Oct 20, 2021Im usually the more negative.
Oct 20, 2021JohnCenaYou gotta ask to kiss her/hold her hands .
That's the consent.
You gotta be real smooth with it too after the date.
Just compliment her by saying she's beautiful and ask for a kiss. If she says no, then she's not comfortable, if she says yes then you're good.
That's more safe and comfortable for both parties
Dude wtf you DO NOT ASK a girl to kiss man..wth is wrong with yall that's like literally the biggest turn off for a girl. There are maybe a very limited amount of circumstances where that would work or be a good idea. 98% of the time you gotta go for it when the time and vibe is right. Women like dudes with ballls for one, and to also feel like s*** is spontaneous
Smh
- Oct 20, 2021·3 replies
You never make a move the first link you ALWAYS wait til second sometimes even third
- Oct 20, 2021
Only built for sneaky linx
- Oct 20, 2021·1 reply
BlueChew SeanI get that now but why even say yes or show interest at first by suggesting when we should go out
I asked her out in front of her friends, she easily could've said no and it would've been no big dealI'm seeing her this weekend at a memorial service for her friend who was killed. I don't even know how to go about bringing the date up now or if I even should
Did u really just ask if u should bring up the date at a f***ing memorial service Jesus Christ I swear y’all slow on here or sum
- Oct 20, 2021·1 replyJohnCena
You gotta ask to kiss her/hold her hands .
That's the consent.
You gotta be real smooth with it too after the date.
Just compliment her by saying she's beautiful and ask for a kiss. If she says no, then she's not comfortable, if she says yes then you're good.
That's more safe and comfortable for both parties
WTF u never ask to kiss or hold hands how old are u??
- Oct 20, 2021
JetpackThat doesn’t mean anything man. Some girls ain’t trying to be intimate in that way on the first hang out
Honestly, be different from other guys and hold out on trying to touch her on the first date. S*** is a power move
This is the only actual good advice in here, even mildly attractive girls always have to deal w thirsty ass guys u play it like u don’t even care if u pipe or not and she’ll be all over u
Oct 20, 2021·1 replyDatLilGeekedBoyWTF u never ask to kiss or hold hands how old are u??
its really the equivalent to asking for a hug in middle school
- Oct 20, 2021·1 replymyleezy
its really the equivalent to asking for a hug in middle school
Fr man I’m really starting to doubt most ppl on tbis forum have ever actually hung out with women
Oct 20, 2021DatLilGeekedBoyFr man I’m really starting to doubt most ppl on tbis forum have ever actually hung out with women
This thread is gold lol
- Oct 20, 2021DatLilGeekedBoy
You never make a move the first link you ALWAYS wait til second sometimes even third
Okay nerd
- Oct 20, 2021DatLilGeekedBoy
Did u really just ask if u should bring up the date at a f***ing memorial service Jesus Christ I swear y’all slow on here or sum
I meant "now" as in now that I'll be going to the memorial service, I feel like I can't ever bring up the date again because I'll look like a thirsty nigga who only took an interest in her friend's death to get to her. Obviously I wouldn't bring it up AT the memorial service
Oct 20, 2021·1 reply
insertcoolnamehereYou can tell a LOOOOOOOT of people on this sxn have never dealt with a woman that actually likes them.
Once you dealt with a woman that actually likes you, you realize it's very easy to tell when she's not into you.
I think maybe I moved too quick because I’m used to women moving quick with me but I just idk, I’m confused.
@op I really really REALLY think you need to take a break from dating/hooking up and get into therapy bro. Like I'm actually being deadass serious with this.
Not all girls reveal their interest that blatantly
- Oct 20, 2021
- Oct 20, 2021DatLilGeekedBoy
You never make a move the first link you ALWAYS wait til second sometimes even third
Ehh not necessarily
Oct 20, 2021I agree
- Oct 20, 2021·1 reply
EinfinetPhysical contact on a date is not desperate 😂 it’s one of the most straightforward ways to communicate attraction. People would be just as likely if not more likely to get ghosted if they actively avoided contact on a first date
absolutely not, for a lot of women physical contact on the first date is a red flag.
if she’s just into the physical side of things/obviously just wants that stuff then cool, but otherwise i would nottttt touch on first date and DEF wouldn’t try to kiss on first date
- Oct 20, 2021·1 reply
dardy cinqits not but go off
what he said is def a rapist mentality and he knew it, that’s why he never replied to my post even tho he’s posting itt rn
if you can’t see it then you’re probably also a rapist
- 0 👀Oct 20, 2021
Op creeping on girls in 2021 is a dangerous game lmfaooo
It amazes me he is still going
- Oct 20, 2021UIP
absolutely not, for a lot of women physical contact on the first date is a red flag.
if she’s just into the physical side of things/obviously just wants that stuff then cool, but otherwise i would nottttt touch on first date and DEF wouldn’t try to kiss on first date
Hm just goes to show how many different expectations there are. Not even kissing or sex, but I’ve never heard of anyone considering a hug to end a date to be a red flag
Oct 20, 2021first page is crazy
Oct 20, 2021·2 repliesOP’s the same idiot that asked his friend that he would lick her out cause he got a vibe from her
You can’t read s***
- Oct 20, 2021
Jitney SpearxHell yeah bro, had a tinder date with this cute short girl who seemed really down to earth
She really wanted to see me and we set up a lil dinner date pretty fast which was different.
We had a nice date at Chili’s lol and went back to my place around the corner to smoke a blunt.
She made it sound like she wanted to chill again talking bout smoking again and s***.
But the next day we texted a couple texts and then I find out she blocks me on everything……
I really just don’t know what her intentions were like if she was seeing if she wanted to hook up or what?
S*** kinda f***s with ur head when that stuff happens man. 😞 like damn was I not what u wanted…..
But just gotta say f*** a b**** and do you for a little while longer till someone good pops up in ur life. S*** happens when I don’t expect it.
Tbh tho man I been feining for some female interaction. But also I don’t wanna just hook up rn, I would like to form a relationship but it’s just so many people out here who have different goals than that
Cole world brother