Mar 15, 2021·2 repliesMe and insertcoolnamehere gotta hop on a pod and coach di yout dem.
Mar 15, 2021social media/dating apps ruining the game tbh
OPMar 15, 2021·2 replies
insertcoolnamehere"Being myself gets me instantly rejected"
well, ask yourself why does being yourself get you rejected?
trying hella different approaches won't work simply because of that key word: trying. stop trying and just do (it's not easy at first that's why I say you gotta put work in)
Don't judge your looks based on the likes and matches others get. Trust me physical attraction is like.....a small piece of the puzzle. You would be surprised the type of girls you attract with just a little bit of confidence and charisma.
“Why does being yourself get you instantly rejected?”
I don’t feel like I ask the right line of questioning to get a girl interested in the first place, and keeping them interested is a whole other story. Don’t know how many times I’m gonna have to say it but i was super introverted as a kid and I’ve only been in one relationship and this is the result of it. How am I supposed to be content with the way I naturally am if it’s constantly getting me rejected, yet at the same time changing who I am isn’t the key? I’ve racked my brain for hours on end trying to figure out why my conversations are such dead ends and trying to figure out how the conversation can be more about getting to know the girl. Doesn’t matter how I think about this, I can’t change who I am and add some type of personality to my messages so I’m just stuck- Mar 15, 2021blacked
“Why does being yourself get you instantly rejected?”
I don’t feel like I ask the right line of questioning to get a girl interested in the first place, and keeping them interested is a whole other story. Don’t know how many times I’m gonna have to say it but i was super introverted as a kid and I’ve only been in one relationship and this is the result of it. How am I supposed to be content with the way I naturally am if it’s constantly getting me rejected, yet at the same time changing who I am isn’t the key? I’ve racked my brain for hours on end trying to figure out why my conversations are such dead ends and trying to figure out how the conversation can be more about getting to know the girl. Doesn’t matter how I think about this, I can’t change who I am and add some type of personality to my messages so I’m just stucki know it sounds cheesy but girls will want you more if you play hard to get. act like you don’t care about em and for some reason that turns them on
- Mar 15, 2021·1 replySmacked Voodoo
Me and insertcoolnamehere gotta hop on a pod and coach di yout dem.
the game is to be sold not told
but all jokes aside, it REALLY helps if you yourself know EXACTLY what you're looking for. If you just wanna f*** around/not serious, (respectfully) make that known. If you're tryna find a wife/husband/whatever your flavor is for the long term you make that known too.
and know whatever you choose know that it'll just automatically be just as hard for you just because of the game.
as a straight nigga that's openly polyamorous/enm, you'd be shocked how many women will swipe right/message me first only for me to find out they didn't read the damn bio and are like "lol, nvrmind"
Mar 15, 2021insertcoolnamehereIn some cases, asking for social media can be seen as more invasive than just the number.
I only asked for social media ironically one time IRL. But then I got the number later on through that.
suppose it can be depending on the circumstances
saves me a lot of time tho lol lot of matches lately had kids and didn't tell me or put it in their bio
IG bio reveals all tho 
- Mar 15, 2021
asking for a phone number is the move. if she says no, then you know right away. if she gives it to you, then you know there’s a chance. having a convo through text is way easier and way more personable anyways than her sending you a streak snap 💀💀
- Mar 15, 2021blacked
“Why does being yourself get you instantly rejected?”
I don’t feel like I ask the right line of questioning to get a girl interested in the first place, and keeping them interested is a whole other story. Don’t know how many times I’m gonna have to say it but i was super introverted as a kid and I’ve only been in one relationship and this is the result of it. How am I supposed to be content with the way I naturally am if it’s constantly getting me rejected, yet at the same time changing who I am isn’t the key? I’ve racked my brain for hours on end trying to figure out why my conversations are such dead ends and trying to figure out how the conversation can be more about getting to know the girl. Doesn’t matter how I think about this, I can’t change who I am and add some type of personality to my messages so I’m just stuck"i was super introverted as a kid and I’ve only been in one relationship and this is the result of it. How am I supposed to be content with the way I naturally am if it’s constantly getting me rejected, yet at the same time changing who I am isn’t the key?"
It's called not changing who you are, but improving yourself through activities. Learn to be more sociable through the help of the friends you already have (e.g. it didnt work out in the end but a friend definitely came through and helped set me up to get her friend's number once), pick up a hobby, make lifestyle changes (not w** related cause fat niggas are beautiful too but just pick up new things or habits that'll bring more of a brightness to your skin.)
you grew up introverted so you're late on some things. I did too. What helped me was take a deep breath and know that
1. it's not the end of the world, this s*** ain't a race. Contrary to what the relationship sxn and the bros IRL be tryna say, a loooot of niggas be lying. And if it's not about "they body count" than it's about the "quality" of the bodies they boast about (if you got niggas that're out there in the streets). So it's ok to start off late.
2. Ask for general advice from your female friends. Who knows what makes men attractive better than women?
3. Don't be afraid to take a break, you sound like this s*** is reallllllly getting to you. It's ok to take a break sometime.
