He’s not entirely wrong. Most (not all) dudes with female friends are either waiting on their chance to f***, have f***ed, or have been friend zoned.
Maybe it’s different when you reach your 30s and s*** but if you’re in your early 20s it’s def a thing
Facts. People itt are virtue signaling. Steve was definitely exaggerating but almost all young men who are just "friends" with attractive women have definitely had thoughts of smashing. Doesn't mean that they're all creeps...it's natural to want to have s***with attractive women, especially if you're single
let me begin by saying i disagree with steve harvey here. he’s saying that men cannot only be strictly friends with women
but at the same time, when i think about it, almost any friend i’ve ever had that’s been a woman i’ve either hooked up with or wanted to hook up with until we got closer and realized we were better off friends
It’s always some sexual energy from one party .. Bht yeah its possible.
Everyone needs to learn to manage their time and emotions more effectively as they get older. There's just not enough to go around for people who aren't invested in you like that. It's better to be alone and grow as a person than to be in a one sided friendship or romantic relationship that plays with your emotions.
If you can’t have women friends without trying to get on that with them, that’s a personal problem. I got hella women friends I’ll never get on that with because their vibe is amazing and I would hate to complicate things. Y’all gotta learn how to friend zone women and stop trying to stick your d*** in everything.
Not possible, it’s funny that vast majority of the lady friends I had in my life, had a thing towards them on the low. Is it the “Damn she hot, so I want to bang her”? No, but they did give me butterflies whenever they came around and was more than happy to consider them as friends. This is despite them providing minimal value to our supposed friendship and even being little dry with communication.
Even my GF admitted all her guy friendships ended poorly with them confessing feelings towards her. This guy in our dancing community is constantly orbiting around her and seems desperate to start up a friendship with her again. Claims my Gf isn’t his type or whatever but his actions have only shown otherwise. Not to mention him freaking out and getting very nervous at times when alone around her.
To this day I stand by my opinion that men and women, for the most part, cannot be friends.
My most honest and potent relationships are with women in my life that I have no intention of d***ing down lol
can’t speak for men but personally, i don’t see the point in having irl male friends. anything a man can give me platonically is something my partner gives me better. besides, u show a bit of compassion and let him be vulnerable with u things usually get weird.
that being said i don’t have irl female friends either, i just talk to my sisters.
My most honest and potent relationships are with women in my life that I have no intention of d***ing down lol
Fr lol It’s weird that this is even a question
One of my best friends is a woman who I used to hook up with, just don’t see her in that way at all now
But we’re super close, text all the time, chill n play video games laying in bed, drink smoke whatever. There’s just never any weirdness cuz neither of us are on that
You guys never had an extemely mid but down ass friend thats just fun to hang out with the group????