Jun 5, 2024·1 replyall of my friends throughout life were cooler than me
everybody can't be cool
Jun 5, 2024All my friends are cooler than me
nephew 🦫Jun 7, 2024i’m da coolest they call me The Vibe . # Nephew Lore
Jun 7, 2024
DaeHanThis is by no means a low-key brag post, but I'd love to get your thoughts on this.
I consider myself stylish and a pretty cool person. However, when I'm around my friends, sometimes I feel like they're trying to show me that they're "cool" too. Its weird.
I'll feel self conscious about wearing jewelry around them because I don't want to outshine them. Or even my whole wardrobe in general. I feel like it can be intimidating at times.
Has anyone else experienced this?
Once again - Not trying to brag, but just seeing if anyone else has experienced being "too cool" around your friends.
I know what you mean
Essentially being the only one in your friend group who would even be on a site like this keeping up with certain trends or dressing better lol
For me ive noticed the dynamic, they even clowned me when i was wearing baggy s*** in like 2018 and then doubled back and jokingly gave me credit for being ahead now that thats in style lmao but it hasnt realy manifested into anything other than jokes and s*** lol
But i get the dynamic u mean bc i assume they clowning you on here lmaooo
- Jun 7, 2024·3 replies
CRACKASTEPPAVEGANAre you uncomfortable because you feel like your friends are competing with you, or you feel like they're below you?
Yep
OP has to also realize these his friends for a reason lmaoo. He prolly wouldnt stand out as much if he hung out with 4 or 5 other equally stylish charismatic attractive dudes which is subconsciously probably why they make op comfortable on top of them probably being “the bros” to begin with lol
Jun 7, 2024How you eatin and you homies starvin
- Jun 7, 2024·1 replybrowser
Yep
OP has to also realize these his friends for a reason lmaoo. He prolly wouldnt stand out as much if he hung out with 4 or 5 other equally stylish charismatic attractive dudes which is subconsciously probably why they make op comfortable on top of them probably being “the bros” to begin with lol
It's lowkey the "pretty girl hangs with 'ugly' friends" stereotype 😭😭
- Jun 7, 2024CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN
It's lowkey the "pretty girl hangs with 'ugly' friends" stereotype 😭😭
Lmaooo i wanted to include this in my post but started doing something else and forgot
But exactly, the good/decent looking/or even outright baddie/pretty girl who friend group is fat chicks and butterfaces lmao
- Jun 7, 2024·1 reply
ill do a write up for this in a while. this somethin ive been feeling for a hot minute around my circle.
- Jun 7, 2024
would never say cool. never. thats borderline bilittling my day 1s. but i do notice i have the most aura when walking into most rooms.
- OPJun 7, 2024browser
Yep
OP has to also realize these his friends for a reason lmaoo. He prolly wouldnt stand out as much if he hung out with 4 or 5 other equally stylish charismatic attractive dudes which is subconsciously probably why they make op comfortable on top of them probably being “the bros” to begin with lol
“ He prolly wouldnt stand out as much if he hung out with 4 or 5 other equally stylish charismatic attractive dudes which is subconsciously probably why they make op comfortable ”
This is incorrect, but go off king
Jun 7, 2024
LordPrettyFlackoJRNah ppl just try to humble u
I consider myself very cool, but on a daily basis I talk with homeless folks, people considered as "weird" whatever
If ur cool, u fit everywhere
That's what makes u cool
The way u carry yourself in your own norms
But those norms being fluid enough for u to be accessible everywhereUr not too cool for anything really
That's arroganceIt's the ppl around u, that will make u feel uncomfortable for being you, a cool person
Cause they're insecure and not cool with themselves:'//
- Jun 7, 2024·1 replybrowser
Yep
OP has to also realize these his friends for a reason lmaoo. He prolly wouldnt stand out as much if he hung out with 4 or 5 other equally stylish charismatic attractive dudes which is subconsciously probably why they make op comfortable on top of them probably being “the bros” to begin with lol
most niggas is not judging they friends like that bro, always boosted my niggas never even thought of our differences or short comings
thats some female s*** fr
- Jun 7, 2024
MarleezyUncomfortable being yourself ?
- Jun 7, 2024cotton
most niggas is not judging they friends like that bro, always boosted my niggas never even thought of our differences or short comings
thats some female s*** fr
I feel you but thats literally the premise of the whole thread lmao and to an extent you too on the post on this page
Jun 7, 2024
PushaToThe2 cool 4 school 😎
Jun 7, 2024·1 replyThe internet is so crazy because someone will post something so ridiculous to you, then 100 people will rally with them. Makes you start reflecting over some stupid s*** 😭
Jun 9, 2024·2 repliesPost a fit
Jun 9, 2024el conquistadorThe internet is so crazy because someone will post something so ridiculous to you, then 100 people will rally with them. Makes you start reflecting over some stupid s*** 😭
or some s*** that you thought was stupid
Jun 9, 2024This thread title makes me scoff everytime I see it
Jun 12, 2024DaParkDogPost a fit
- Jun 12, 2024
Being irl cooler than your friends can be exhausting for me bc i feel pressured to maintain the appearance, and i don’t really get vulnerable with my emotions around them, but i do appreciate the ego boost.
I’ve noticed there are terminally online people who think they’re cool bc they follow all these online trends and have niche interests that normies don’t know about, but a lot of it comes as cringe, and they can come off as the guy standing at the corner of a party judging everyone meme. R/redscarepod is v guilty of this, although they’re washed by internet standards too
Jun 12, 2024Yep, crabs in a bucket sometimes