Jul 27, 2022
maxxwhy is this thread still going
op makes me so mad
ppl just #vibing in here :
🤷🏻♂️😝- Jul 27, 2022·2 replies
BlueChew SeanAye, that's great for real. Glad to see you achieving your goals
I remember seeing a thread and being genuinely concerned for you, it's so good to hear that you're in a better place nowI also had a long term high school/college gf but looking back, I was the one who did her dirty. I still see her sometimes when I'm walking my dogs, I think she's dating a new guy now who lives close to me. It's still not easy seeing her because I regret a lot about how things turned out
But I'm finally putting myself out there and seeing other women nowJust keep doing you, find fulfillment in what genuinely makes you happy and the partner will come into your life eventually. I promise you
This is going to sound corny and stereotypical, but meditating, keeping a journal and exercising does wonders for your mental health. Therapy is great because you have a professional to talk to and vent, but that's the kinda advice they recommend anyway. Read self help books like Atomic Habits and Models too
I'm not saying don't go to therapy, but you seem to be in a pretty good place in your life now. I feel like it may be a wastethat’s rough, I can’t imagine seeing my ex in passing frequently. With all I’ve said being put aside though, I am still not the best mentally. I’ve accomplished most of what I wanted, but I’m still not happy. There’s still weeks where I won’t leave the house and I’ll literally be in bed for days. My ex started dating someone a month after we ended things and told me she loved him when I tried to reconcile things about a month into their relationship. Lots of things from my past still haunt me and there are still times I feel like I’ll feel this way forever. There are days where I feel so ugly and I offen genuinely believe no one I find attractive will want me. I literally avoid walking by mirrors a lot of times. Still lots to improve, but I really am trying to be better mentally and spiritually
Jul 27, 2022·1 replylucky starplus 15k in bonuses and stocks
Ik a lot of this thread comes off as a flex, but I just wanted to provide context. I understand I am privileged and am extremely lucky to have had the opportunities I’ve had, but I have also worked my ass off and strategized to be where I’m at. this is a list I made on December 31, 2021. I’ve been able to do everything except the find a partner and start therapy one within 6 months
I was really bummed about Sarah last year. To very dark extents. This year I realized how much of a blessing it was that God took her out of my life and how it essentially had to happen, but I kept forcing it not to. I realized she would have been an awful wife, I wouldn’t want to raise my kids around her family, and I only really liked her for the image. I just liked the idea of having a partner and wanted to avoid being lonely, but didn’t really like her past the first year of our relationship. She also recently unblocked me on ig because she showed up in my suggested and she fell off so hard
She got bigger 
Bc of everything, I think I’m at a place where I truly know not to ever let anyone treat me that way and to know my worth. I still fear I’ll never find anyone I truly love from time to time, but I’ve been learning to take it day by day.
"she got bigger"
W
- Jul 27, 2022Malcolm
"she got bigger"
W
as politically correct as i can put things
plants 🌻Jul 27, 2022god i f***ing love to watch my brothers prosper
i just want to see everyone live a life like op full of abundance
- Jul 27, 2022lucky star
that’s rough, I can’t imagine seeing my ex in passing frequently. With all I’ve said being put aside though, I am still not the best mentally. I’ve accomplished most of what I wanted, but I’m still not happy. There’s still weeks where I won’t leave the house and I’ll literally be in bed for days. My ex started dating someone a month after we ended things and told me she loved him when I tried to reconcile things about a month into their relationship. Lots of things from my past still haunt me and there are still times I feel like I’ll feel this way forever. There are days where I feel so ugly and I offen genuinely believe no one I find attractive will want me. I literally avoid walking by mirrors a lot of times. Still lots to improve, but I really am trying to be better mentally and spiritually
I've seen what you look like - I have no reason to lie about this, you're a really good looking guy
I know how tough that might be for you to belief because I also suffer from low self-esteem. But you probably turn heads in public without even noticingJust keep working on yourself, you'll get there eventually. It's the little things. Give yourself positive affirmations - what's affecting you is the way you view yourself. And that can be changed
Jul 27, 2022lucky starthat’s rough, I can’t imagine seeing my ex in passing frequently. With all I’ve said being put aside though, I am still not the best mentally. I’ve accomplished most of what I wanted, but I’m still not happy. There’s still weeks where I won’t leave the house and I’ll literally be in bed for days. My ex started dating someone a month after we ended things and told me she loved him when I tried to reconcile things about a month into their relationship. Lots of things from my past still haunt me and there are still times I feel like I’ll feel this way forever. There are days where I feel so ugly and I offen genuinely believe no one I find attractive will want me. I literally avoid walking by mirrors a lot of times. Still lots to improve, but I really am trying to be better mentally and spiritually
Try smoking a good blunt my man. You over a***yzing yourself and just need to relax. Once you learn to let go a little bit, life will get easier I promise.
