Asking beforehand is quite often a big turnoff for the girl and can also be a srs mood killer, especially if she declines

When the time is right to kiss her, youll most likely know it. Energy is very telling. If it seems like the time aint never right then dont even bother tryna kiss her

I had classes with her for months but she was always with her friends I was actually walking alone with her after the last day of class and was just about to ask, but her friends came out of nowhere I just went for it, better than having regrets if I didn't

On the real tho if y’all seen some of the chicks I been with

Idk how I pull some of them my boy but I always think of the famous Nas line:
Aint got no game it’s just some b****es understand my story

We win some and lose some

I might be going through something similar rn. It’s really nothing to think too hard on or let define your future interactions. Hard to know what’s going on in other people’s heads

Horrid advice

Grow up

Y’all be coming off desperate and that’s why you get ghosted

really? I heard the opposite. I think if you can say something really nice and then ask , itll be more sweeter imo

I actually have a date on Saturday, I'll report back.

Physical contact on a date is not desperate 😂 it’s one of the most straightforward ways to communicate attraction. People would be just as likely if not more likely to get ghosted if they actively avoided contact on a first date

Oh yea?

Not true man.

It’s the first date. Of course go for it if you feel like you can, I’m just saying sometimes practicing some restraint can pay off and separate you from all the other guys that are just trying to f*** as quick as possible and dip.

i knew who op was before i opened the thread lol

Why do you care so much op?

You can’t hit every shot you make, you should be drowning in p**** one chick shouldn’t have you making a ktt thread bc she turned you down, it happens to everyone

Just chalk it up to she’s not interested and move on

Damn me and op done lived the same life

Just curious, what cologne do you wear?

u not getting p****

do it

No accounting for it. Women do weird s*** like this. Nothing wrong with you making moves on someone who you matched with on a dating app and came over to your place (unless she explicitly states beforehand that she doesnt want you to kiss her/sex blah blah. One day they interested, the next day they aint. I've learned to just move on quick to the next because chances are you'll never know why they do what they do and you can control it. F*** that go for the kiss again with the next one.

its not but go off

ur overreacting and trying to belittle

can u not f***ing read?