Mar 15, 2021·1 replyblackedThis is almost exactly it goes everytime I try to start talking to a new girl
1. Match on whatever dumb dating app
2. Ask for Snapchat
3a. I send a few snaps just for the conversation to be super mundane and eventually they just stop opening my messages
3b. I don’t reach out enough because I know the conversations just gonna end up being mundane so I end up talking to a girl like every 3 days about nothing really
3c. I try to be really straightforward and tell the girl I’m not good with Snapchat small talk and I’d much rather go on a date and get to know her in real life. Girl says she’s down to go on a date, then just straight up stops responding after we talk about a date that’s never gonna happen
4. They unadd me/I unadd them
Depressing cycle and at this point I really just wanna delete all the dating apps I have tbhOP you not "talking" with anyone. You just typing over the internet. Talk to girls IRL its not that hard.
- Mar 15, 2021·1 replyinsertcoolnamehere
the game is to be sold not told
but all jokes aside, it REALLY helps if you yourself know EXACTLY what you're looking for. If you just wanna f*** around/not serious, (respectfully) make that known. If you're tryna find a wife/husband/whatever your flavor is for the long term you make that known too.
and know whatever you choose know that it'll just automatically be just as hard for you just because of the game.
as a straight nigga that's openly polyamorous/enm, you'd be shocked how many women will swipe right/message me first only for me to find out they didn't read the damn bio and are like "lol, nvrmind"
Bro you can say you not looking for anything serious and you're gonna have those women who think that they will magically change your mind. The amount of women who have said I'm a piece of s*** cause I wasn't interested in being a relationship with them after f***in despite me clearly saying I'm not looking for a relationship
- OPMar 15, 2021·1 replyfreekodak
OP you not "talking" with anyone. You just typing over the internet. Talk to girls IRL its not that hard.
- Mar 15, 2021·1 replySmacked Voodoo
Bro you can say you not looking for anything serious and you're gonna have those women who think that they will magically change your mind. The amount of women who have said I'm a piece of s*** cause I wasn't interested in being a relationship with them after f***in despite me clearly saying I'm not looking for a relationship
oh naw them girls be DUMB dumb. And they can't even blame that on a nigga when you told them from DAY ONE what it was.
It's Hurt Bae all over again, shawty went viral and made homie seem like a monster when he said over and over again we were never a couple.
- Mar 15, 2021blacked
Friend circles highkey clutch.
- Mar 15, 2021pure thoughts
stop using dating apps, you're only going to hate yourself more
these dumb hoes that are average looking get so much attention because dudes will swipe right in droves and it gets to their head
you might find one decent girl in like 50 tries and that s*** isn't worth your time. just learn how to approach girls irl
Mar 15, 2021·1 replyI see no FaceTime in this cycle 🤔 and you’re complaining ... not everyone is a good texter...why don’t u call them
- Mar 15, 2021pure thoughts
stop using dating apps, you're only going to hate yourself more
these dumb hoes that are average looking get so much attention because dudes will swipe right in droves and it gets to their head
you might find one decent girl in like 50 tries and that s*** isn't worth your time. just learn how to approach girls irl
💯
- Mar 15, 2021·1 replyinsertcoolnamehere
oh naw them girls be DUMB dumb. And they can't even blame that on a nigga when you told them from DAY ONE what it was.
It's Hurt Bae all over again, shawty went viral and made homie seem like a monster when he said over and over again we were never a couple.
Be getting them long ass texts at 1 or 2 in the morning and find out that you were in a whole relationship
- Mar 15, 2021Smacked Voodoo
Be getting them long ass texts at 1 or 2 in the morning and find out that you were in a whole relationship
see this s*** triggering, cause my romantic ass be getting that from shawties giving the "better as friends/I like you too much" treatment.
shawties be toxic asf sometimes man.
- Mar 15, 2021
@op when everything opens up, I promise things'll be more better.
It's not a lot of things to talk about when you're stuck in your house lol.
- OPMar 15, 2021humberg
I see no FaceTime in this cycle 🤔 and you’re complaining ... not everyone is a good texter...why don’t u call them
I can’t ask a girl that unwarranted or it’s gonna be a hard no. She usually has to bring it up and I think the few times I did FaceTime a girl it just didn’t end up working out
- Mar 15, 2021
Yo rt dating apps are trash and anyone who thinks this is the future is trippin
- Mar 15, 2021Smacked Voodoo
Me and insertcoolnamehere gotta hop on a pod and coach di yout dem.
Mar 15, 2021·1 replyIf you get her to laugh, you’re already halfway there to getting inside them panties
Mar 15, 2021uncoolgirls dont watch anime
Damn in my college you were an outlier if you didn’t at least watch Miyazaki
Mar 15, 2021insertcoolnameherefeel like I'm 21 again no bullshit
When you get older and naturally mature and start just naturally getting better at talking to women, you realize most of the reason that you wasn't getting any was because of your own self tbh.
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