why are we often called feminine and ¨gay¨ and ¨feminine¨ by older generations of black men ? Most of us were raised by women (mom,aunts,grandmas) so even if we were a bit feminine that would explain a lot of it. Also in turn what is wrong with being feminine to them?

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what is this phenomenon that i was unaware of

Im Italian but I go through the same s*** wit my father, I was raised by my mom so im kinda on the feminine side lmao and my dad always b****ing at me saying I have to be a man and s*** and that im acting like a girl. Its just the way he was raised up though so I understand it, probably could be the case in that scenario too

stop making threads about black people.

Cause "we soft...we soft as baby s***"

Dont think that's a older black man thing just a older man thing

Goat movie

they need to make a part 2 fr

Some cultures are just more naturally inclined towards overt homophobia and whatnot, as a result of environment. I'd also tie in how many of these guys say s*** like that but are then ultimately caught f***ing transexuals

Niggas fear what they don't understand

its always kinda been a thing older dudes just criticize younger dudes for just expressing themselves differently because they view it as ¨gay¨ or ¨feminine¨
this has also spread to younger dudes who call guys ¨gay¨ for doing s*** like dying their hair and being somewhat flamboyant or just dressing differently (examples i can think of are uzi thug carti and obj)

im black

Exactly, this ain’t nothing that’s just tied to black men.

Oldheads of all races and walks of life call young men soft, and a lot of these little niggas out here soft.

Dint know how to change a tire, don’t know how to fix s***, don’t even wanna cut grass or do any physical work.

i agree i was just being specific seeing as its something i go through

Crazy cuz most the women in my life hard as bricks and prolly more “manly” than the men

one of the greatest comedy films of our gen for sure. I know they had talks for a sequel, wo der what happened to that

I felt this so much omg

@DatniggaKaylin

Because a lot of these new niggas p****

This ain't a thread for KTT.

bc we're different than them. these are the same niggas that take pride in ducking child support and not talking to their kids until they're adults

Also if you really want to know I highly recommend the documentary I Am a Man - Black Masculinity in America by Bryon Hurt.