Stop hanging out with yt/swagless people. You might be incompatible
He needs swaggerless friends to go on here and humblebrag
Everywhere I got mfs follow me always they look up 2 me since day1, if you cool be humble and help everyone
Back in 2017 I was chilling with some people, including my friend's girl. I was wearing an ASAP x Guess shirt with a fake Supreme chain and it got her super f***ing wet. She ended up blowing me in front of everyone. It was super awkward
This is by no means a low-key brag post, but I'd love to get your thoughts on this.
I consider myself stylish and a pretty cool person. However, when I'm around my friends, sometimes I feel like they're trying to show me that they're "cool" too. Its weird.
I'll feel self conscious about wearing jewelry around them because I don't want to outshine them. Or even my whole wardrobe in general. I feel like it can be intimidating at times.
Has anyone else experienced this?
Once again - Not trying to brag, but just seeing if anyone else has experienced being "too cool" around your friends.
I know what you mean I felt this way and experienced it. They like your style, and want to emulate it and also “compete” with you. Same way you look at your inspo’s and emulate them. They not weird, you being weird tbh.
Lol are you upset? It seems like this has triggered you.
It's just a feeling I get when I'm hanging out with some of my friends. Like I'm putting pressure on them; which is totally unintentional.
or maybe you’re just inspiring them to want to be more fashionable. like when i hang out w friends who go to the gym a lot, it makes me want to go back to the gym
the fact that you’re framing this as you being “too cool” for them is crazy though. it sounds like you in competition w them which is toxic af. glad i’m not one of your friends lol
I'm not too good for anyone as long as they're a decent person who treats other people with respect. I can always be chill with them.
Quiet luxury >>
Real niggas move in silence
some guys derive their sense of worth from making money, buying bottles and the car they’re driving instead of how they look. you can’t assume everyone values the things you do
Char development
if ur friends are behaving like that they might be insecure
only experienced this when i glowed up significantly
if u change the group dynamics some ppl might try to neg u
Sometimes you grow differently to other people but it doesn't make you better or cooler, make some new friends if you feel like you don't belong
When u go out with your friends and end up being the guy who’s "overdressing"
overdressing was made up but hating ass b****es
I used to feel like I had to nerf myself because people were quick to make assumptions about me but these days I just don’t care it’s not my problem
You shouldn’t have to hide or compromise any part of yourself for friends imo. But also.. why can’t you just talk about this with your guys? It’s not even that serious of a topic to bring up. If it’s not something they’re ever brought up verbally you might just be looking too deep into it
Stop hanging out with yt/swagless people. You might be incompatible
this really it lol I get everything OP saying. once u reach 25 u stop dimming ur light step into your power, find your tribe lol.
Could be autism spectrum and this sounds like an autism spectrum post so do what makes you happy man and try to be kind