Gay implies attraction to the same sex, getting penetrated by a women has nothing to do with you being attracted to the same sex.

yeah true. sorry if that came off ignorant

I don't think this really affects bisexual men so much considering any women who enthusiastically appears on Fresh & Fit seems unlikely to be a logical match for an open minded bisexual man regardless of this one belief

What they're saying is stupid of course but their match is a similarly stupid straight male, like one of the hosts of Fresh & Fit

I’ve personally seen it in the dating market. Most women aren’t open to bisexual men. It’ll maybe change as time goes on but right now it’s definitely looked down upon by most women wether they explicitly say it or not

Ok but there are still open-minded women and they are the ones for open-minded men to want to be around and not anyone bigoted or who would appear on Fresh & Fit

Unfortunately the women on this fresh and fit podcast are like most women. Open-minded women like that are a small percentage of the population. Just giving you the facts.

Ngl I was scrolling through this dating app and the amount of “no bisexual men” in these profile bios I’ve seen made me think about this thread

I really don't know why you are trying to dismiss this as a problem when it's something that bisexual users itt are testifying is very common. Maybe your experience is different but I don't really get tryna downplay it and say "well there are some non homophobic women out there so shut up" which kinda what this post giving.

this is great when talking about how things should be but this isn't how things are

homophobia doesn't just disappear because you say "well these girls are on fresh and fit so who cares lol"

You really mad that there are users on this forum that don’t care about a show that literally goes out of its way to pick up the lowest common denominator of said demographic to make a fool out of themselves?

Is there a double standard against bisexual men? Absolutely. It’s a standard against cishet men that wanna explore their sexuality. I don’t need a 45 minute video of a problematic and toxic podcast to tell me that.

Toxic masculinity is a b****. Especially when we’ve worked under that for so long it programs everyone from men to women to expect men to just act a certain way. Women are allowed to experiment cause “that’s just what b****es do” and bisexual women are fetishized more than ever but a nigga decides out lf curiosity to wonder how a d*** in the mouth feel it’s “oh that nigga gay.”

Shoutout to the epic failure of the Bush (sr) administration during the AIDS epidemic, leading to the current misconceptions about men that “if they DL or bi, they automatically passing along diseases.”

But I can say all this without giving Fresh & Fit a goddamn view count. Sorry if that gets you mad enough to block me.

heard you was a lesbian girl me too lol

Fetishization. Most bi women (with brains) hate that lol.

Im taking word of the nigga who’s queer

It’ll always depend on the type of ppl you choose to be around.

Like living in nyc, of course there are pockets of homophobic, transphobic people of color. But I choose to be around the much larger pockets of people of color that…aren’t that. Especially as an artist.

Not when the reason why is a total disregard for the spectrum of their sexuality.

It’s a sad day when a Kanye verse from Don’t Like remix actually sums up the male viewpoint of bisexual women perfectly

If he’s queer he’s more likely to be in circles where that’s more accepted. But at the end of the day that’s the minority opinion in this country. Your living in your bubble.

You really gotta stop claiming niggas live in a bubble because our opinions differ from yours shaq. You really do lol.

You’re trying to paint the popular opinion as the minority opinion based on your particular circle. That is living in your bubble.

The opinions of the women in the video are the opinions of most women regardless of race.

It’s a lower number than it was 20 years ago because people are more tolerant but it’s still the majority opinion

@BIGGWAVE really a b**** ass nigga lol

I’m not gone lie watching even 2 mins of that fresh and fit s*** made me not even wanna discuss this seriously cause those are clear brain dead birds, if you going after them I can’t even feel bad for you regardless

on the topic tho, bias against bi men definitely a thing. I done even had the talk with girls who consider themselves bi/pan etc. and when you press them a bit you can see even they have problems with it, which is like the weirdest s*** to me cause they’re doing literally what you do/want to do.

what I mostly took from it though is they either

A.) think in someway bi men can’t be as masculine as they would want them to be compared to a straight guy

B.) really big fear of being cheated on with for another man (lol)

Or C.) they more likely to pass on a std

first too are clear delusion and ion know enough about the last to really comment but all in all, seem like some left over societal homophobic bs to me

never thought I’d be writing paragraphs about bi men at 8 in the morning but here we are

and on page 16 of a dumpster fire

you're a better man than I

You got stats to back that up?

You got stats to back that up?

Just gon start posting that when niggas start pulling the “most ppl think like this selected group of a fresh and fit video including a girl that didn’t know wtf homophobic even meant.”