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  • Nov 3, 2020
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    i do not but my neighbor has a very noticeable stutter. it's just part of him tho, it's never bothered me any and nobody ever makes a big deal of it

  • Nov 3, 2020

    I have a bad habit of speaking too fast. Working on it tho

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    u ok jay

    i do not but my neighbor has a very noticeable stutter. it's just part of him tho, it's never bothered me any and nobody ever makes a big deal of it

    That’s awesome & I love how you don’t judge him for it & just accept it as is. That’s beautiful

  • Nov 3, 2020
    BIGSTEPPERDISNEY

    That’s awesome & I love how you don’t judge him for it & just accept it as is. That’s beautiful

    we gotta love one another bro

  • Nov 3, 2020
    Gojira

    I stutter sometimes

    There's a difference between stumbling over your words and having a stutter as a real speech impediment. Everybody stumbles over words sometimes. Not everyone actually has the impediment/condition.

    Which one is it for you?

    Nice avatar, by the way.

  • Nov 4, 2020
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    BIGSTEPPERDISNEY

    Just wondering. I was born 2 and a half months premature and, as a result, I’ve had a speech impediment my whole life. It’s nothing too bad, but I do have to use filler words such as “uhh” or “um” to get past particular words or letters that I’ll stumble on.

    For instance, I work at a call center, and instead of saying “thank you for calling” I say “wireless help desk” because the T will cause me to stutter & have a block. My stutter makes me have short pauses that can last up to 5-10 seconds, depending on how anxious I am.

    It used to cause me a lot of anxiety especially when giving speeches in college & high school.

    However, with the help of therapy, I’ve realized the beauty in my stutter & realized it’s made me a much better listener & empathetic person. It’s very easy to place myself in someone else’s shoes and relate to them.

    Anyway, just was curious if anyone else has fluency issues or if it’s just me on the site

    Only 1% of us out there, show your s-s-s-self

    Biden spoke beautifully about stutterers

    !https://youtu.be/0jMM2TazlcM

    I have a stutter for as long as I can remember. It's had its ups and downs, but it's generally alright the past few years. Comes and goes, really. I can communicate to the point where I can be understood these days, but I wish I could speak more elegantly, you know?

    I think it's mostly psychological because I don't stutter when speaking to people I'm close to or people I don't feel so judged by. With classmates, teachers, and managers? Yeah, I for sure have those blocks you speak of.

    I don't do the whole r-r-r-r-repeating thing. It's just a silent block for me, so people don't always know what's going on, especially over a phone or audio call.

  • Nov 4, 2020
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    Malakas

    I stutter sometimes , and can speak pretty slowly too, but it’s not that big an issue

    That doesn't seem like a speech impediment to me. Everyone stumbles over words sometimes. Not everyone actually has that extended verbal block that prevents them from saying a word.

  • Nov 4, 2020
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    coze

    That doesn't seem like a speech impediment to me. Everyone stumbles over words sometimes. Not everyone actually has that extended verbal block that prevents them from saying a word.

    I dont know bro, youre probably right but I looked up “silent block” and is more or less what I meant when I said “I speak slowly”

  • Nov 4, 2020

    yeah i kind of have a stutter and i have trouble actually getting the words out sometimes

  • Nov 4, 2020
    Malakas

    I dont know bro, youre probably right but I looked up “silent block” and is more or less what I meant when I said “I speak slowly”

    Speaking slowly is different from not being able to speak at all during those moments. I don't doubt that you struggle with speech, but I'm not sure if it's exactly the same as what OP and I go through. Hope you're able to improve nevertheless!

  • Nov 4, 2020
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    one of my best homies has a speech impediment but instead of stuttering he just doesn’t make any sound for like 4-5 seconds but you can see he’s about to say something, we’re just used to it at this point it aint even awkward or anything

  • Nov 4, 2020
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    Working at a call centre made me realize i use filler words a lot

  • Nov 4, 2020
    mishka

    one of my best homies has a speech impediment but instead of stuttering he just doesn’t make any sound for like 4-5 seconds but you can see he’s about to say something, we’re just used to it at this point it aint even awkward or anything

    Him & I have the same type of speech impediment! Much love to you & the homies for accepting dude for how he is it’s thanks to people like y’all that give us confidence to embrace it

  • Nov 4, 2020

    Is there a link between premature babies and their speech later in life? I was born a week late and had stutters for most of my teenage life

  • Nov 4, 2020
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    coze

    I have a stutter for as long as I can remember. It's had its ups and downs, but it's generally alright the past few years. Comes and goes, really. I can communicate to the point where I can be understood these days, but I wish I could speak more elegantly, you know?

    I think it's mostly psychological because I don't stutter when speaking to people I'm close to or people I don't feel so judged by. With classmates, teachers, and managers? Yeah, I for sure have those blocks you speak of.

    I don't do the whole r-r-r-r-repeating thing. It's just a silent block for me, so people don't always know what's going on, especially over a phone or audio call.

    Oh, 100% I totally agree about wishing to speak more elegantly. I’ve found that if I speak more slowly, it sounds like I’m just choosing my words carefully instead of actually having a block.

    I definitely wish I could do interviews and speak more elegantly. That’s the one time where I wish I didn’t have a stutter. But I found if I’m straight up with the interviewer they understand & it makes me less anxious.

    I have the silent block as well, no repeating. And yeah, I feel like it’s cause you’re close to your relatives & friends & they know your unique quality about you so it masked you less anxious to talk. Thus, not have any silent blocks.

    I find that “exposure therapy” is key to growing comfortable with it. It’s the main reason why I’ve been working at a tech support call center for 3 years, I’ve had awkward phone calls sure but I’ve gotten much more confident & found ways to avoid blocks. Much love to you man. Ty for your reply

  • PIMP 💿
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    My little bro stutter

    Guess you born with it idk, in his situation he's a very emotional person so he's never had a bad experience in life for him to start stuttering early on

    Makes you think fr

  • PIMP 💿
    Nov 4, 2020
    Wocky Slush

    Working at a call centre made me realize i use filler words a lot

    I work dispatching/safety for USA trucks and I don't use filler words at all now that i think about it

  • Nov 4, 2020
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    PIMP

    My little bro stutter

    Guess you born with it idk, in his situation he's a very emotional person so he's never had a bad experience in life for him to start stuttering early on

    Makes you think fr

    Definitely born with it

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    Nov 4, 2020
    BIGSTEPPERDISNEY

    Definitely born with it

    Yeah but i knew people who had bad lives and s*** so i guess u can piece it together cause of that

  • Nov 4, 2020
    DAVIDP

    @Flynn

    ?

  • Nov 4, 2020
    DAVIDP

    @Flynn

    Oh nvm I get it LMAOOOOOO

  • Nov 4, 2020

    I used to have to go to speech therapy for mumbling

    Overall Im good now but its still there somewhat and I wont notice myself even

  • Nov 5, 2020

    i tend to talk really fast and mumble sometimes but idk if that counts

  • Nov 6, 2020
    DAVIDP

    @Flynn