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  • Apr 20, 2022
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    plants

    that said i am seeing a compounding pharmacist and getting my hormones sorted, taking some supplements and vitamins he recommended on top of a few prescriptions, and i hope to be off the Lexapro within a year or less

    I got off after a year aswell , you on the right track

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    Apr 20, 2022
    Zokkon

    I haven't been on any myself

    My friends have and they have mixed opinions. Some have bad side effects including libido suppression, feeling 'muted' etc. Others work just fine with them

    Personally if i take care of myself physically (diet, exercise, sleep) then it helps my mood a lot, especially if I spend time in the sun.

    However it's not as simple as that I think. Having a few goals keeps me dreaming and I also make sure to have a creative outlet.

    ye it's not that simple, different things help different people, but there is some overlap and obviously everyone should have positive wellness practices and lifestyle habits. sometimes it rly is diet, exercise, sleep, etc.

    that's also why i waited so long to try em. i told myself i would only try meds once i exhausted all my other options and well, after 5 years i decided it was time lol

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    I got off after a year aswell , you on the right track

    that's good to hear

  • Apr 20, 2022

    hobbies and working out help a lot

    but in terms of cure, nah

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    You have to tackle the root cause of the depression. The truama, circumstances in life, negative thought patterns, etc.

    All that other s*** (exercise, d****, etc) is mostly a bandaid or it helps aid you to be in a better position to actually tackle the root issue.

  • Apr 20, 2022

    Going on walks and getting the sun really helped me. Pair that with music n some kush

  • Apr 20, 2022
    JaeRell

    You have to tackle the root cause of the depression. The truama, circumstances in life, negative thought patterns, etc.

    All that other s*** (exercise, d****, etc) is mostly a bandaid or it helps aid you to be in a better position to actually tackle the root issue.

    I was thinking today and it’s so many things that could’ve been the root cause.

    Right when it started, I had joined the praise team at my church, which was basically the pastor’s family bullying and verbally abusing anyone with any musical talent. Since I had the most musical experience as a young teenager it hurt me a lot. It was basically, I come to church to play, but while playing the adults would do everything in their power to prove I wasn’t good enough or that they were “above me”. And these were the same people who told me “I’m your biggest fan” and “I’ll always be here for you” all that crap. Then my parents and all the adults in the church told me I was wrong for expressing my concerns because the pastors relatives are “anointed” and that I needed t learn to “submit to leadership” and “ignore wrong notes and all the mean things they say to you and the other people on the team in your age group cuz it’s for the glory of God”. But even though I left the team a couple months ago, I still have this heavy feeling of emptiness and sadness.

    Sorry to rant but yeah 😭 It was such a hard time in my life. That was definitely one of the main causes. I don’t wanna go too deep into it all but that wasn’t the only thing either. But I doubt talking about it with a professional would really help either.

  • Apr 20, 2022

    I find that consistent therapy and keeping my lifestyle in check (exercise, journaling, creative outlets) keeps me feeling good most of the time. There's still those rough spots every now and then. I've thought about medication but I don't want the side effects.

    I don't know if you can ever cure it completely, but management and identifying what triggers your depressive moods are key.

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    BIGSTEPPERDISNEY

    Antidepressants really work lol. You legit can’t be sad while on them, but the downside is all your feelings/emotions get dulled out

    It’s cool to use temporarily, just so you can remove the fog & see the forest from the trees, but not good for long term imo. Gotta be able to feel things!

    So it basically numbs your emotions? What does that feel like” You’re just emotionless all day? That sounds kind of scary to me. I love to laugh

  • Apr 20, 2022

    Y’all I feel so stupid but I really am clueless about a lot of this stuff

  • Apr 20, 2022

    Toxic masculinity

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    beast444

    So it basically numbs your emotions? What does that feel like” You’re just emotionless all day? That sounds kind of scary to me. I love to laugh

    No it just dampens them, doesn’t get rid of them completely. You can still laugh lol

  • Apr 20, 2022

    Going to Coachella

    Only a temporary cure unfortunately

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    beast444

    Do antidepressants actually work? I talked with someone for a few years and it helped a little but I haven’t seen any major improvement.

    I’m not suicidal anymore (thank God), but I still feel sad, mentally and physically exhausted, and feel helpless and worthless most of the time. When I’m around even my beat friends I can still feel lonely. I’m just tired of this. It’s so stressful.

  • Apr 20, 2022

    No

  • Apr 20, 2022

    Depression is what it is. A lot of us are unlucky dealing with it for a lifetime. It’s just the cards we was dealt

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    BIGSTEPPERDISNEY

    No it just dampens them, doesn’t get rid of them completely. You can still laugh lol

    i find anti-depressants keep me mostly stable but i’m heading towards a depressive nihilism lately, and i don’t like that

    i feel like my emotions are repressed into my internal monologue instead of being released by crying or anything else

  • Apr 20, 2022

    eat good food, accomplish stuff, work out, meditate, journal, take baby steps. sometimes even getting out the bed is a w.

    don’t take them pills unless u really have to tho

  • Apr 20, 2022

    also try to identify what happens before / during your depressive times

    there’s typically a trigger, then a reaction, and so forth. having awareness is a great help

    therapy too

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    Where is the panel where I put the pads on the drum break & make the 808 dance over it

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    the thing i hate is that when i have depressive spirals is that i feel like its the only time i start thinking coherently and i want to write things down that im thinking about but i just can't

  • Apr 20, 2022
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    beast444

    Do antidepressants actually work? I talked with someone for a few years and it helped a little but I haven’t seen any major improvement.

    I’m not suicidal anymore (thank God), but I still feel sad, mentally and physically exhausted, and feel helpless and worthless most of the time. When I’m around even my beat friends I can still feel lonely. I’m just tired of this. It’s so stressful.

    this will sound stupid but work out and stretch a lot

    it boosts ur dopamine like deadass

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    fashion killa

    this will sound stupid but work out and stretch a lot

    it boosts ur dopamine like deadass

    what kind of stretching

  • Apr 20, 2022
    BIGSTEPPERDISNEY

    Also exercising is deadass the best way to combat depression

    And eating healthy. Nutrition is so important and another dopamine hit

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