Jul 27, 2022·1 replylucky staryeah they usually require it during the application process
for reference my salary is in the mid 90’s
like 90k?
- Jul 27, 2022lucky star
i honestly don’t know lol
I had a job in university where I made like 20/hr working from home part time. I got about 3k worth of RSU’s. Same job paid for my tuition and my financial aid grants paid for my housing and food which is how I came out with no debt so I just stacked what I made in the 3 years I was in school. I also had a clothing business for a few months that netted about 4k total in a few months. Aside from that, I’d flip sneakers or random things here and there. Profit would be $20 to the highest which was an art piece I resold for like 4k profit one time. After that, I moved back home and my first job out of college at 22 paid 70k.
What's your occupation?
Jul 27, 2022·editedNothing wrong with staying at home. I think it would drive you crazy living alone from posts you've made here.
Get your bread up and enjoy life
- Jul 27, 2022·1 replyShy
like 90k?
97 to be exact
- Jul 27, 2022
fakerickhoodiedamnnn good s*** homie
what was the job out of college that paid 70? and did it have to do with what you were majoring in if you dont mind me asking
Current role is technical business a***yst
previous role was the samebasically gathering requirements from the business and then translating it to work for developers/qa testers. then overseeing everything to make sure all requirements are being met.
I majored in Management Information Systems. Has a few different names depending on the school, but it’s essentially business mixed with computer science.
Jul 27, 2022Live at home and save up/invest would be dumb af not to
- Jul 27, 2022lucky star
in a weird place
turned 23 two months ago. I just got a job where I make an ok living in in Dallas. I can afford to move out on my own. I have no debt. I helped my parents pay our house off a bit ago so I’m not bumming. I pay for my food, my family’s cell phone bill, and anout $500 in car payment (includes insurance). I planned on moving out to downtown dallas about 20 min from my house. I get along great with my parents and don’t have any issues. There are times where I can feel like I have no space though. I also feel like it’s frowned upon. Another thing is I always fear dating will be a struggle telling them I’m 23 and still live at home. On the other hand, I could aggressively invest and travel with the income and stay here. Very conflicted. what would you do
You're 23, if that's a deterrent to dating than that's good. Seems like outside of the b****es you don't have many issues staying at the crib. I would say stay home for at least another 2 yrs, stack up, learn how to invest and budget the money that way when it's time for you to have a family (if that's what you want) you have money saved in case the options for maternity/paternity leave aren't beneficial to what your plans are/could be.
The option of staying at home will most likely be financially freeing in your pursuits of homeownership/dating/marriage/travel and will most likely place you in a better housing market
Jul 27, 2022·1 replyRicky is like KTT2s literal child we have to take care of
- Jul 27, 2022·1 replyFaith
Ricky is like KTT2s literal child we have to take care of
Sounds like he has it better planned than most of us.
Jul 27, 2022·2 repliesShySounds like he has it better planned than most of us.
That's because we been planning out his whole life since age 14. You familiar with the concept Twitch plays Pokémon? In this scenario, Twitch is KTT2 and Pokémon is Ricky's life.
