This is almost exactly it goes everytime I try to start talking to a new girl
1. Match on whatever dumb dating app
2. Ask for Snapchat
3a. I send a few snaps just for the conversation to be super mundane and eventually they just stop opening my messages
3b. I don’t reach out enough because I know the conversations just gonna end up being mundane so I end up talking to a girl like every 3 days about nothing really
3c. I try to be really straightforward and tell the girl I’m not good with Snapchat small talk and I’d much rather go on a date and get to know her in real life. Girl says she’s down to go on a date, then just straight up stops responding after we talk about a date that’s never gonna happen
4. They unadd me/I unadd them
Depressing cycle and at this point I really just wanna delete all the dating apps I have tbh

I don’t like dating apps cuz it’s one big competition, u could be talking to a girl and she gets a new match and ignore u lmao

Dating game been f***ed up mane

*ask for snapchat

nigga how old are you? talk to her like a regular human being and get her number

Honestly I have no patience for the talking stage no more. I either forget to reply or the girl I'm talking to on the dating app has about as much personality as a brick wall.

Surprisingly enough a lot of women these days prefer to give an IG or Snapchat than a number. Kinda makes sense though, niggas be weird with numbers and you don't know what kinda goofy stalker s*** they might do cause they can't take rejection.

At least with IG or Snapchat you can block them when it ain't working out.

I’m only 22 idk for girls 19 and up snap is still pretty standard in my experience

just need to relax bro i made another thread the other day and calming down as worked with me

Elaborate

i'm 26.

I've always went the number route. Snap is a dying app. If she don't give you the number than it is what it is. Normally it helps to (respectfully) go to the point quick about what you're looking for. But also, be funny, have a personality yourself.

Not saying you specifically, but a lot of niggas I know irl that complain about this similarly, you look through they convos, a lot of niggas be boring as hell, why should shawty try?

Pro tip if she has her ig or snap in the bio you swipe left.

stop using dating apps, you're only going to hate yourself more

these dumb hoes that are average looking get so much attention because dudes will swipe right in droves and it gets to their head

you might find one decent girl in like 50 tries and that s*** isn't worth your time. just learn how to approach girls irl

"these dumb hoes"

Damn y'all are down bad in this sxn

My advice to you OP is to not stress over it forreal. Dating apps are ass and people these days have no idea how to communicate and hold a conversation, have too many options, or simply just be bored. Can't take that stuff seriously.

Can’t really say for sure if my convos are dry or not but I definitely overthink s***. I wasn’t the typical kid in high school with hella friends on social media so this is all kinda new to me. I try a lot of different approaches for conversation but nothing seems to stick. At best it feels like they’re passing free time talking to me, but they’re not truly engaged in convo, and I always have to be the one to reach out

feel like I'm 21 again no bullshit

When you get older and naturally mature and start just naturally getting better at talking to women, you realize most of the reason that you wasn't getting any was because of your own self tbh.

raw thoughts. pure ideas.

Keep the talking stage short but concise, be direct before you even ask for a ig or number, if yall ain't on the same page then you just wasting time. Talk for a bit, and then go about setting something up

Sometimes that s*** just ain't gonna click like that, that's fine, move on to the next one don't get pressed about it