nothing worse then heart break man your emotions are valid dont feel down on yourself for letting it get to you this much its natural youll be aight op

Sounds like She used you as what The “red pill” community calls a “Beta orbiter” lol smh. You’ll b ite...boss up and keep s*** rollin

Fair enough

Prolly found another dude.

These w****s ain’t s***.

Keep it movin OP.

I feel like trying to find the right girl is like drafting a franchise quarterback. Its heart of your team but finding an elite qb so difficult. Don't wanna get desperate and end up with A mitch Trubisky. OP you def avoided a mitch trubisky. Sometimes you might have to settle for alex smith until you meet your soulmate patrick mahomes.

I’m a Bears fan and

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I’m glad I can help bro. Don’t overthink it, it’ll be hard for maybe a couple days. Once you stop entertaining her and just really pay her no mind you’ll be on to the next in no time. And just think about it this way.... she could’ve did you dirty frfr like played with your feelings for months and years. At work just think about the bread you never s*** where you eat. This is just a learning experience.

Getting in the wrong relationship can set you back years just like how drafting the wrong franchise qb can be devasting

Sometimes your dream girl is tied up with the wrong crowd but she finna be single real soon so her best years aint wasted yet (Watson)

The worst case scenario is you find your dream girl absolute dime shokeshow super talented like Andrew Luck, thrive for a few years but were a s***ty husband and ignored her emotional woes and injuries. Before you know it shes gone boom retired

I read OP and unfortunately I’m thinking she had someone else she was dealing wit

Sucks

Great way to get a harassment charge

Being intimate with someone doesnt mean romantic is what i meant nigga.

Aight, i aint know we was reaching red pill territory

Did she ever give you any strong signals before you approached her? Or once you got her number and y’all were spending time together, did she ever call you cute or express any physical attraction towards you? Or did she ever seem stricken by your personality: say “you’re something else” or be impressed by you putting her on/how you conducted yourself?

If it’s no to all three questions, that should’ve been a sign she wasn’t feeling you like that. But try to move past it. It’ll be hard but this is something to learn from and improve on so you’ll be sharper by the next girl

- BRAVE

Yea we get it. On KTT if you do anything other than blindly bow down to the female species, you’re an loser.

Okay simp.

Holy s*** bro

You aren’t eligible for diversion?

• Gets good advice from several people
• Does the exact opposite

In all seriousness op, don’t force it. Infatuation can blind us sometimes and we allow ourselves to believe that we can win someone over with persistence or romantic gestures.

It’s just not gonna happen man. She’s already said she’s not interested and just wants to be friends. Don’t take that personally, that’s just how it goes. Your time will come.

But I promise you that continuing to hit her up is only going to make things more awkward. If I were you, I’d just go back to acting like you were at work before you’d hung out, crack jokes and don’t mention anything romantic.

If she changes her mind about you, you’ll know it. Just fall back for now, better for everyone.

Have been in your shoes before and unfortunately continuing to pursue someone who isn’t interested, no matter how pure your intentions, just makes you look worse.

There’s just no way you’ll gain anything (except maybe pity) by hitting her up and trying to win her over. It could however go left very quickly especially with work involved.

You’ll find a girl my man. Don’t worry about it

@op I feel you

It's a cliché but it really does get better with time if you take the right steps and let yourself heal

But to justify some of what you went through, and I learned this lesson the hard way (same as you):

Society likes to say that girls are "the ones with feelings" and man are just stone cold and don't care bout all that

But reality is that girls get attached way quicker than man but they also get bored and change their feelings like socks

When it comes to man we take our time to get to know the girl but when we fall for her we fall deep

And that can cause a situation when for first month of your "relationship" the girl was giving clear signals she wants you while you still were thinking "Do I really like her like that?"

And when finally you realize "man... I'm really falling for this girl. I love spending time with her" She will be like "too late hihi I'm already on to the next one haha"

Only solution is communication from the start and on one side the girl has to know your feelings and on the other you need to keep up to date with what's happening in her head

Hope you get better

Who hurt you like that bruh

I been done my fair share of dirt but I literally ain’t even talking from personal experience.

Ask all yo homies.

We ain’t the real dogs.

I’ve also (unknowingly, until the end) been the side piece. Multiple times.

Again:

These w****s ain’t s***.