- Jul 27, 2022Danny
That's because we been planning out his whole life since age 14. You familiar with the concept Twitch plays Pokémon? In this scenario, Twitch is KTT2 and Pokémon is Ricky's life.
LMFAO - plants 🌻Jul 27, 2022Danny
That's because we been planning out his whole life since age 14. You familiar with the concept Twitch plays Pokémon? In this scenario, Twitch is KTT2 and Pokémon is Ricky's life.
Jul 27, 2022lucky star97 to be exact
This isn’t the comment but you mention moving out will force you to maybe make friends and easier to have a relationship but if you’re not tryna f*** until marriage like you also mention (but that’s different from being pressed to do so,…I think ur Christian right?) it may just make it easier for you to be isolated! Speaking from experience and witnessing other people.
Now, on the friend tip you’re doing p good for yourself so if living with your folks and stacking bread makes people think less of you and want to hang out less, maybe don’t be friends with them. But try to hang out with your brother and your cousins/church friends more and naturally your friend group should expand. Or try to find a personal and social hobby. Getting more involved in those will help you branch your social circle out.
Cannot help u on the dating tip as far as living at home and tbh idk wha r more we as a site could say to you about dating that you would listen to
But you can definitely go make friends. You have time on your side try some hobbies you might find interesting, even if you suck at them, and try to find some stuff to do outside (heat permitting) like hiking or some type of ball. It will not be a straight line but be present and engaged and uh stuff should work out. But don’t be acting towards your friends like you be acting towards women checking their Spotify and s*** like that. You will drive yourself insane if you don’t change that but hm I’m not sure what it’s worth saying this. But good luck you’re doing well for yourself otherwise
Jul 28, 2022lucky starplus 15k in bonuses and stocks
Ik a lot of this thread comes off as a flex, but I just wanted to provide context. I understand I am privileged and am extremely lucky to have had the opportunities I’ve had, but I have also worked my ass off and strategized to be where I’m at. this is a list I made on December 31, 2021. I’ve been able to do everything except the find a partner and start therapy one within 6 months
I was really bummed about Sarah last year. To very dark extents. This year I realized how much of a blessing it was that God took her out of my life and how it essentially had to happen, but I kept forcing it not to. I realized she would have been an awful wife, I wouldn’t want to raise my kids around her family, and I only really liked her for the image. I just liked the idea of having a partner and wanted to avoid being lonely, but didn’t really like her past the first year of our relationship. She also recently unblocked me on ig because she showed up in my suggested and she fell off so hard
She got bigger Bc of everything, I think I’m at a place where I truly know not to ever let anyone treat me that way and to know my worth. I still fear I’ll never find anyone I truly love from time to time, but I’ve been learning to take it day by day.
try marking therapy off the list you have the money to get a high rated therapist to help you with decisions like this
- Jul 28, 2022·1 reply
i’ve decided to stay home at least another year
- Jul 28, 2022·1 replylucky star
i’ve decided to stay home at least another year
Your parents are getting older cherish the moments.
Do little things such as taking them out to lunch or dinner in nice restaurants, trust me they will love that s***. It shows them how secure you are financially and that they’ve done their part as your parents.
- Jul 28, 2022·editedANIME
Your parents are getting older cherish the moments.
Do little things such as taking them out to lunch or dinner in nice restaurants, trust me they will love that s***. It shows them how secure you are financially and that they’ve done their part as your parents.
real af
love my parents
recently took them to disney world
feels good being able to take my mom who always bought reps to the LV or Gucci store and being able to buy her whatever purse
this is also tmi and corny but when i was a little kid i asked my mom why guys like my dad give diamond rings to girls when they get married and she said it was bc they loved them and wanted everyone to know. I said sons should be able to do it too and promised to get her one when i was older. Want to get her a cartier ring for xmas
- Aug 2, 2022·1 reply
@luckystar came across you video on TikTok
search up @Danesh and he reposted your video of that one racist white dude you recorded in the mall