Unless you have decided that your life is not going to get any better, getting married (To a woman) before 35 is just shooting Yourself in the foot
You are cutting yourself off from the potential plethora of options that start to open up to you
A man’s 35 is like a woman’s 21-23
That age is when you are the “hottest” you will ever be. It is your peak, if you average out all the traits that make you attractive to women. Sure you may feel a tad “old” but first off women generally like older guys. But you also will have your life together and if you take care of yourself you can be in really great shape. Financially, you will most likely be stable, and/or starting to hit big strides in making money (getting promotions, starting your own business, etc)
And you if you can stay non married up until this point (notice I didn’t say single), then you will have built up experience of seducing, loving, breaking up with & just overall dealing with women. So your radar for who a good girl is will be at its best, and you will be able to spot BS from a mile away. And bc you have plenty of options, if you get BS from one girl instead of putting up with it you will just move on to the next (vs in your 20s you put up with women’s BS more bc you have less options to choose from) And women like men that have experience as well
All of these things are what’s going to make you be in your prime. So when you are in your prime is when you have the most leverage to negotiate for the best possible contract/option
Conversely, a woman’s best time to get married is around 21-23 but most of them wait until they are out of their prime and then “settle down” because they decide to just settle for whatever options they have left. Bc now that they are 30, there are much less men willing to date & eventually marry her then there were when she was 23
The difference with men is that most of them get married BEFORE their prime so they are literally cutting themselves off from the best options they have available before they even know those options exist
OP hasn’t found the one damn… keep your head up man.
There's a thread about you on KTT2. You gettin cooked chubby chubster. How about you go defend yaself like you defend your virginity...?
op what job u got going on rn
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focus on that instead of this bullshit commentary
so its ok to get married before 35 if you are marrying a man?
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They're stealing your thing
Uhh, many great philosophers of the past and present do that all the time. Discourse and communication is what separates us humans from other animals
Nothing wrong with commenting on life as long as you don’t spend too much time doing it (unless you make money for doing it) and generally have your s*** together