Been friends with this girl for a few years, met in college. Nothing too personal or anything but we spent some time together last month and was the brightest and happiest time I’ve had in years

So many similarities, non stop jokes and laughter. Literally nonstop

Haven’t stopped thinking about her since

She got a BF though

Just been very depressed thinking about how stupid I am to catch feelings and s***

To me, it’s not even about wanting to save the friendship and not f*** that up

Because I feel like I already have. How can I be a good f*** even a decent friend if I’m sitting here hoping or wishing her and her man break up — he’s not even that bad of a guy

Who can relate :Macklemore:

So yeah I definitely just need a new girl to take my mind off this and remove from system but I’m just super sad atm

Block her tbh

That kinda seems grimy and immature, no?

This isn’t good advice

OP needs to learn how to separate his feelings with a female friend, they were never in a relationship

It’s not that I don’t have female friends, I have lots that are objectively attractive that I personally am not attracted to

But agreed on this sentiment

it's cool if she has a bf

just make sure u put urself in a position to be next in queue once there finished the probationary period

*if u are a cuck

Learn to let go bro she was never yours to begin with, if you did want her you passed that chance. Don’t let this eat you up and have you doing stupid s***. Give her space out of respect for her and her man

idgi how can feelings, sex, etc change friendships

ur the same ppl at the end of the day

Tell her how you really feel then block her and watch what happens lmfao

I feel like even having this mindset makes me a s***ty person

Not feasible. Very much intertwined with my personal friend group

caught feelings for a ktt2 user

How r u a sh*tty person for liking someone tf

I mean this is pretty much me hoping or at least thinking about her breaking up with someone who she seems to be happy with and has been with for many years

STOP TALKING TO HER, STOP THINKING ABOUT HER, DO NOT PRIORITIZE HER WHATSOEVER. I’ve been in your position before and lord knows taking the above advice would have saved me a whole lotta heartbreak and pain.

U can still be in her life though as just a platonic friend

Yes that is what I want to be. But the road to that now that I have feelings is difficult. Not really something I planned for.

@bruntz and @Culitati

Bro getting his s*** stroked by this

Not sure that's the best idea.

Probably not the best idea to pursue.

u should probably just fall back tbh. dont block her but if u are really starting to catch feelings its probably not the best idea to keep talking to her on the regular.

What do you suggest?

I don’t have any desire to pursue actively.

I just want to be able to remain platonic, semi close friends without me still harboring feelings.

Actually this is a lie “I have no desire to pursue”

Of course I do

I wanna be with her