you'll be fine

On god I ain’t get my first girl till 17 lmao you ain’t missing nothing brother stay single

I never will have gf but I’m gay.

You ever had a girl?

Don't feel bad a lot of people do. Matter of fact this really pretty girl in my class (college) said she's never been on a date, in front of the whole class. That takes guts to say. Ended up talking to her some just off that Haha

Don’t rush this girl s***

When it’s right, it’ll happen naturally

Never force a vibe

Nah man that’s a negative way to think. Everyone has their own interests and I’m sure someone at your school shares a few of not most of yours

Your selling yourself short. You just gotta be vocal more. Ppl ignore you cause you seem like you don’t want to be bothered so just express yourself more

OP I was just like you when I was 16, I'm living my best life right now with my girl and we've been dating about a year now.

If you freeze up when talking to girls you gotta chill. They just like you and they won't remember every time you do some dumb stuff.

Before you try and lay some moves or some s*** you gotta make friends with some of girls and don't try and do some f*** s*** with em. You'll learn to relate and talk to em on a human level and you'll no longer be an loser. They might introduce you to some of their friends too.

Now when you're cool with that you can move on to making moves.

find love not conquest for p****

ur 24 wtf

Imo u should focus on your future and finding out what ur rly good at. You'll get confidence thru success an the women/money follows. Half these dudes focused on p**** will b f***ed up soon tbh

lowkey same op but youre 16 and will grow a lot in the next few years

i relate in a different way that i personally havent really felt genuine feelings past physical attraction for a girl in a while. the girls i do feel that for slightly are usually too close at the point (friends, mutuals, etc.) at the point im too b**** made to act on it for a relationship unless their the ones pushing it

honestly jealous of people in steady relationships. hook up culture gets super hollow when your horniness dies down and all your best friends are relo'd up

but more relevant to you. Personally when I was 16 I hardly interacted with girls either, i went to an all boys school ffs and was reserved but pretentious/arrogant. I guess its only when I opened myself as vulnerable to friends and started proactively building friendships with them is when my confidence grew in that way. Past high school I also developed a lot. Whether it was through uni, travel, mutuals, or even working.

And you arent realistically going to be friends with everyone, but I do think I communicate effectively and openly with people a lot easier which leads me to having a variety of relationships and conversations with people which are quite different from each other. I think for you girls will just be the by product of developing your confidence and yourself as a person, and even without being out going you can probably find a superficial relationship at your age because there are just as many girls which are quiet.

welp it's over OP. We all know you peak at life at the age of 16 my g.

Well if I fail after 18 guess I can just say I'm saving it for marriage

I know but it's really hard I struggle with speaking in general

I'd like to think I'm not an loser

Thats no big deal. I turned into a playa in my twenties & was square w women before 🤷🏾‍♂️

Im getting impatient tryna find me a real wifey though

op ur 16 and ive seen u post on here about dreading entering working life and that you’ll never find a gf

you’re a kid, you will be still growing up for the next 10 years at least. enjoy it while you can

I know it’s hard but you need confidence, and you to try with a lot of girls especially if you are not attractive don’t be scared of rejection

I made it clear to the world ain’t nobody gonna be that somebody

Damn b some the posters here later talk s*** like they're sum 'alpha males' in music sxn

The delusionals fw dis one..