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  • Nov 16, 2019
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    niggas be like "I hope white people aren't in here" "uggggh hh why are we discussing white people" nigga you type flower boy

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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    What do you mean? I know hella niggas that’ll rather speak on our issues as a race within our own race. You think white people come to us asking for our opinion on white issues?

    Why do black people gotta be so open to everyone else while nobody return the energy with us?

    Man just vented in the air he didn't ask white people specifically anything and if the black people ITT responded rather then attack then he coulda had am actual convo with black people ITT.

    Y'all derailed it first response tho so f*** it.

  • Nov 16, 2019
    LordPrettyFlackoJR

    I have a black mom and her way of thinking about certain things just really irks me...

    In September i tore my ACL during a game, when i was in the hospital with her in the "emergency" room instead of like supporting me, she would just cuss me out how f***ing weak i am and s***

    Like she always does this, each time someone hurt or down she would just blame it on something different and we at home have noticed how she still has this African mentality about things like Sexuality and Disorders...

    Now too, im home cant do s*** with my knee due to surgery couple days ago and she already starts cussing me out and expects me to walk i can barely even move my damn leg

    I know its a known thing in african communities that certain things be swept under the rug but why, just open up abit goddamn

    It’s a defense mechanism, she don’t like seeing her baby hurt

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    King Ding a Ling

    you are the one in here who brought up white people bro lmfao

    That went over your head.

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    That went over your head.

    nah it didn't. you be in every thread obsessing over white dudes. go watch random acts of flyness you nerd

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    You a mad ass white boy

    Bro what's ironic is u an dior sound real ignorant acting like other races like middle eastern and Asians don't have equal if not worse cultures regarding how tough their parents can b. Ktt is real diverse y'all like to imagine ur the only black person lol. Also black identity isn't a monolith.

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    Man just vented in the air he didn't ask white people specifically anything and if the black people ITT responded rather then attack then he coulda had am actual convo with black people ITT.

    Y'all derailed it first response tho so f*** it.

    He wanted opinions, that’s why we all make threads, for opinions. We probably did derail it but we had good intentions. You right about that tho, it could’ve been handled differently.

  • niggas be like "ugggghhh I hope no one comes in this thread with some gay p*** "

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    King Ding a Ling

    nah it didn't. you be in every thread obsessing over white dudes. go watch random acts of flyness you nerd

    Nerd lol you itt tap dancing. Move aroun.

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    bloom

    Just understand thats her own emotional damage coming out of her. Not saying its still not lame as f*** but we can’t really move the meter unless we sit down & get morenreal w our parents the older get

    Seconding this. But sometimes talking with them doesn't work. A lot of older folk are proud and stuck in their ways. If push comes to shove, just make sure you cut the generational trauma right here and do better for your kid.

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    Shammy

    Bro what's ironic is u an dior sound real ignorant acting like other races like middle eastern and Asians don't have equal if not worse cultures regarding how tough their parents can b. Ktt is real diverse y'all like to imagine ur the only black person lol. Also black identity isn't a monolith.

    Save those tears. We said what we said.

  • A Mad Ass Nigga

    Nerd lol you itt tap dancing. Move aroun.

    "hurr durr coon!" great intellectual response kiddo

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    Save those tears. We said what we said.

    Yall outta pocket.u Niggas should try growing up in black arab households 🤣

  • Nov 16, 2019
    No Color

    Seconding this. But sometimes talking with them doesn't work. A lot of older folk are proud and stuck in their ways. If push comes to shove, just make sure you cut the generational trauma right here and do better for your kid.

    Facts

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    bloom

    Yall outta pocket.u Niggas should try growing up in black arab households 🤣

    What’s that like? I never ran into someone who’s black and Arab.

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    they really called op a weirdo for venting the f***
    whats this forum about then?

  • Nov 16, 2019
    StayGold

    they really called op a weirdo for venting the f***
    whats this forum about then?

    if you're black you're not allowed to criticize your parents. gotta treat them like God

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    StayGold

    they really called op a weirdo for venting the f***
    whats this forum about then?

    Cmon brah this site and black issues aren’t it. Kids be laughing and making light of niggas getting locked up, egging niggas on to do stupid s*** to each other etc.

    We don’t need others opinion on what goes down on our race when we’re reminded damn near everyday how this site get down.

    When we get invite only sections then we have an all black section where we can have dialogue without others getting involved

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    A Mad Ass Nigga

    What’s that like? I never ran into someone who’s black and Arab.

    Bro my parents are muslim somali. Idk how to explain to you other than we never really got to do or say s***.

    Oh u wanted to hear some real s***?
    Well they’d make me feel worthless if i didnt do well in school, beat my ass up for nothing, snitch on my friends for breaking my curfew, later rat my friends out to the police when they just assumed they had sm to do with me smoking n selling dope, bla bla

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    Y’all making this something it’s not lmao. Damn, we just didn’t want white people coming in here cracking jokes on how our people’s be. Y’all know damn well mfs would’ve came in here talking big s*** about op mom if nobody would’ve called it out earlier.

    If I’m going about it the wrong way, educate me. That’s what we’re supposed to do. Show me a different perspective if I’m ignorant.

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    ur a kid so it seems like it matters now but it really doesnt man she's just making u strong coz these B****ES in the real world gone do you way worse than she ever has

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    King Ding a Ling

    ur a kid so it seems like it matters now but it really doesnt man she's just making u strong coz these B****ES in the real world gone do you way worse than she ever has

    im 23 lol just made me realize how important being a kid was

  • Nov 16, 2019
    dior

    You posted this on a forum full of white kids so they can agree with you and s*** on your mom

    What a f***ing dumb thing to do, weirdo.

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    LordPrettyFlackoJR

    nigga it makes you think; what if u have a sickness? disorder? etc..
    but you have a parent that refuses to believe in it thus never getting proper treatment like many have faced

    "we" are the victims eventually

    oh my god

  • Nov 16, 2019
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    FREE

    There comes a point where wokeness and identity politics can stifle conversation and hender people venting.

    This thread is an example of that the same Niggas who will easily say they don't care about white people's opinions on Hip Hop now care about they opinions OP venting.

    i get what you’re saying. I guess if we wanna take it deeper, I didn’t want/or expected jokes about how our parents be cause I can relate. Telling our parents we’re depressed, you get that “you got a roof over your head, food on the table” talks and I guess just thinking about it Played a part triggering my reactions. I got defensive to sharing this stuff with outsiders instead of having a healthy discussion within our own like adults. Sitting back and a***yzing this all made me realize it.

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