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  • Apr 17, 2024

    I got a gang of female friends

  • Apr 17, 2024
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    Yup

    My best friend of 15 years know her whole family and her mom basically my 2nd mom. Would never hit because she’s nuts Latina but she and her whole fam would kill for me and we both got our spouses in check with the respect for the friendship. We’ve also been open and discussed why we never were a thing and we’re both glad we’re not. That b**** farts in front of me s*** is disgusting but that’s my brother

    Y’all just gotta stop living on the internet. It’s insecure girls telling you you can’t have a girl best friend, lol.

  • Tuneout 🎨
    Apr 17, 2024

    I dont have any male friends, except one guy thats one my friend’s fiance. And Im much closer to her than him and only hang out with him when shes there. All of my friends are girls. Been that way for years.

  • Apr 17, 2024

    Guess bi people just cant have friends cause they attracted to anybody

    People gotta grow up

  • Apr 17, 2024
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    I realize (shoutout to the R&A sxn, some of yall itt are frequent posters there) a LOOOOT of users here don’t…really know how to make friends in general.

    Think that plays a part in some of yall’s beliefs that attractive men and attractive women can’t be platonic friends. Life gets WAY less stressful once you shake off that notion that you HAVE to stick ya d*** in everything.

  • Apr 17, 2024
    Experiment626

    Maybe but would my girl want me to have close friends that are other women?

    most likely not

    You know what you call ppl like her?

    (You don’t)

    Shawty hating on homegirls that was there for me in my lowest times before you came in the picture seeing the result of my potential that THEY saw in me? Yeah I’m not cutting them off

  • I mean yeah lol

  • Apr 17, 2024
    Ghoma

    Not possible, it’s funny that vast majority of the lady friends I had in my life, had a thing towards them on the low. Is it the “Damn she hot, so I want to bang her”? No, but they did give me butterflies whenever they came around and was more than happy to consider them as friends. This is despite them providing minimal value to our supposed friendship and even being little dry with communication.

    Even my GF admitted all her guy friendships ended poorly with them confessing feelings towards her. This guy in our dancing community is constantly orbiting around her and seems desperate to start up a friendship with her again. Claims my Gf isn’t his type or whatever but his actions have only shown otherwise. Not to mention him freaking out and getting very nervous at times when alone around her.

    To this day I stand by my opinion that men and women, for the most part, cannot be friends.

    Bumped a 3 year old thread

  • insertcoolnamehere

    I realize (shoutout to the R&A sxn, some of yall itt are frequent posters there) a LOOOOT of users here don’t…really know how to make friends in general.

    Think that plays a part in some of yall’s beliefs that attractive men and attractive women can’t be platonic friends. Life gets WAY less stressful once you shake off that notion that you HAVE to stick ya d*** in everything.

  • Apr 17, 2024
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    yall gotta be realistic. if a man and woman both find eachother attractive, at some point they're gonna explore the possibility it happens every time

    If they dont though, sure a friendship could definitely work. If one is in a relationship, that friendship will surely end though.

  • Apr 17, 2024
    BrunsonEggNCheese

    yall gotta be realistic. if a man and woman both find eachother attractive, at some point they're gonna explore the possibility it happens every time

    If they dont though, sure a friendship could definitely work. If one is in a relationship, that friendship will surely end though.

    I have female friends that are in relationships.

    It really depends on the nature of your friendship.

  • Apr 17, 2024

    Desperation is never good

  • Apr 17, 2024

    Can men have friends at all?

  • Apr 17, 2024

    Yea you can. I have a few woman friends whom I don’t find attractive at all. The ones I find attractive, I might develop feelings for, but I can keep the lid on it unless there might be something real and reciprocal there.

  • Apr 17, 2024
    Ghoma

    Not possible, it’s funny that vast majority of the lady friends I had in my life, had a thing towards them on the low. Is it the “Damn she hot, so I want to bang her”? No, but they did give me butterflies whenever they came around and was more than happy to consider them as friends. This is despite them providing minimal value to our supposed friendship and even being little dry with communication.

    Even my GF admitted all her guy friendships ended poorly with them confessing feelings towards her. This guy in our dancing community is constantly orbiting around her and seems desperate to start up a friendship with her again. Claims my Gf isn’t his type or whatever but his actions have only shown otherwise. Not to mention him freaking out and getting very nervous at times when alone around her.

    To this day I stand by my opinion that men and women, for the most part, cannot be friends.

    Female friends work when you have the same standards for them as male friends.

    Would you keep in touch with men that are dry and have low communication with you?

    If the answer is no, you're putting these women on a pedestal. A friendship doesn't work when the two sides don't communicate as equals. Women are perfectly capable of being your friend as long as you actually see them as friends.

    If the answer is yes then it's unrelated to them being women.

  • Apr 17, 2024
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    left4good

    can’t speak for men but personally, i don’t see the point in having irl male friends. anything a man can give me platonically is something my partner gives me better. besides, u show a bit of compassion and let him be vulnerable with u things usually get weird.

    that being said i don’t have irl female friends either, i just talk to my sisters.

    The point is just friendship

  • plants 🌻
    Apr 17, 2024

    this stupid f***ing s*** again

  • Apr 17, 2024

    Chat, is it possible to be friends with something that doesn't have a p****?

    Put your replies below 👇👇👇

  • Yea but not if they sexy

  • flizzy

    The point is just friendship

    If that relationship don't work out bro in for a rude awakening

  • I have female friends who I think look good even but tbh they married and I'm not the type to try anything with a married woman

    Sometimes the lines blur but overall not that difficult or crazy to manage

  • Apr 17, 2024

    double standards it's impossible at this point

  • Apr 17, 2024

    Me? no because some how we will end up f***ing

  • Apr 17, 2024
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    Yes, half my best friends are women. Half my partners best friends are men. If you can't trust each other you might as well wrap it up today.

  • yeah obviously

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