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  • Nov 15, 2024
    hoopsplayer21

    gotcha, in these cases i suppose no issue

    Yeah i realize I didn’t elaborate but just so used to this situation (empty block just me and one other person) that it didn’t cross my mind too haha

  • Nov 15, 2024

    Anytime I’m about to cross paths with anyone I mutter some negative how I hate people

  • Nov 15, 2024

    Thats normal you have a feelings and can relate to them and see their percpectives. Good guy

  • Nov 15, 2024
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    hot pancakes

    So I go on frequent walks - daily as a matter of fact. This mean I often find myself near people on them quite frequently.

    I find that when I find myself behind a woman, I either cross the street or walk reallllllyyy wide from them so I’m not behind them, and then briskly walk by

    At first I didn’t really think anything of it, I just thought I was being a good person and making sure people around me felt comfortable. But now I wonder….

    Do you guys do this? Or do you not think about it at all? Am I doing too much?

    Also interested if other men notice or care about how others feel around them

    This isn’t a “pick me” or “look at me situation”. I seriously just wonder if this is common or if I’m doing too much lol

    I do this for anyone.. I don’t want a guy to feel like I’m going to try and jump him either

  • Nov 15, 2024

    Nope. I give people personal space or make some type of noise when I’m behind them so they know I’m there. Not doing allat other s*** tho

  • Nov 15, 2024
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    I jog at night to scare them

  • Nov 15, 2024
    ice cold

    yes, glad to see there are still gentlemen

  • Nov 15, 2024
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    hot pancakes

    So I go on frequent walks - daily as a matter of fact. This mean I often find myself near people on them quite frequently.

    I find that when I find myself behind a woman, I either cross the street or walk reallllllyyy wide from them so I’m not behind them, and then briskly walk by

    At first I didn’t really think anything of it, I just thought I was being a good person and making sure people around me felt comfortable. But now I wonder….

    Do you guys do this? Or do you not think about it at all? Am I doing too much?

    Also interested if other men notice or care about how others feel around them

    This isn’t a “pick me” or “look at me situation”. I seriously just wonder if this is common or if I’m doing too much lol

    yeah you gotta avoid seeming like you're following women

    If I am walking behind a woman I always cross to the other side or otherwise divert

    Its not a bad thing to do

    especially bc when I walk, I don't really make a lot of noise, even with friends of mine, I've had times where I'm meeting people and they don't notice me coming until I say hello & it startles them. if I don't cross over, then I'll maybe pull my keys out so they can hear that someone is in the area

  • Nov 15, 2024

    b****es needa pick they pace up s***s annoyin

  • Nov 15, 2024
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    monoculture

    I do this for anyone.. I don’t want a guy to feel like I’m going to try and jump him either

    I don't bc I feel like most guys aren't easily startled by a guy just being in their vicinity, while girls are.

    If I see a guy that's overly suspicious or seems out of it, I don't let him walk behind me though.

    Yesterday I was at school and a maintenance guy ran up on my aggressively asking where the bathroom was. ngl I was kinda shook. I told him where it was and but I didn't lead him in bc I don't know this nigga to just turn my back to him.

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    Nov 15, 2024
    Trash Star

    no, im normal

  • RASIE 🦦
    Nov 15, 2024

    I would only do that at night or if we're in a really secluded forest/mountain type area probably.

    And if I didn't do that, if i got too close to them I would just yell out "im gay" so they feel better

  • Nov 15, 2024
    TsunamiPapi

    I jog at night to scare them

  • Nov 15, 2024
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    Chasing women in the darkness of the night

  • Nov 15, 2024

    Nah I walk my own pace. I’m black so people usually avoid me at night.

    I usually avoid walking close to all people, and usually say hi if I do walk by someone.

  • Nov 15, 2024
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    A lot of people have irrational fear from news and tropes. Saw this girl say she takes an uber TWO BLOCKS home instead of walking from work bc “the fear makes being a girl way harder than being a guy”

    and then hundreds of other girls’ comments affirming it when it’s mostly sensation from 1 story they heard online.

    But yeah Ive noticed people get weird like im following them

  • Nov 15, 2024

    Sometimes. I think even if you are a good person, I think you have to be aware that you’re a man and women can often be intimated by some random dude coming up behind them. Men don’t usually have to worry about that because we aren’t farther simply for just being men. I think it’s perfectly fine to be conscientious of those around you.

  • Nov 15, 2024
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    bh0stman

    Chasing women in the darkness of the night


    on the ‘special’ list you go

  • Nov 15, 2024

    Covid made y’all mad anti social man.

    Give people personal space, and say a friendly greeting if you walk past them.

    Niggas don’t gotta come up with a bill belichick gameplan to take a walk.

  • Nov 15, 2024
    humey


    on the ‘special’ list you go

  • i kinda only do this during night or if we’re in a sketch area. regular situation though worse case if i’m gaining on them when i get close enough i’ll just say excuse me, they’re more than willing to get out the way

  • Nov 15, 2024

    No. I have a wife.

  • Nov 15, 2024
    ice cold

    yes, glad to see there are still gentlemen

    We're a rare breed nowadays.

  • Nov 15, 2024
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    y’all treat women like some fragile princesses and wonder why y’all stay single or scare them away with lovebombing