dude mind your own business and just let people be

You’re basically talking like a narcissistic sociopath.

Options? Negotiate? Prime? What the f*** are you talking about, you mentally ill idiot? Human relationships aren’t a market. Human beings should be treated as an end in themselves and not as a means to something else. Are you doing graphs to quantify your relationships? Are you doing weekly meeting with the boys to manage strategies to manage girls - oh sorry, I mean “options” - and people? Are you that much of a narcissistic idiot?

I’d bet my f***ing balls that you’re one of those naive nerds who read blogs about being “redpilled”. I’d bet my f***ing balls you’ve already bought/torrented self-help books which are supposed to teach you “how to be an alpha”. You’re ridiculous and you’ll never be happy. Never.

Authentic, meaningful relationships are based on tenderness, vulnerability and love. There are of course power dynamics but these end up contained by the honesty/love/transparency of those involved in this kind of relationships.

Thank you for typing it out

Y'all are being unrealistic.

Man go outside

I think people aren’t even understanding what it means to get married at 35

If you get married AT 35

that means you should’ve been with the person you are marrying for at least 2-3 years if not more. So you started the relationship 32-33

So it’s not like you are meeting someone at 35 then also marrying them within that year

Yeah, of course. Being “realistic” is talking about relationships like it’s a f***ing business model.

I’m leaving this site if this becomes a big enough ethos here

2 things. You missed the women between 23-30. And not considering it being harder to find quality non wrinkled women when you're at that age of ~35

Marriage for a long time was a union of wealth and resources amongst families. Not that I care but that was the norm for thousands of years.

He’s gonna end up on 90 day fiancé

This place fell off

as a man why are you worried about other men's lives

This to like mind your own f***ing business

Good god

It also exposes y’all not actually arguing against concepts

Since you’re telling me to talk to women in real life (I’m not sure why y’all don’t think I do )

How about you ask your girl the same thing I asked you and just see what she says

And don’t phrase the scenario as her meeting the 35 year old you. It has to be the same difference in time so that if they were to be married in the same amount of time as y’all are, he would be 35 (that’s the math most of y’all are getting wrong/triggered about)

Stop looking for validation for your warped views

still a popular form of having a relationship depending on where u live

And like I said seriously get female friends and have real life experiences with some honest genuine people

You obviously can’t read

I didn’t put looks over everything else

I said if you could have both, you would choose both

Re read the last paragraph in my post you quoted and honestly tell me if I’m putting looks over everything

@safe @sab this sxn hosts alot of misogynistic/red pill/loser talk
Here's an user spewing that rhetoric, not he felt the need to use "Tyrone" as some example

true, its more the internet itself, they need to get off.

Id say to em, get off the web, Read feminist books, and talk to girls without thinking with their d***s or tryna get in a relationship all the time or trying to “protect them” or show dominance or any thing like that lmfao. Things have to flow naturally.

living the way OP and ppl agree with them live is extremely sad. They cut off such an integral part of life thinking that way, and the internet just perpetuates it.

I agree, when it comes to single men/women. However a married man can have female friends but has to be careful doing that.