Gender wage gap doesn’t exist in the US
“Men don’t have to be this way” well that’s such a misleading/false way to put it. Society puts it on men to do x, y, z. Women get away with things that men cannot. I honestly didn’t even fully read your post
Don't bother talking if you won't even read my posts man I'm not looking for an argument or anything but if you don't read what I write I don't see the point in continuing
Systematically I support the fight women are fighting
But personally it seems like they throwing their bs at me more often than dudes who are actual scum bags. So I feel like I gotta be on my toes.
Like sometimes I think they see my caring nature as weakness or some s*** and try to pull some mad disrespectful s*** that they'd never do against the convict they're f***in next door or the dude who ain't supporting his 3 kids
But it's not quite as easy to paint that picture online. And as a result I can be painted as just another scum bag on sites like this one
Don't bother talking if you won't even read my posts man I'm not looking for an argument or anything but if you don't read what I write I don't see the point in continuing
Just finished reading your post, I didn’t fully read it because I got the gist of it. People need to stop trying to make man and woman equal. They will never be equal, people need to come to that acceptance. It’s not diverting or undermining the struggles women face it’s just keeping it a buck. People are hypocritical and contradicting when it comes to women, and men just don’t appreciate that. Like I said I think it’s because women have it somewhat easier and receive special treatment whereas men get no love and feel as they’re getting disrespected.
Just finished reading your post, I didn’t fully read it because I got the gist of it. People need to stop trying to make man and woman equal. They will never be equal, people need to come to that acceptance. It’s not diverting or undermining the struggles women face it’s just keeping it a buck. People are hypocritical and contradicting when it comes to women, and men just don’t appreciate that. Like I said I think it’s because women have it somewhat easier and receive special treatment whereas men get no love and feel as they’re getting disrespected.
Why can't they be equal in your opinioon? Women are as much as functional as men in society, there's no reason in the 21st century for them to be treated differently. And all the so called special treatment you're talking about is litteraly nothing, talk to women and you'll see most of them woild rather be treated like human beings instead of like children with special treatments
Also on a side note, if a woman uses the term 'mansplaining' I stop taking them seriously all together
Why can't they be equal in your opinioon? Women are as much as functional as men in society, there's no reason in the 21st century for them to be treated differently. And all the so called special treatment you're talking about is litteraly nothing, talk to women and you'll see most of them woild rather be treated like human beings instead of like children with special treatments
Biologically men and women can never be equal, brain chemistry, genes, the way men and women tend to react, etc.
Men and women aren’t treated different and if they are, women are treated better. The feminist movement is a bunch of BS. There is nothing a man can do that a woman cannot (systematically), where does the inequality come into play?
everything the majority of men do is for women, all this redpill/alpha/beta/inc*l ideology going around is based off of mens desire for them, and when their sexual frustration is compounded onto by a lot of this third wave feminism that seem to reject/critize/ or even demonize them for simply being male on social media by these loud radfem types they will react in a defensive way which usually manifests itself as misogyny, they battle extremism with extremism because they feel threatened plus their inability to look deeper into gender dynamics, their love for women can just as easily fuel their hate for them too, deep down it is all fuelled by desire
Because I find it to be a dismissive and sexist term. Anyone can talk out their ass
There are situations in my liberal arts clases where I truly feel unwelcome to speak my mind. I'm definitely guilty until proven innocent with some of them
everything the majority of men do is for women, all this redpill/alpha/beta/inc*l ideology going around is based off of mens desire for them, and when their sexual frustration is compounded onto by a lot of this third wave feminism that seem to reject/critize/ or even demonize them for simply being male on social media by these loud radfem types they will react in a defensive way which usually manifests itself as misogyny, they battle extremism with extremism because they feel threatened plus their inability to look deeper into gender dynamics, their love for women can just as easily fuel their hate for them too, deep down it is all fuelled by desire
To speak on behalf of all alpha males, we are alpha males for ourselves. If you knew anything about redpill/alpha male you’d know it’s for yourself and not for a female.
To speak on behalf of all alpha males, we are alpha males for ourselves. If you knew anything about redpill/alpha male you’d know it’s for yourself and not for a female.
literally any place that talks about the redpill will also be filled with discussion about getting women what are you talking about lmao
literally any place that talks about the redpill will also be filled with discussion about getting women what are you talking about lmao
Even though there’s discussions about getting females doesn’t mean men become redpilled/alpha “based off of mens desires for women...”
To speak on behalf of all alpha males, we are alpha males for ourselves. If you knew anything about redpill/alpha male you’d know it’s for yourself and not for a female.
im not quiet convinced of the idea that TRUE ALPHA MALES exist just from a psychosexual standpoint
Even though there’s discussions about getting females doesn’t mean men become redpilled/alpha “based off of mens desires for women...”
so what's the end goal of being redpilled/alpha