My Dad the definition of Real bruh just minds his own business and if I need help with something he don’t be on that weird s*** he just teaches me

I was having a conversation today with my barber about the difference in dating while he was growing up vs this generation. One of the things you gotta realize is the entire culture of the country was way different back then. Socially constructed ideals were more linear than they are now.

Imagine twenty years from now you can legally marry your cousin and it actually becomes common. Of course our generation in the future is gonna say “we didn’t have this s*** growing, this shouldn’t be allowed to be a thing.” People are just products of their environments and some people can’t get over their old ideals of thinking. Now that’s a very outlandish example but you can substitute that for gay marriage or transgender people for the current old generation and it still applies

An older black man called op a pansy

Can’t stand doing s*** outside either.

Picking weeds, trimming bushes, weedwacking, planting s***...is all very tedious

But when you’re done and you sit back and look at it after a heads day work and what you did and how gorgeous the lawn is

We’re currently in a masculinity crisis

Long story short is because it’s different. They didn’t grow up or spend their prime years in a “soft”, “gay”, and “feminine” era.

Bought some mascara, finna see how it looks

hype to be a homeowner with kids and a white picket fence and do landscaping man. s***s bout to be heat.

Older men in general are closed minded. But a lot of them are down low anyway.

I’m just happy I have a father

nice

toxic masculinity

Lucky

history and the way they grew up and how times were different back them.

Hell i was listening in on my parents discussing some news about a family letting their child become gender fluid and choose their own toys clothes etc and my fam were flabbergasted by that concept.

They're more conservative

They grew up in a much tougher time, anything that wasnt mad doggin and hyper masculine was considered weak and soft

Hell niggas pretended they werent eatin p**** to uphold their frame

Bruh it’s a reason marrying your cousin is illegal thoooo

bad take

On god nigga

But truthfully you find out a lot of these niggas went through their own traumas and are just taking it out on us/those younger than them

We should make it a rule that threads about "black people" should be taken down if OP fails to prove that they're black...

^ Now let's figure out if I'm being sarcastic

In a word, homophobia

I kinda like trimming s*** with the bigass scissors tho.’ Kinda satisfying for some reason.

But the s*** only sucked because were always in the 100s here once it gets cooler and the sun calms down a bit more it’s all good

Hope that answered your question!