Literally how I’ve been moving since 2018. Don’t give these “friend-zone” girls the time of day

if im not laying pipe, you not in my life

I can’t just cut her off or block her. She’s fully engrained in my friend group.

Do you really not have any female friends then?

Or @Stantm4444

don't go for it. If you value your friendship, don't even let her know. i was in your position minus her having a boyfriend and it f***ed over our entire relationship

I have female friends. I’m more referring to girls who I’m sexually or emotionally attracted to.

My female friends are people I enjoy being with platonically and I’m not attracted to them in one of the before-mentioned ways.

If i am sexually or emotionally attracted to a girl i meet, I tell them. if they feel the same, great. If they don’t, I move on. My female friends actually told me to do this is lol In order to not get walked over by girls i liked.

I completely understand. In your case, I would just slowly but surely emotionally and psychologically detach from her. Don’t talk to her about deeply personal things. Keeps things pretty surface and chill. Meanwhile, try to build that deeper connection with another girl who may romantically value you in a way you deserve.

of course, but ive either smacked already or they on the outskirts and most of our engagements with one another is heavily alluding to the prospect of sex/intimacy. im not jus kicking with females like on a strictly platonic level nah

start manifesting

just broke down crying in my room

just feel like a loser

CLASSIC

I’ve been in your shoes op, crying over a girl who was an AWESOME friend who I caught feelings for and she eventually got a bf n all dat.

You need SPACE to heal from her. You don’t have to cut her off but definitely take a break from her. Tell her “I just wanted to say I have feelings for you and it’s hurting me to see you with someone else. I don’t wanna cut you off cuz you’re such an awesome friend , but I definitely need my space. I’ll keep in touch with you when I heal and get myself together “

Then you CUT all communication from her, delete her last message on your phone. Work on yourself and pursue and sleep with other women if possible. My buddy at my job used to always say, “if you wanna get over somebody, get under someone else”.

Humans feel emotions

Dont feel bad about it

I had this happen to me and just told her how i felt then after getting rejected (she was an angel about it) i got over it pretty fast and we r friends again

It is what it is

Also i should say that i dont really talk to people outside of irl so maybe that def of friendship made it easier for me since i'm never texting back n forth w folks idk

Just be cool on her, maybe you’ll get over it or who knows maybe you’re meant to be together but it has to be in a proper way, going behind the BF is a set up for failure