I agree and disagree. I admittedly have a lot of faults I am trying to improve on, but giving women legitimate love is such a game now too. I’ve always been a very romantic type to where I definitely like to do these out of the ordinary romantic things with girls, but after coming back into the dating world after being cuffed for 6 years, it’s weird. I learned you can’t act “too interested” and being intentional from the start is a turn off for a lot of girls. That’s just my experience though
To be fair all the games break down at a certain point, you can call a woman out on her own games and girl will call you out on yours. But then again your stuck in a dynamic of distrust where you're basically waiting for one party to "fuck up", the second the dynamic is even established the relationship is doomed.
It's all just trust, honesty, and respect. That with good values and maturity in the long run a good relationship makes.
But honest to God the sexual revolution probably f***ed all that up, but there are still some good honest girl out there. You probably gotta go to church tho lmao.
I barely approach irl anywhere because I’ve heard girls hate that s*** so I sorta got reliant on apps and sliding in on socials
I mean if you're confident, look well, and act socially normal they won't mind. But it's dependent on the girl, her outlook, mood, and what's going on in the present moment. It's all relative.
Hell online dating is a waste if you're normal guy anyways, IRL is the way to go.
ive noticed that when I have a "date" with a girl, meaning going out and meeting in a public setting, Ive always had bad luck with the girl staying attracted to me
this why I either invite them to my place or go to theirs. Like every girl that ive hungout with in my room or theirs, its a much more intimate setting tbh. And they get attached from it. Like we dont even have s***or anything. Idk maybe its just the girls I attract
It happened again with a new girl, but this time we went on 2 dates.
It’s over.
are you good at closing bro ? maybe youre just attracting / fishing at the wrong pond.
honestly, dont get too hung up on s***, people are right, girls smell desperate dudes. and TBH bro, my mentally has always been if they aint attracted to me, I dont even bother, its not that I'm afraid of rejection, its just my time is better invested on someone actually who responds. Just really carpet bomb yourself out there, do things that you like, that you enjoy, people or girls respond better to that type of vibe, maybe its just me.
i get that the game nowadays are so stupid, everyones pretending to be busy, playing hard to get... everyones posturizing. Dating culture, in an urban city is detestable, especially for a guy like me. But dont ever let your L's bring you down man.
Completely fine but why can’t they just say it lol
One text ‘yea not feelin it’
girls think thats rude af and I get their point too.
From my girl-friends experiences, some dudes just dont take rejection well, majority. A lot of these dudes just go ballistic and send nasty comments the moment they receive a "no" "this aint working out" "im not really feeling this" "its not my vibe"...
just how it is.
I barely approach irl anywhere because I’ve heard girls hate that s*** so I sorta got reliant on apps and sliding in on socials
Nah fine single girls like being approached, it’s validation of their fineness.
girls think thats rude af and I get their point too.
From my girl-friends experiences, some dudes just dont take rejection well, majority. A lot of these dudes just go ballistic and send nasty comments the moment they receive a "no" "this aint working out" "im not really feeling this" "its not my vibe"...
just how it is.
Yea that’s fair, I forgot about this perspective
It happened again with a new girl, but this time we went on 2 dates.
It’s over.
Focus on you right now and live your best life
Nigga now go on date with 3 girls at the same time. You wouldn’t feel a s*** if the other two wouldn’t reply
thats why the events/groups/classes/hobbies path is the way imo
its where I met my girl anyway
This works because it's the least forced way to meet women. It also shows the importance of having hobbies. KTT niggas be doing too much instead of letting things fall in place.
ive noticed that when I have a "date" with a girl, meaning going out and meeting in a public setting, Ive always had bad luck with the girl staying attracted to me
this why I either invite them to my place or go to theirs. Like every girl that ive hungout with in my room or theirs, its a much more intimate setting tbh. And they get attached from it. Like we dont even have s***or anything. Idk maybe its just the girls I attract
Enjoy that for now, it aint happenin after college
This works because it's the least forced way to meet women. It also shows the importance of having hobbies. KTT niggas be doing too much instead of letting things fall in place.
Yeah. Live your life and let others come along with you if they're interested. If you have nothing going on, it will seem like you're a follower and people tend to find that unattractive.