A month ago? You coulda found a whole new chick by now

Yeah bruh i had one gf and shes still cool as hell till this day so when i finally started going out dating other girls i was like

The dating scene was not how i thought it was.

yeah idk OP I went on a few dates with this girl earlier this year and I thought they were going great. We hadn't done anything physical other than cuddle and make out a bit, and she even told me that she liked me a lot and wanted to keep seeing me. Literally next time I saw her she said it was moving too fast and she wasn't ready. There wasn't really much to say, just "ok."

just try to let it slide off your back, bro. not worth beating yourself up over.

this right here

Bruh… SHE DOESNT WANT TO GO OUT

Not on any dating apps, so my options are limited. Had a 6 month class earlier this year, that's where I met her. But now that the class is over, I don't have much opportunity to socialize Had another girl I was flirting with earlier this year recently hit me up again and things were going well. We were chatting nonstop for like 3 days before she mentioned her new boyfriend and I hooked up with a girl on Friday but I'm not attracted to her.

I just want the girl who won't even give me a shot I wouldn't mind if we went out and found out we a terrible match. But at least give a nigga a shot especially after you said yes to a date, damn

You should just transform these threads into a book series

yeah it’s s*** like this that reinforces my reliance on girls making the first move

i’ve probably fumbled the bag by doing this but these are exactly the type of situations i want to avoid. but for you OP, you can’t really have those expectations just because you met on a dating app unless both of you clearly are on that type of time from the start or even mid-date. i’ve met girls from dating apps that i’ve hooked up with on the first date and some that i haven’t even tried to make a move on after multiple dates because it didn’t feel like she was on the same page.

“said i was raw at sex”

this s*** sounds like something an 8th grader would say

I get that now but why even say yes or show interest at first by suggesting when we should go out I asked her out in front of her friends, she easily could've said no and it would've been no big deal

I'm seeing her this weekend at a memorial service for her friend who was killed. I don't even know how to go about bringing the date up now or if I even should

She didn't say that verbatim she just said "Wow you're really good at this, I've came a lot and you're not even tired" as her sweaty, red, acne ridden face looked down on me. Ok shorty, sure thing

Little did she know I have ED from watching way more p*** than I should and need multiple meet ups before my d*** starts to act normal again

Nigga do not bring up the date at a memorial service

F*** is wrong with you niggas

no i havent

sounds disappointing

ok i see you

it’s just the way you said that had me howling

yes but if the other person is nice about it it's nothing to feel bad over

Not at the memorial service, I mean at this point or any point from now. Because if I do bring up the date again, it might come across as me only being interested in her friend and her charity work to get to her. And that's not the case

It sounds like she was silent about being uncomfortable for a while just to play it safe and not make op feel straight up rejected

Dudes who cant handle rejection are dangerous

First link always let her initiate or make the first move to avoid these kinda situations

You can make a move on it if she's making it super obvious though

Bruh girls be acting like they so scared they can't do or say s***. That s*** is on them... as long as you were on some cool and genuine, don't even be tripping about that s*** and look forward to the next girl

many times

she left an hour after that and OP rly thought everything was fine and dandy

OP needs to be euthanized

my f***ing god so many of the mfs on this site are F***ING LOSERS

rapist mentality