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  • Mar 21, 2021
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    Mustafa Singh

    What do you suggest?

    I don’t have any desire to pursue actively.

    I just want to be able to remain platonic, semi close friends without me still harboring feelings.

    Then just be friends with her

    You can still be friends with a girl even if you have feelings for her. Why don't you get her to introduce you to some of her friends?

  • Mar 21, 2021
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    DAVIDP

    Then just be friends with her

    You can still be friends with a girl even if you have feelings for her. Why don't you get her to introduce you to some of her friends?

    I know all her friends

    She became part of my larger more personal friend group

  • Mustafa Singh

    Yes that is what I want to be. But the road to that now that I have feelings is difficult. Not really something I planned for.

    Find something else to fill that void

  • Like a teddy bear

  • Mar 21, 2021
    Mustafa Singh

    I know all her friends

    She became part of my larger more personal friend group

    This is your test to growing up and becoming a man bro ✊

  • Mar 21, 2021

    Also it might help if you post her pics so we can a***yze if she’s even worth simping over, dm me

  • Mar 21, 2021

    In HS i had crushes on all my female friends. Looking back it’s not a big deal and those feelings are gone today, but sometimes i feel like a piece of s*** for having those feelings, especially since most of them had BFs at the time

  • Mar 21, 2021
    le epic poster xD

    idgi how can feelings, sex, etc change friendships

    ur the same ppl at the end of the day

    shared feelings are one of the basis for friendship and relationships in general.. of course they would impact a friendship if change occurs. The impact just varies person to person

    As for sex, people are used to boundaries for relationships so I guess it depends on social circle but s***introduces a level of intimacy that some people aren’t comfortable stepping back from and acting ‘normal’ afterwards

  • Mar 21, 2021
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    Mustafa Singh

    I know all her friends

    She became part of my larger more personal friend group

    Then make a move on her friends lol

  • Mar 21, 2021
    DAVIDP

    Then make a move on her friends lol

    Not interested

  • Mar 21, 2021
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    yall have got to stop being friends with women you ain't sticking

  • Mar 21, 2021
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    Tell her bro f*** it, lol.

    At least you can say you said how you felt even if she doesn't feel the same

    And if she doesn't feel the same then it's time to move on

  • Mar 21, 2021
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    Sabotage her relationship with the bf and catch her off the rebound

  • Mar 22, 2021

    “Accidentally” send her a d*** pic that’s as unflattering as possible, that way you know for a fact that she’ll never be interested.

  • Mar 22, 2021
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    Your options are
    Continue to be her friend even though you emotionally can't handle it
    -or-
    Continue to be her friend while realizing there's probably another b**** out there just as cool, who looks just like her and isn't taken.
    -or-
    Cut her off entirely. Move on with your life.

    Good luck.

  • Mar 22, 2021
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    gonetillnovember

    yall have got to stop being friends with women you ain't sticking

    That’s not realistic lol

    Some of my closest friends are females

  • Mar 22, 2021
    big stepper renzo

    Tell her bro f*** it, lol.

    At least you can say you said how you felt even if she doesn't feel the same

    And if she doesn't feel the same then it's time to move on

    The issue with just “telling her” is the implications with our larger friend group. She’s now close to my closest friends. It’d be messy.

  • Mar 22, 2021
    Not Like Josuke

    Sabotage her relationship with the bf and catch her off the rebound

    I’m not close enough to the 2 of them to do so

  • Mar 22, 2021
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    uncool

    Your options are
    Continue to be her friend even though you emotionally can't handle it
    -or-
    Continue to be her friend while realizing there's probably another b**** out there just as cool, who looks just like her and isn't taken.
    -or-
    Cut her off entirely. Move on with your life.

    Good luck.

    1. Not good

    2. Yes, this is ideal and the place I want to get to. And I think this will happen. But until then, it’s very tough.

    3. Never possible due to friend groups mixing. I’ll probably be seeing her and spending time with her again over the summer.

  • Mar 22, 2021
    EMY

    STOP TALKING TO HER, STOP THINKING ABOUT HER, DO NOT PRIORITIZE HER WHATSOEVER. I’ve been in your position before and lord knows taking the above advice would have saved me a whole lotta heartbreak and pain.

    been in the same position and literally this

    work on you king see how much unfolds for you ✍🏽

  • Mar 22, 2021
    big stepper renzo

    Tell her bro f*** it, lol.

    At least you can say you said how you felt even if she doesn't feel the same

    And if she doesn't feel the same then it's time to move on

    i did this and i did it more so for me than her reply tbh

    i just wanted peace of mind and it worked

  • Mar 22, 2021
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    Mustafa Singh

    1. Not good

    2. Yes, this is ideal and the place I want to get to. And I think this will happen. But until then, it’s very tough.

    3. Never possible due to friend groups mixing. I’ll probably be seeing her and spending time with her again over the summer.

    You sound like a cuck.

  • Mar 22, 2021
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    huge choppie fan

    caught feelings for a ktt2 user

    is it me

  • Mar 22, 2021
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    mill

    is it me

    no it's me

  • Mar 22, 2021
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    mill

    is it me