Yeah same time frame almost

For me we were on/off from 2020-2021 but i thought about her nearly all of 2022 even when i had other gfs. We talked again very briefly in very early 2023 and i finally realized i was infatuated with the idea of her and she was infatuated with the idea of me. We came to the conclusion that if we had any respect for each other we would both walk away bc if we kept our cycle up no way we didnt end up completely hating each other. Have barely even spoke to her since besides an occasional happy birthday or condolences text, but I wish her the best man she changed me forever lol.

You know, I got every damn car, multiple cribs
But it's like, "No, I want that," ha

To be fair it's the type of event I have every right to be at and I'm not gonna change my life schedule. If anything she should be the one not to show up

But you're right and you're right about everything else too

100%

Why haha

Why are you having trouble sleeping @op ? Are you overthinking in bed?

Get out of bed if you can’t fall asleep. Journal and dump your thoughts out. Read a non-stimulating book. Take a short walk outside. Avoid phone or blue-light emitting screens 1-2 hours before bed.

If you’re stressed during the day and getting regretful thoughts, hit the gym to take your mind off it and boost your mood.

Talk to friends and family about it, but don’t talk too much about it. There’s a point where it goes from helpful to detrimental. But a support system helps.

Most importantly, you’ll move on eventually in time. Might be longer than usual.

The more you look at old texts or pics or IG stuff is going to restart the clock. So delete anything that’s unnecessary and mute her or mutual friends you got on the TL

You fasho glamorizing her lol

And the next album he’s referring to her as his ex to the new girl he’s in love with lol

You’re one of the nicest people on ktt2 people like you.

I have never seen you this distraught before. You’ll find someone else

I know the feeling but reconsider the thought process of giving everything up for someone thats not family

How long have you known her and long were/have you been together

Thanks for all of the advice bro you're the best

Yea every night I've been overthinking laying in bed and when I finally do fall asleep I wake up in a panic as if I'm having a heart attack or something

The lack of sleep is def taking a toll on my mental health

This insomnia actually is what caused me to make this thread it was my way of "journaling" in the moment

All of my friends have asked to hear all the details but it's exhausting to continually tell it

Tbh I genuinely feel like I'm never going to bounce back from this

Half of her friends already removed me and I removed the other half

The worst part about iPhones is they love to remind you of old memories

Not at all tbh

She's perfect

I've dated plenty of amazing girls but she is the only one who I truly felt at home at at peace with

Aww thanks bro love you

I'm in shambles tbh

First time in a very long time where I hate life

She's the only person in my entire life where I felt at home and at peace with

My life felt complete but feels like a nightmare without her

Basically about a year

But we were literally inseparable and spent every single day together and I slept over 4-5 nights every week

youll get over her eventually man it takes time to heal and forget about such significant person in your life, once u come to terms that u will never actually forget her and that she was a blessed part of your life u will move on easier

nobody is actually irreplaceable tbh and this is the you "now" that is sad, once u grow you will recollect yourself and take everything that u learned then, pos or neg as lessons for the rest of your life

i also had to break up with my first girl after we had been together almost 3yrs and because of the lockdown mainly, we literally spent 2,5yrs day by day with each other
so for me, i also had to find new routines and get used to the fact that she wasnt there anymore, which indeed was very strange at first and cause u spent so much time together, it feels like every single little thing in your day to day routine is linked to her
but as time goes, that will fade and will be replaced by newer memories/experiences

i can say, i still think about my ex, but i dont mind, i dont get emotional about it or something, its as if a friend from high school or whatever pops in my head, ill think about it, reflect on whatever memory and then just move on

since then i met plenty of girls and never really had issues unless they reminded me of her in a bad way lol then its red flag alert
like i havent been in a relationshp ever since, cause its not my focus
but if it were, i already know id have a "better" relationship than the last, cause its just gonna be totally diff

time heals
use it to reflect
dont run away
or try to neglect/forget

what u had was powerful, be glad it happened
learn from it
become a better and newer you
blessings will follow suit

such as?

How you gotta million dollars ?

is this your first heartbreak bro?

I'm over a month into a breakup and ngl I've been spiraling but we'll be alright

You did a Chris Breezy on her huh

Yea you def did a chris breezy

Disgusting!

Depends on the person like i said and calm down with the name calling