What do you suggest?
I don’t have any desire to pursue actively.
I just want to be able to remain platonic, semi close friends without me still harboring feelings.
Then just be friends with her
You can still be friends with a girl even if you have feelings for her. Why don't you get her to introduce you to some of her friends?
Then just be friends with her
You can still be friends with a girl even if you have feelings for her. Why don't you get her to introduce you to some of her friends?
I know all her friends
She became part of my larger more personal friend group
Yes that is what I want to be. But the road to that now that I have feelings is difficult. Not really something I planned for.
Find something else to fill that void
I know all her friends
She became part of my larger more personal friend group
This is your test to growing up and becoming a man bro ✊
Also it might help if you post her pics so we can a***yze if she’s even worth simping over, dm me
In HS i had crushes on all my female friends. Looking back it’s not a big deal and those feelings are gone today, but sometimes i feel like a piece of s*** for having those feelings, especially since most of them had BFs at the time
idgi how can feelings, sex, etc change friendships
ur the same ppl at the end of the day
shared feelings are one of the basis for friendship and relationships in general.. of course they would impact a friendship if change occurs. The impact just varies person to person
As for sex, people are used to boundaries for relationships so I guess it depends on social circle but s***introduces a level of intimacy that some people aren’t comfortable stepping back from and acting ‘normal’ afterwards
I know all her friends
She became part of my larger more personal friend group
Then make a move on her friends lol
Tell her bro f*** it, lol.
At least you can say you said how you felt even if she doesn't feel the same
And if she doesn't feel the same then it's time to move on
“Accidentally” send her a d*** pic that’s as unflattering as possible, that way you know for a fact that she’ll never be interested.
Your options are
Continue to be her friend even though you emotionally can't handle it
-or-
Continue to be her friend while realizing there's probably another b**** out there just as cool, who looks just like her and isn't taken.
-or-
Cut her off entirely. Move on with your life.
Good luck.
yall have got to stop being friends with women you ain't sticking
That’s not realistic lol
Some of my closest friends are females
Tell her bro f*** it, lol.
At least you can say you said how you felt even if she doesn't feel the same
And if she doesn't feel the same then it's time to move on
The issue with just “telling her” is the implications with our larger friend group. She’s now close to my closest friends. It’d be messy.
Sabotage her relationship with the bf and catch her off the rebound
I’m not close enough to the 2 of them to do so
Your options are
Continue to be her friend even though you emotionally can't handle it
-or-
Continue to be her friend while realizing there's probably another b**** out there just as cool, who looks just like her and isn't taken.
-or-
Cut her off entirely. Move on with your life.
Good luck.
1. Not good
2. Yes, this is ideal and the place I want to get to. And I think this will happen. But until then, it’s very tough.
3. Never possible due to friend groups mixing. I’ll probably be seeing her and spending time with her again over the summer.
STOP TALKING TO HER, STOP THINKING ABOUT HER, DO NOT PRIORITIZE HER WHATSOEVER. I’ve been in your position before and lord knows taking the above advice would have saved me a whole lotta heartbreak and pain.
been in the same position and literally this
work on you king see how much unfolds for you ✍🏽
Tell her bro f*** it, lol.
At least you can say you said how you felt even if she doesn't feel the same
And if she doesn't feel the same then it's time to move on
i did this and i did it more so for me than her reply tbh
i just wanted peace of mind and it worked
1. Not good
2. Yes, this is ideal and the place I want to get to. And I think this will happen. But until then, it’s very tough.
3. Never possible due to friend groups mixing. I’ll probably be seeing her and spending time with her again over the summer.
You sound like a cuck.