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  • Nov 3, 2019
    White Ferarri

    What

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    And I'm definitely not having a bf anytime soon considering I can't come out as bi

    Same but I’m gay lmao

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    CLB BMO

    Honestly if it’s that bad you just have to force yourself breh. It’s going be f***ing awkward and weird and it’s like that the first times for everyone

    Or if you have friends they can help out too. I don’t even think I could’ve bagged my first gf if it wasn’t for my bros helping me out in HS cause I was mad shy

    But if you got no one to help you you just gotta force yourself. I’m in college know and I’ve been curved so a lot that it doesnt phase me I just move on to the next one

    I know but it's just that I don't see why anyone would date me. Most people aren't even aware I exist I barely talk I just sit in the back and study and leave. And I don't really have friends I meant peers I guess.

  • Nov 3, 2019
    aaa aaa

    Same but I’m gay lmao

  • Nov 3, 2019

    Tbh prostitutes seem like a better option but only in some ways, because at the end of the day it's still just empty s***as opposed to an actual relationship. But then again most relationships where both people are virgins are usually not because they actually like each other so idk it's rly weird

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    might be the only way for some of us

    The idea of a “soulmate” and the mystery of “game” are both bullshit.
    Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world for a reason and, for the most part, is pretty honest business.
    Not everyone either has or wants to spend hours talking to someone they know they have no genuine interest in when they could spend $60-$100 to reach the same point.

  • Nov 3, 2019
    Legacy

    22 and same

    Our day will come brother

    Keep your head up king

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    laudi

    The idea of a “soulmate” and the mystery of “game” are both bullshit.
    Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world for a reason and, for the most part, is pretty honest business.
    Not everyone either has or wants to spend hours talking to someone they know they have no genuine interest in when they could spend $60-$100 to reach the same point.

    This. But still I feel like you miss out on emotional connection if you go this route

  • Nov 3, 2019

    And I don't want to regret it when I'm older

  • Nov 3, 2019

    I just feel like it's so distracting. It's got to the point where I can't even focus properly. I sit to study but end up thinking about it for like 20 minutes before I realize how much time I just wasted .

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    Can’t relate

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    Yeah I feel bad for you op

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    Maybe ask out a girl???

  • Nov 3, 2019
    whatzgud

    Maybe ask out a girl???

    I can't it's not that easy

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    This. But still I feel like you miss out on emotional connection if you go this route

    I’m not advocating for exclusively fornicating with prostitutes

    Just saying that it’s a fun thing to do in moderation (i.e. once a month)

    One idea won’t work for everybody but meeting people outside of social circles is hell.

  • Nov 3, 2019

    I never even talked to any of the girls in my class. I barely talked to anyone

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    whatzgud

    Maybe ask out a girl???

    When was the last time you did this?

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    laudi

    When was the last time you did this?

    I am a girl lmaoo but I ask guys to go on dates sometimes

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    In all honestly, don't worry about relationships; ESPECIALLY when you're 16. Your teens/early 20s are the perfect time to perfect what you want to do in life (getting good grades, messing around with hobbies, etc). People come and go but the skills you practice don't

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    whatzgud

    I am a girl lmaoo but I ask guys to go on dates sometimes

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    laudi

    I’m not advocating for exclusively fornicating with prostitutes

    Just saying that it’s a fun thing to do in moderation (i.e. once a month)

    One idea won’t work for everybody but meeting people outside of social circles is hell.

    But would you say there's a chance to regret losing your virginity to a prostitute when you're older

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    dood

    In all honestly, don't worry about relationships; ESPECIALLY when you're 16. Your teens/early 20s are the perfect time to perfect what you want to do in life (getting good grades, messing around with hobbies, etc). People come and go but the skills you practice don't

    True but it's really hard to control emotions

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    True but it's really hard to control emotions

    Ngl music helps, atleast for me. Hearing someone go through the same s*** I do makes me realize that a lot of people go through that s*** in a different way

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    But would you say there's a chance to regret losing your virginity to a prostitute when you're older

    Depends on how you view sex. But speaking as someone six years older than you, wait. Buy a fleshlight and practice hip rotation/ not c*******in seconds before doing that.

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    True but it's really hard to control emotions

    Practice. It will take years, though.